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Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by hardon1(m): 12:07pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
pocohantas: Ur opinion |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 12:08pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
effort1:this is the most stupid nonsense I have read here in a while. And im sure it's coming from a person who has no degree. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by joyandfaith: 12:08pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: I believe every person should have at least a national diploma. Ssce is like primary school certifcate of 70s. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by SocialJustice: 12:09pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:You don't sound smart, see the way you dey talk any how, I sure say you done go talk like mumu there too. If she can't convince her people, omo find your way. Everything is not about money or being able to provide. If e pain you well well, start part time. School no be scam finally. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Lostchild(m): 12:09pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: There is no time left. Marriage is a choice between two people, until your girl understand this. If you have so much money from your business, hey will not give any dumb excuse. Education will not bless you, It is God that will bless you. I learn to be very proud of God and know my self worth. If your girl can't marry you because of your education. Then close heart and let her go. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by pek(m): 12:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Move on. And don't let anyone intimate you into taking steps you didn't plan. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Nobody: 12:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:My man de only way 2 stop all dis nonsense is 2 get her Pregnant, If u pregnant am nw, case closed, de issue is dat u must marry her by den 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by princewarri1985: 12:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:BROS THE BABE DON USE BRAIN DISCHARGE YOU, OPEN YOUR EYES AND DONT BE STUPID 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by chariiks(m): 12:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
So all the degree holders that married fellow graduates are compatible.Book are what enlarges the mind of an individual. Besides degree is not the only source of knowledge. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Raph82(m): 12:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Don't sound that way, u should see that as a challenge to make headway in ur education. Stuffs like this motivate me to break hard nuts. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 12:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Jemmysax: Nonsense advice. By then, dude will be like 41 or 42 because say him wan marry babe. And na from him pocket money for bride price and wedding go comot o |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 12:11pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
SocialJustice:school was never and can't ever be scam Imagine without this same school, no body would have found covid vaccine, na so all of us go die, a bi what about malaria, you don even see illiterate produce drug? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by yunqdady: 12:11pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:I support the family. It's very obvious you aren't educated. 5 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 12:11pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Aforxzy: No be everything love dey conquer abeg |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by elbaraj2020(m): 12:11pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
[quote author=GraciousGod190 post=106866431] i understand you sir, when I heard it yesterday I was hurt deep down. I felt low, felt intimidated. i do love my girlfriend, but how can a 36 year old man goes back to school because he wants to get married to a girl?. i can make other meaningful sacrifices, but definitely not This. thanks. This same notion of "how can a 36 year old man go back to school" is actually the problem, back then in school some of my course mates were above 50 and they were doing just fine like some of us that were young, if you feel you are too old for conventional universities then why not go to National Open University? That's where you will find a whole lots of men and women who are older, richer, poorer, intelligent, duller infact anything you can think of than you... Just like most people are saying, not like you are inferior to others but u need not to be told to do the needful...if sponsorship is actually the problem then it's a different ball game entirely...thank u |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Nobody: 12:12pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Just get her pregnant as soon as possible mak her Mum nd brother com Abort am mak i see 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by womenareapess: 12:12pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:I doubt this guys is an ssce holder You make up fvcked up story just to get trend Why? Anybody who believe this guy is an ssce holder can believe anything that comes out of the mouths of lie Muhammed |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 12:13pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
muykem: A SSCE holder is not an illiterate. If you think so, then you're most likely an educated illiterate 14 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by advanceDNA: 12:13pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
descarado: So he should go for a 4 year bsc at 36...u people should be realistic abeg... Will the girl wait for another 4 years.. It's not about SSCE...they just don't like the guy...SSCE is just the annoying excuse they could find... If graciousgod190 is very rich....his certificate would never have come at all... It would have been a case of bwing impressive for acheiving so much without a degree.. Which kind yeye family is that... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Coolabbie: 12:14pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
pocohantas:I can so relate. My parents married very early. In fact, my mama don born all her children finish at my age. But my papa no even wan hear 'mar' not to talk of 'rriage' from me now. He will ask me where I am rushing to or who dey pursue me. His own na to send me every news about NOI, Christine Lagarde, Chimamanda et al. But I just want to be a baby girl So when I see some girls talking about pressure from family to marry, I find it difficult to relate. Indeed, times are a changing. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by DropsMic(m): 12:14pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
dahmie2013: Your mentality is toxic |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by michigang: 12:14pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
muykem:so an ssce holder is an illiterate.? Nawa for people 4 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by TheOldGods: 12:14pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
TOPCRUISE: Exactly, I think this is the only way they can let there daughter go. If you have assets, and it's worth a lot over the years, they will be convinced enough that, if you go broke, and can't get a job because you have ordinary ssce, then you have something to fall back on 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 12:15pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Guyman02: There's nothing upgrading about naija's education system. Na just certificate abeg 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by UPMIKE: 12:15pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
I don't think it's her family. My mind tells me that it's her excuse but using her family as a cover up. Did you contribute to her education? ASK HER WHAT HER OPINION IS. DOES SHE STILL LOVE YOU? OP, BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT THAT GIRL. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Forgodsgrace: 12:15pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
dahmie2013: All the people wey go schoool get Bsc,MSc,PhD. Wetin be the outcome ?Go to Alaba international ,Trade Fair,Idumota ,Ladipo,computer village 90% of business owners there are school cert. holders controlling graduates. Most of our footballers are sch cer. Holders getting married to PhD holders. With all your sch you end up seeking for 30 thousand naira job. Everything no be by university and That family serious reorientation . 7 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ConqueredWest: 12:16pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: Did you at any time paid for her school fees or accomodation.? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ojasweb(m): 12:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
dahmie2013: Do you think this OP is not knowledgeable? If the family can tell him not to marry their daughter because he doesn't have a BSc, they will most likely cause bigger problem in his life even if he has the said certificate. Not having a particular degree doesn't mean someone is not ready to acquire knowledge. In today's world, higher education degrees mostly favors the academicians. If they like him, they could simply advice him and tell him why they think having a higher degree will help his life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Joefat: 12:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
OP. I went through some of the comments right here, some are fabulous to take a note of and some are well educated and with nothing on their head. Let me tell you this. Not everyone of us will have the opportunity to be educated, neither by your parents or by yourself. But best things you can achieve in life is self happiness. Do what makes you happy. Imagine when you finished your Ssce, you had an opportunity to travel to USA and with four years, you came back to asked her for a marriage. Will her parents turned you down? Even when they know your education background. A relationship of four years. I expect your GF to Know much about you and I expect her to stand up for you in situation like this. So my brother do what makes you happy. Life is all about happy and money. If being educate is the way forward in Nigeria. Nobody will be here responding to your post. Because everyone should be working at Aso Rock or NNPC. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by michigang: 12:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Guyman02:how did you win the battle with your lower qualification? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 12:18pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
KillingIsFun: Lmao. Something dey touch for una head o. Do they teach how to speak good English in the university? I spoke better English when I was in secondary school. Na then we were taught how to speak sweet English. Our professors for university sef no fit speak better English. They're good in their area of expertise sha. My point: University education no go make you speak better English 5 Likes |
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