dollynnn:
Marry a man who respects you,love is not enough!

Love does not exist without respect.

GCHUB is a scam site for trading gift cards and bitcoins pls avoid that site

No to judge at all. He said he's "happily" married for 3 years before the "correctional-intentional slap happened. I've had a few beautiful women as exes, trust me, these people can nag you to slap yourself, your mom and the school principal of your secondary School, your boss and even your pastor.
Hitting a spouse is abuse and shouldn't be condoned. He fell for something he should have learnt from several relationships.
Pastors, family members, soldiers and friends are tired of interfering in matters like these again, police was the next option. Dem go happily collect bail still warn am not to touch the woman Lol.
Nigeria owes each of it's citizens, we deserve therapists at least once everyday. Whether married, civil servant, STUDENT, each of us all.

This man is a glorified idiot.

She's married to vivianRora?? That babe used to be the number one clout chaser in Twitter. I've not been seeing her for the last 5 months or so.

Kelvinhunta:
Every marriage has their own fair share of ups and downs,in d midst of any martial problems If anyone am married to get me arrested then am done with the marriage.it doesn't mean who is right or wrong. It's called family matter for a reason and d last time I checked police is not family. There are many ways to correct your husband other than arresting him or running ur mouth.

The "family" in marriage refers to the man and woman in the marriage. In the case than an issue is beyond their handling, the sensible thing to do is call the authorities in to help resolve the situation.

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


Is the idiot realy serious? He even compared his wife to his mother’s generation who he claims endured worse than slaps. Kai!

That dude doesn't have an idea that his wife has been the one running his home that why she has the right to lock his ass up after the hot slap..Man up this isn't the 80s most women of our generation are now rebels...LOL

It's actually a joke

Ournolly:

Love does not exist without respect.

Also, fear is not respect and not love.

Product from horrible father and poor home bringing.

Correctional slap!!! Oghene really create people....

Sonnobax15:

Were you expecting any sensible talk from an aboki before?

Stop being tribalistic......it's in every tribe, that they didn't post it on social media didn't mean it doen't exist elsewhere....

How can u slap ur wife?? It looks harmless until u do it twice and then it becomes normal to beat her up.

She is a lazy wife,too bad you woke up ,the moment u got arrested. At least factory reset for your brain sure die. Why slap her,u for use belt,bt her back,belt her face,turn am to Japanese by pulping ,all those kind kidnappers caught and beaten to pulp kind of face. What nonsense

Dogmatism- the order of the day. People have lost their mind so they condemn what majority do and accept accordingly. How will a woman arrest her husband.? You better be gone before the man returns

Sonnobax15:

Were you expecting any sensible talk from an aboki before?

Charx122:
That dude doesn't have an idea that his wife has been the one running his home that why she has the right to lock his ass up after the hot slap..Man up this isn't the 80s most women of our generation are now rebels...LOL

After watching their mothers get abused for putting their all into marriage, and still end up holding the bag at the end, why wouldn't they turn rebels?

Sonnobax15:

Were you expecting any sensible talk from an aboki before?

It is slurs like this that we fight against. As if people from your fathers village don’t do worse.

Kelvinhunta:
Every marriage has their own fair share of ups and downs,in d midst of any martial problems If anyone am married to get me arrested then am done with the marriage.it doesn't mean who is right or wrong. It's called family matter for a reason and d last time I checked police is not family. There are many ways to correct your husband other than arresting him or running ur mouth.

Na them be this

Another aboki spotted

dollynnn:
Marry a man who respects you,love is not enough!

Well all I have to say is make my wife no go do wetin go make me slap her one day. And if she retaliate omo na straight beating

Exactly my point! What happened to having a heart to heart discussions with d husband at mid night and tell him ur grievances then watch him apologize trulyfrom his heart and take corrections?or reporting him to elders in d family?all these feminists have destroyed wife values in women and changed them to knives.Exactly y Adams ist wife left and she was replaced with eve

Ellegacy:
To be be honest, couples have their misunderstanding but they must be ready to resolve them. Two wrongs doesn't make a right

Cokahot:
She is a lazy wife,too bad you woke up ,the moment u got arrested. At least factory reset for your brain sure die. Why slap her,u for use belt,bt her back,belt her face,turn am to Japanese by pulping ,all those kind kidnappers caught and beaten to pulp kind of face. What nonsense

So you think it would just have been better if he had been arrested for assault with a weapon?

Maxymilliano:
Lol ... Aboki will always be aboki .. Treating women as conquered slaves

Looool, name your ethnic group and tribe and let’s see if your father’s people don’t do worse. Nobody is defending him, but generalizing Hausa-Fulani doesn’t cut it

Hmmm; and the name Tarfa is from my beautiful state Adamawa

sammirano3:
Dogmatism- the order of the day. People have lost their mind so they condemn what majority do and accept accordingly. How will a woman arrest her husband.? You better be gone before the man returns

So, the women should have slapped him back or maybe stabbed him in defense?
Or maybe you are thinking she ought to have taken the beaten as her lot, right?

Kobojunkie:
Sacred in what way? Stop dragging God into that wey Him tell you say no be by force.

I don't quite get what your issue is here...

If marriage is not sacred, what then is it?!!

Naija made simp spotted

elonmuskbaby:
Na them be this

Another aboki spotted

Kobojunkie:
Because he has that hat on, you conclude he must be an aboki?

For crying out loud, what he said is no different from what many of the non-abokis here on nairaland recite each day as an anthem where women are concerned.

do you think the guy has sense?. Many Nigerians, especially nonmuslims are becoming more and more intolerant+ignorance+bigot.

Zegemi:
What exactly were you expecting from "Yusuf Tarfa"?

For goodness sake, before you place a huge expectation from someone's brain, please consider the name.

We’ve seen people from your father’s saying and doing worse though

JuanJO:

Well all I have to say is make my wife no go do wetin go make me slap her one day. And if she retaliate omo na straight beating

So it is her fault if you violently assault her and not yours for being violent to begin with?

Sonnobax15:

Were you expecting any sensible talk from an aboki before?

piq

Kobojunkie:
So, the women should have slapped him back or maybe stabbed him in defense?
Or maybe you are thinking she ought to have taken the beaten as her lot, right?

A woman without the right approach to such slap is not fit to be married. You dont cross some lines.