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Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by tarantino1: 1:54pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
0m0nnakoda: Leave that guy with his wonky grammar. Imagine someone like that telling someone to upgrade himself. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Asapchris(m): 1:55pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Same here bro, my 3 relationships ended because of SSCE, only one man said assuming I have ND he can still allow but ssce I should forget it. Omo na so I wrote jamb and read like I want to compete with the world. Brother motivate yourself. You can still meet up and marry a better woman. So forget years you spent with the lady. Note: learn more skills while schooling bro. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by rolams(m): 1:55pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Go school na 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Elporo(m): 1:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
toren: Thank you Mrs. Please try to comment more on issue like these we need more descent and directed women on this forum. Again, thank you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by portathena: 1:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Mister,I blame your girlfriend sha.she knows the type of parents she has and she kept on deceiving you because of money she was gaining..... When I was single I had many men like you who were truly interested in me but I just gave them a clear "I no go marry you attitude".money is not enough o... 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by 0m0nnakoda: 1:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77:You conflate a degree with education They are not the same thing You talk about marrying "your level" . This is a concept that makes sense perhaps in your mind. What poxy level are you talking about. The most important level in Nigeria is the neighbourhood where you grow up. That is what determines who you know and how doors open for you If you went to King's College in the 70s or 80s you were better positioned whether or not you had a degree, to go far in life . There are a few other secondary schools with that level of elitist privilege and exposure. Fact!! That is where you learn to mix with elites not by getting useless degrees If you grow up in Ikoyi degree or no degree you are automatically on a different level from those who grow up in Ajegunle. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Kirkman: 2:00pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Leave with whatever dignity is left of you and don't push the matter further, as far as you can read and write and you can transact you business dealings without any fuss with your customers. You nor kill person abeg. Run your business successfully and stack that paper. Upgrade your education further at your own will and discretion. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 2:00pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
effort1: Isaac newton was not as rich as Mark Zuckerberg, but because of him, the cars you drive and stuffs were engineered. You need to think more of life than money. You have money but can't actually improve life, or build something just like the owner of tesla elon musk. Have you seen an interview elon musk had with Jack ma? Go watch it and see how foolish and dumb jack ma was. Elon musk was angry he was debating with a fool who only has money but not knowledge. Example of this. Elon musk is building a car which you can drive without fuel, building space ships, and what is the so called mark doing? He has money yes, but of course he lacks the ability to build new things that are beyond his scope, because he can't really read, or how else should I present it? Also, remember mark was in school when Facebook launched, he stole it from some who is more intelligent than he was. There are so many types of schools. Either you learn a skill and get a certificate in a school that is not calleda university, or you do that in a university. And the mark is learned he is a programmer or developer and he learnt the skill and has a paper certificate to prove that. He just didn't become an engineer, these are the difference 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by trevorhorace(m): 2:00pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
shantti: So that he can get married?? . What if he doesn't want to? He's already educated. Ssce is a very acceptable level of basic education. University is for advanced studies not a tradition that must be fulfilled. He's already educated in the skill of running his business perfectly. So he may not see the need of going further. Please understand the true concept of education. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by tarantino1: 2:01pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Elporo: Chairman why you edit your post. I actually read it. The girl you mentioned isn't the first and she won't be the last. Her types can be found everywhere in this country. And that's the 'philosophical' educational experience they want the guy to undergo in order to upgrade himself. Bunch of clowns |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by IfnobeGod20: 2:01pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Just try and find your level. Go marry FSLC holder please and leave our learned lady for a learned man. Please upgrade yourself first before asking her hand in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by 0m0nnakoda: 2:02pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
tarantino1:Funny dude. I can say with conviction that if you attended a good secondary school you are educated already. Everything else is just icing on the cake and even after getting a PhD the signs of an impoverished start are not very difficult to discern 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by tfelicityk(m): 2:03pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Bro if that your girlfriend really love and can manage you for who you are. She will stand by you. 2. Besides, what actually makes you want to marry her? 3. Try to get yourself enrolled in NOUN... Then go back to tell your girlfriend family that you are undergraduate of NOUN... |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by jacoik(m): 2:04pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:I love your gut man!!!! Taking decision is what makes you a man. So illiterate billionaire can't marry abi? Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by effort1: 2:05pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
TheOldGods: Let's remind your cursed head that this is not the 17th century of Isaac Newton; rather, this is the 21st century, where you don't have to go to school before you get things done and even become an inventor. Your brain is fixated on the stone age. Wake up to reality of the present age and quit making a fool of yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Benzemma(m): 2:06pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Godbless3: Infact you are wiser than Budweiser. Oil full your brain guy. There is no atom of love, like and respect from the girl at all. She is not even willing to have him as boyfriend not to talk of having him as a husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 2:06pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
