I am sick and tired of the many sob stories I read about women on Nairaland...

...BY MEN

There is no single day that passes we will not see a guy post about some silly things he is facing in his relationship

As usual, men will come and bash Nigerian women in the comments.

Some will in turn call the man a simp.

And the cycle continues. Day in, day out.

If it is not how the girl is cheating after all the love and care,

it will be about how she is denying the guy sex.

Or how she is disrespectful. Or she is an unappreciative gold digger.

At the end of such posts, you will see a question like

"What should I do?"

Honestly it's nauseating and annoying reading some of the stories here by guys.

When will Nigerian men realize that whatever vices or misbehaviour a woman displays in a relationship

The men are the biggest enablers.

Men complain that their women like money too much

Yet when a girl post pictures you see men flocking in the DMs asking for account details.

I think it was some months ago some silly he goat sent 100k or thereabouts thanking a girl for replying his DM.

FOR REPLYING HIS DM!

Christ!

Men will pedestalize ordinary girls.

When the she messes up instead of him to thrash things out, and tell her off

He will be beg

Probably because he doesn't want to see her go.

Women detest weak men.

Weak men are not good for society.

Men should show some leadership.

Stop using money to buy love.

Stop tolerating nonsense from one badly raised girl because she gives you sex

There are many well behaved women out there.

If you want them beatiful and rich or financially comfortable you will find them.

Work on yourself and build your character

Anyways, what you give is what you will get.

The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage

Nice post @op

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Nothing but the truth. Simps are our problems

Majority of those that bash people here are simps hiding in their shells. Lantern no dey see it won yansh Na other e dey see.

Gynn:
I am sick and tired of the many sob stories I read about women on Nairaland...

...BY MEN

There is no single day that passes we will not see a guy post about some silly things he is facing in his relationship

As usual, men will come and bash Nigerian women in the comments.

Some will in turn call the man a simp.

And the cycle continues. Day in, day out.

If it is not how the girl is cheating after all the love and care,

it will be about how she is denying the guy sex.

Or how she is disrespectful. Or she is an unappreciative gold digger.

At the end of such posts, you will see a question like

"What should I do?"

Honestly it's nauseating and annoying reading some of the stories here by guys.

When will Nigerian men realize that whatever vices or misbehaviour a woman displays in a relationship

The men are the biggest enablers.

Men complain that their women like money too much

Yet when a girl post pictures you see men flocking in the DMs asking for account details.

I think it was some months ago some silly he goat sent 100k or thereabouts thanking a girl for replying his DM.

FOR REPLYING HIS DM!

Christ!

Men will pedestalize ordinary girls.

When the she messes up instead of him to thrash things out, and tell her off

He will be beg

Probably because he doesn't want to see her go.

Women detest weak men.

Weak men are not good for society.

Men should show some leadership.

Stop using money to buy love.

Stop tolerating nonsense from one badly raised girl because she gives you sex

There are many well behaved women out there.

If you want them beatiful and rich or financially comfortable you will find them.

Work on yourself and build your character

Anyways, what you give is what you will get.

Be a low quality

You're correct. We are in a feminized society so these things will keep happening except a man choose to unplug himself

Trash... 101

Keep quiet, you are a woman. No man can write this garbage here and tag himself the problem. If you feel bashed by men on Nairaland, just say it with your full chest, don't hide your gender...

The reason a lot of ladies get bashed is because they blame men for everything wrong in their lives, feminists also added to the equation and now men are tired and calling y'all out. If women aren't responsible and submissive, they shouldn't expect a good man, period.

XXXXTENTACION:
Trash... 101

She's a woman... Don't mind her.

Recive sense

Most of these girls, they have entitlement mentality.
Coitus is something enjoyed by two individuals.
But the other gender thinks they're doing guys a favor, by sleeping with them.
One thing I noticed is eh, after copulation the other gender thinks they have done some thing compensating and magnificent for you and they deserved to be paid..
Something you literally enjoyed!!
Most of them even reach organism while the guys losses blood, strength,money etc

Is it not the same gender that try to lure Joseph.
Was begging him for one round

Fowl

helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage

I believe things like this should be thrashed out before marriage

XXXXTENTACION:
Trash... 101

When you look through your dirty eyes, what you see is trash

Afriqan:
Keep quiet, you are a woman. No man can write this garbage here and tag himself the problem. If you feel bashed by men on Nairaland, just say it with your full chest, don't hide your gender...

