pocohantas:


There is nothing like really wants to marry him. On mo account should a Nigerian woman marry a Nigerian man without her family’s support.

effort1:


Paper certificate is not an upgrade. It is just paper certificate. Let us stop behaving like mental slaves please

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

GraciousGod190:


i suspected as much, she once told me to further though but I knocked it off.
it never occurred to me it would matter.

GraciousGod190:

i understand you sir, when I heard it yesterday I was hurt deep down. I felt low, felt intimidated.
i do love my girlfriend, but how can a 36 year old man goes back to school because he wants to get married to a girl?.

i can make other meaningful sacrifices, but definitely not This.
thanks.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

Jemmysax:
Thank God u have SSCE. It's not too late brother, u can still get yourself a degree, I'm sure the family will have a change of mind once they get the news that u're now enrolled into one tertiary institution.

SocialJustice:
You don't sound smart, see the way you dey talk any how, I sure say you done go talk like mumu there too.

If she can't convince her people, omo find your way. Everything is not about money or being able to provide.

If e pain you well well, start part time.

School no be scam finally.

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

Aforxzy:
Why not have a discussion with your babe again and know the real reason behind this SSCE thingy. What led to it and how did she react. Did she just accept their excuse without a fight back orshe is with you despite this.

If you trully love each other then love will conquer this too.

GraciousGod190:


why would I go for Ssce or bsc ?
i go for love, the reason I wanted to marry her is because I love her for who she is, not because of her certificates whatsoever.
we are perfectly fitted since our 4years of dating.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

muykem:
You can go back to school. I can't allow my daughter to marry illiterate even if he's a billionaire.

descarado:

You never loved her.
No need. Move on

pocohantas:




When I talk, one redpiller will start quoting me with terrible English.

Despite the fact that our mothers married early, if you come for their 20yrs old daughters in 2021, they will pursue you! Affliction shall not rise a second time. They will tell you to allow her to graduate. Next they’ll tell you to allow her to serve. Then they will tell you to allow her to get a job. All this is to buy time!

The major exception is if you both are relatively young or they are so broke they need you to elevate. If not, they will look out for their daughter because the kind of men you would meet when you are working in KPMG is different from the ones you meet as a broke undergraduate.

If you are a man above 34, you must bring more to the table. If you want a very young educated girl from a middle class home, you must make her very comfortable. She can’t be trekking under hot sun and jumping Obalende bus with a man that conductors would mistake for her uncle/father.

dahmie2013:

My brother, seeking knowledge has nothing to do with age. This attitude is not the best. I still advise you go to school and upgrade yourself.

muykem:
You can go back to school. I can't allow my daughter to marry illiterate even if he's a billionaire.

TOPCRUISE:

Asides the fact that you are self employed If you have a property or something tangible that can make them convinced that you are strong financially both present and future and that their daughter will not suffer in your hands do so. They are skeptical about your goals and future ambitions

Guyman02:

I senior you well well and I am doing a part time programme in a Polytechnic at weekends and enjoying it, I have my seniors in the class that we have formed a bond, some have patronized me that I met in the school to boost my business, do it for yourself and the woman you love not because of her family.
It's nothing much to worry about, knowledge is endless.

From your written English it will be a smooth sail to pass your courses, my wife is a Master Degree and well placed.
I took up upgrading myself as a personal challenge starting ND 1 at my age

dahmie2013:

My brother, seeking knowledge has nothing to do with age. This attitude is not the best. I still advise you go to school and upgrade yourself.

GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

dahmie2013:

My brother, seeking knowledge has nothing to do with age. This attitude is not the best. I still advise you go to school and upgrade yourself.

Guyman02:

I senior you well well and I am doing a part time programme in a Polytechnic at weekends and enjoying it, I have my seniors in the class that we have formed a bond, some have patronized me that I met in the school to boost my business, do it for yourself and the woman you love not because of her family.
It's nothing much to worry about, knowledge is endless.

From your written English it will be a smooth sail to pass your courses, my wife is a Master Degree and well placed.
I took up upgrading myself as a personal challenge starting ND 1 at my age

KillingIsFun:
The syntactic and grammatical quality of his written English is nowhere near as good as he thinks it is. It may be better than others with his level of education, but it lacks the degree of fluency associated with a good University education.