effort1:ofcourse as usual you can't make a comment without an insult. It's obvious 2 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by trevorhorace(m): 2:07pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
TheOldGods: That's where you are wrong bro. First of all education in itself is a personal responsibility. Schools where built to structure and provide formal education. Universities were specifically created by entrepreneurs to train and create more workers to improve their businesses . The narrative has changed by now making Universities the Hallmark of education. This is an erroneous premise that the society has absorbed. That's why acquiring certificates is placed on a higher pedestal than actual creativity and production. Thomas Edison and Da Vinci and many took their education into their own hands. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by effort1: 2:08pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
TheOldGods: Because it is absurd that someone in this age and time will reason as daft as you do |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 2:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
trevorhorace: Changes to what if I may ask? Perhaps we should stop training doctors in the university, I guess after all they can only have ssce and do operations, by just meeting a doctor in a clinic and learn without having a certificate. I am a lab scientist, yes but I don't practice it, I went into animation, and I make more than my friends, but I can tell you, I want to go and learn computer science as a new course or masters if possible, because there is a lot I don't really know, no matter how much I ask google 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Spherical77(m): 2:16pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
0m0nnakoda:At the verge of seeking for knowledge (formal or informal) you got certified I.e lawyer, doctor, mechanic, streamstress et al. Such kinda person can best be addressed as " he's well educated in law" he's well enlightened in automechanic or whataview. The kings college you used as a case study got a school cert at the end of their 6 years mentorship which can be term as education How many Nigerians had the opportunity to live in an eyebrowed estate in ikoyi, lekki, banana island, VGC et al? Very few fraction of them If you reside in lekki with just a school cert and i base on the mainland, Festac or isolo for instance. Got my degree in any of the first generation schools in Nigeria with a first class or even a strong 2.1 and well vast in my chosen field. Trust me we ain't on the same level (intellect per say) No matter how rich you are, if you don't have power then you ain't complete yet Atiku, Tinubu and the likes are all running to become the president. Not mainly because of the money but power, the affluence, the prestige, the name et al. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Israeldan1(m): 2:16pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Oga u sef na wa to you oo Na her family wan marry una The girl sef no get brain for her family to spoil the person she wants to marry if she truly want to marry you for sure u guys can move on And Bleep family Shea na family go live life for una ? Somtimes I wonder y people no day think and them tell you this kind thing bcus u are ssce holder that means you can’t marry her na off sense talk b dat School good oo but it can’t decide marriage 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Benzemma(m): 2:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
sammirano3: Hope you did not mean all this you typed, because life is not always what we want it to be. Remember man proposes, God disposes. Will you kill your daughter for choosing to marry ssce holder she loves instead of a BSC holder she does not love? Or would you want her to keep searching for a degree holder she Will love, even when she no longer young? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by seglabsy(m): 2:18pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:BRO NOUN IS THERE FOR YOU,JUST TRY IT,IT IS WELL |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Starzo: 2:19pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
mibrims:You're the illiterate here if you think someone with an ssce and can speak/write decent English is an illiterate. Some of una just go waste money for school. Nothing enter una head. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by djon78(m): 2:19pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: There is a kind of woman a man will marry he will Never reach a particular level in life. While there is a type you will marry, she will stretch you and stretch you till you break the ceiling of limitations The woman a man married is very very very important. The family judging the op because of ssce is not even the ideal It's not all about certificates What the op should be looking for is a woman that will stretch him, support him, give him wise counsel on how to be better, improve his business and investments etc That to me is what is called wife material Many young men go and marry women that adds no iota of value to there life That's why we have many struggling young men out there The person you marry is the most important desicion you will take in this life One must Choose well 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by trevorhorace(m): 2:20pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
TheOldGods: Hope you know the field of medicine existed way longer than the concept of University ever existed. Every thing taught in the college of medicine wer discovered through personal education. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Israeldan1(m): 2:20pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Family can’t decide for her Let her knw that, expect she still day chop from her mama pot |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Starzo: 2:20pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
tarantino1:Nor mind them They form wetin Dem nor be |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 2:23pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
trevorhorace:really? And infectious diseases killed billions of people. Ordinary malaria killed for year's. Or not to think about the eradication of a lot of things like lice etc. Ask your grandfather, how there health care was back then |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by djon78(m): 2:23pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
jericco1: Story story story Love from where Most of you guys are very very funny |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Israeldan1(m): 2:23pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
But if she truly loves you she won’t listen to her family but if she no love you.... Na this kind mata u go knw if she love you or not..... if she listens to her family my guy abeg move on girls full everywhere u will see the one who is better than her that’s life for you.. Na money be koko and not qualification |
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