I won't argue with you. But I wish you luck, especially if you are a man.

He say na "hide your gender"

Look at your moniker, do you have gender?

helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage

Majority of women have refused to work?

Do you have any statistics to back your claims?

I agree with you

dan9ice:

Something you literally enjoyed!!
Most of them even reach organism while the guys losses blood, strength,money etc

If those women were to tell you the whole truth, you'd know that most of them don't even enjoy sexx and many of them have never experienced or-gasms, at least not with you.

They may put up a semblance of enjoying just to boost your ego because most members of the "logical" gender are clueless things. They can't even detect fake or-gasms.

They talk about you to their female (and sometimes male) friends behind your back about how clueless you are but they just have to manage your inadequacy for one reason or the other. Meanwhile, you're out there praising your performance while thinking somebody's daughter is enjoying sexx with you. No, she's not. She just loves you, so your inadequacies don't bother her in a major way.

Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth.

.

helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage

refusing to work after marriage? Bros lie smal smal nau kai!

So much truth

Farfalla:


If those women were to tell you the whole truth, you'd know that most of them don't even enjoy sexx and many of them have never experienced or-gasms, at least not with you.

They may put up a semblance of enjoying just to boost your ego because most members of the "logical" gender are clueless things. They can't even detect fake or-gasms.

They talk about you to their female (and sometimes male) friends behind your back about how clueless you are but they just have to manage your inadequacy for one reason or the other. Meanwhile, you're out there praising your performance while thinking somebody's daughter is enjoying sexx with you. No, she's not. She just loves you, so your inadequacies don't bother her in a major way.

Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth.

"Most women don't enjoy sexx" is a scam statement

"You won't handle the truth" another scam statement

Most men literally take sex enhancers so they can satisfy their woman in bed and be seen as a stud

If he is not doing it in a way you enjoy, and you do not open your mouth and tell him how best to stroke you

It is more likely because you do not want him to see you as too sexually liberal,

or worse still a hoe

than the assumption that he cannot handle the truth

If your man is not stroking you well show him how to.

Men also gain pleasure when they genuinely feel they are pleasing their woman

I'm a guy and I agree with the OP

When girls show me their chats with matured men.
I just shake my head in shame .

Married men o, men with grown kids o, men holding top position in firms would be simping for a small girl �

I'm not a perfect red piller, some girls would testify that I have even played myself in many situations.

I agree, but I'll encourage every man out there, just the way I advise myself.

Know your worth !!!!

Money can't win a girl !!!!


One girl was telling me how men with families would ask for her account number on Twitter just to be sending her money !!!

These guys haven't met this babe in person o, yet would be sending 30k as if the babe said she was broke.


My able matured men and elders,
Please money can't win you a girl's heart
Being nice and also trying to give her a good experience won't make her love yOu.

If you're not her type, period you're not .

If she's in love with someone else, omo nothing for you..


There a million and more girls that are out there looking for who to love..



Please stop wasting your wealth on young girls that you won't marry..

There's one married man that kept befriending a small girl.

Like this man tells her, he wants nothing but friendship

He says he has a wife but he doesn't love her, so instead of staying at home.

He goes about looking for young girls to spend time with.



Omo don't you people have plans for money !!!!!!

Who am I to tell you what to do with your money !!!

Who am I to judge you !!!!

I can't , but let me appeal to men.


Please marry who you love !!!!

Not who Is a wife material, before after 6 months you would start saying you're bored and start disturbing small girls.

Dear young men, don't accept a woman's love if you won't be faithful.
If you know someone loves you and you go bout hurting the person, it's bad karma you're storing for yourself.


You go about cheating with anything that winks at you.

Yet there's a lady who loves you and keeps praying for you.

That same lady keep rejecting better guys because she's hoping you change..


Abeg o , na beg I dey beg

Whatever a man sow that he would reap.

You can find one woman and love.

There's more to life than sexual adventures.

May God help we men.
Amen.

Gynn:


"Most women don't enjoy sexx" is a scam statement

"You won't handle the truth" another scam statement

Most men literally take sex enhancers so they can satisfy their woman in bed and be seen as a stud

If he is not doing it in a way you enjoy, and you do not open your mouth and tell him how best to stroke you

It is more likely because you do not want him to see you as too sexually liberal,

or worse still a hoe

than the assumption that he cannot handle the truth

If your man is not stroking you well show him how to.

