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shaybebaby:
Sigh! Kids gravitate to those who SHOW love, care and attention.
The brain actually secretes hormones ( oxytocin) during the acts of caring which helps bonding.

Men lose out because women are mostly the primary caregiver, who engage in those acts. We spend more time with the kids, ergo..stronger bond.

Keep acting all macho like not getting involved in everyday care of your kids, thinking everything is money. The natural result is that they might be taught duty to you but will not feel real love.

So if you want the same love and consideration, be more involved.

shaybebaby:
That's all your brain can come up with?

Beebah2000:
Wawa I no understand

SimplyFacts:
In relation to this topic, it means 'never get enslaved/blindfolded by a woman's affection'.

It's believed that, regardless of the love professed, a woman would always go for a higher bidder because (mostly) men are wired to compete for a woman. So it's advisable to avoid running after a girl, put all the strength in becoming the higher bidder & watch her fall for you naturally.

The problem now is that getting addicted to red pills would make you feel less romantically. Even when you finally have time for romance or love, you would realize you can no longer give love. One would continue to choose (let's say) career/money over love. That's why most big boys & rich men don't value women's love that much. They treat women like trash & move on to the next easily.

Hyerin:
Don't mind them. They love forming alpha and omega. They pride themselves on not showing emotions and base their entire worth solely on the ability to provide; there's barely involvement in the domestic sphere nor do they attempt to bond with their kids. Later they'll start crying when their kids don't gravitate towards them and blame their shortcomings on women for being evil and manipulative; for feeding the kids lies about their father. Can you imagine? The adherents of red pill are cosmically retarded.

SimplyFacts:
In relation to this topic, it means 'never get enslaved/blindfolded by a woman's affection'.

It's believed that, regardless of the love professed, a woman would always go for a higher bidder because (mostly) men are wired to compete for a woman. So it's advisable to avoid running after a girl, put all the strength in becoming the higher bidder & watch her fall for you naturally.

zexy2030:
Odeh olo orun..shioor..

Beebah2000:
okay

zexy2030:
Odeh olo orun..shioor..

It’s normal for your genitals to have a light smell that you might call an odor. Usually other people around you don’t notice it, so there’s no need to stress about it.

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/i-have-an-odor-around-my-private-parts-how-do-i-get-rid-of-it

Kobojunkie:
So all this is a reaction to fear of being "enslaved/blindfolded" by a woman's affection?

I keep seeing these as people with twisted-up and tangled-up emotional issues, who rather than learn known ways to properly, and maturedly engage these emotions, seek out some of the most unhealthy of ways to instead 'escape' them.

Jman06:
And you have just displayed your daftness by not following my conversation on this thread before mentioning me.

A red pilled brother was about to lose track and fall back into the shenanigans of vagina people, therefore I had to come to his rescue to help him maintain track. It is my responsibility to help as many guys as possible who are willing to break free from shackles of vagina people and embrace his masculinity.

No more simping

Jman06:
From your naration alone, one can see that women are mostly the beneficiaries of marriage. The children show them all the love while the man is left on his own.

Because I love children, I may consider adoption or I'll just be visiting orphanages to see and play with children. As for marriage, it absolutely adds no benefit to a man.

Hyerin:
Please stop lumping feminism with red pill because there's no single correlation between them whatsoever. Feminism is a legit body of knowledge that can even be studied in schools. It is also a movement that fights against sex-based oppression. What does redpill actually do for men? Or society as a whole?

You might have valid criticisms for feminists/feminism and that's okay but it makes no sense to make comparisons to red pill. Please let's all be guided.

Nemesis0147:
The other guy that use to shout Nigeria girls are useless up and down...I came across one of his thread where he killed a snake.
D guy still dy village dy hunt for snakes and he is here shouting up and down.
Time wey dy suppose use work on their self...they will be bashing women,,forming hard guy and na their mumsy still they feed them!

Ndidi2:
is bc mostly m with them.
Men can't baby-sit.
They love their dad too
Just dat he is not always around but makes it up for us..

Jman06:
From your naration alone, one can see that women are mostly the beneficiaries of marriage. The children show them all the love while the man is left on his own.

Because I love children, I may consider adoption or I'll just be visiting orphanages to see and play with children. As for marriage, it absolutely adds no benefit to a man.

Kobojunkie:
On my street alone there are at least 5 dads who, every week day, ready their kids for school and walk them to take the bus in the morning. Then in the afternoon, the same dads walk out to the same bus stop to pick up from there kids and proceed to tackle after-school programs with them.

You declare here that men can't babysit, and I am curious to know why? Are the men you know of born imbe-ciles or something?

zexy2030:
Isale ni

DrFunmisticGlow:
that's just you. They are the minorities

Kobojunkie:
I didn't even include myself in that picture and what minority do you refer to?

My own father raised the same in that same Nigeria many decades ago. He drove us to get the bus in the morning, picked us on his way back from home after work and cooked when there was nothing already prepared for us at home. Same with many of his friends, in the same Ikorodu areas I grew up in.

So do explain to me why you believe only a minority of men can babysit.

DrFunmisticGlow:
women are not the major beneficiaries of marriage, it's men.

All these XY chromosomes can't even look after themselves. It is proven that marriage increases a man's life expectancy and reduces a woman's.

DrFunmisticGlow:
they're two sides of the same coin

DrFunmisticGlow:
taking a child to school is not the same as babysitting

Ndidi2:
is bc mostly m with them.
Men can't baby-sit.
They love their dad too
Just dat he is not always around but makes it up for us.



Ok born one and adopt one.

When u marry
u will be more stable..
God go bring u a good wife.( My prayer and wish for u).
U go see am.

Kobojunkie:
How old are you?

Seek education and stop bodyshaming others thinking yourself better for it.

raymondhillmimi:
Please what is Redpill? Is it a drug or something cause am confused.

MrBrownJay1:
thats what happens when you foolishly/blindly follow a trend that you have no clue about, listening to ignorant children on NL feeding you ignorant rubbish. the movement should simply be ABOUT BEING STRONGER (EMOTIONALLY) WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN, AND CERTAINLY NOT TO AVOID/DISREGARD/DEMONIZE WOMEN!