Men also gain pleasure when they genuinely feel they are pleasing their woman

My response was to the dude who claims that most women enjoy sex and that most of them get or-gasms. This is not true. Majority of women do NOT experience or-gasms. A few do and even then, not always.

Those sex enhancers are useless if you do not understand the art of lovemaking. Most of you think it's about inserting pennis like a USB drive into a port and pounding away and then expect fireworks without foréplay, without even playing with other parts of her body, without whispering stuff into her ears.

Most women will tell you what they want if the man didn't already act like he's a stud when he isn't. No woman who loves you will judge you harshly if you're not a great lover and you acknowledge that you want to learn what pleases her. It's when you go about bragging about your prowess when it's in fact below par that is embarrassing.

My only advice to the "logical" gender is one, don't hype yourself before the match, and two, don't ask for post-match analysis and ratings because she won't tell you the truth anyway.

helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage

Why should a woman work when you - the so-called husband is alive ?
Does their physical build-up look like the one built for that kind of stress ?
And what type of work would she do ? The one under another man ? No shame from you!
And if it's not even under a man, you'll be cool with 8 - 5 ?, 9 - 4 ? Heck even worse than that ?

Many of you complain about lack of respect then goes on to split the bills with her. Ok ooo!

Gynn:
I am sick and tired of the many sob stories I read about women on Nairaland...

...BY MEN

There is no single day that passes we will not see a guy post about some silly things he is facing in his relationship

As usual, men will come and bash Nigerian women in the comments.

Some will in turn call the man a simp.

And the cycle continues. Day in, day out.

If it is not how the girl is cheating after all the love and care,

it will be about how she is denying the guy sex.

Or how she is disrespectful. Or she is an unappreciative gold digger.

At the end of such posts, you will see a question like

"What should I do?"

Honestly it's nauseating and annoying reading some of the stories here by guys.

When will Nigerian men realize that whatever vices or misbehaviour a woman displays in a relationship

The men are the biggest enablers.

Men complain that their women like money too much

Yet when a girl post pictures you see men flocking in the DMs asking for account details.

I think it was some months ago some silly he goat sent 100k or thereabouts thanking a girl for replying his DM.

FOR REPLYING HIS DM!

Christ!

Men will pedestalize ordinary girls.

When the she messes up instead of him to thrash things out, and tell her off

He will be beg

Probably because he doesn't want to see her go.

Women detest weak men.

Weak men are not good for society.

Men should show some leadership.

Stop using money to buy love.

Stop tolerating nonsense from one badly raised girl because she gives you sex

There are many well behaved women out there.

If you want them beatiful and rich or financially comfortable you will find them.

Work on yourself and build your character

Anyways, what you give is what you will get.

Very well said! Right on point

Farfalla:


If those women were to tell you the whole truth, you'd know that most of them don't even enjoy sexx and many of them have never experienced or-gasms, at least not with you.

They may put up a semblance of enjoying just to boost your ego because most members of the "logical" gender are clueless things. They can't even detect fake or-gasms.

They talk about you to their female (and sometimes male) friends behind your back about how clueless you are but they just have to manage your inadequacy for one reason or the other. Meanwhile, you're out there praising your performance while thinking somebody's daughter is enjoying sexx with you. No, she's not. She just loves you, so your inadequacies don't bother her in a major way.

Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth.

sis "ankali da allah". "omo de lo nshe" lol

Farfalla:


My response was to the dude who claims that most women enjoy sex and that most of them get or-gasms. This is not true. Majority of women do NOT experience or-gasms. A few do and even then, not always.

Those sex enhancers are useless if you do not understand the art of lovemaking. Most of you think it's about inserting pennis like a USB drive into a port and pounding away and then expect fireworks without foréplay, without even playing with other parts of her body, without whispering stuff into her ears.

Most women will tell you what they want if the man didn't already act like he's a stud when he isn't. No woman who loves you will judge you harshly if you're not a great lover and you acknowledge that you want to learn what pleases her. It's when you go about bragging about your prowess when it's in fact below par that is embarrassing.

My only advice to the "logical" gender is one, don't hype yourself before the match, and two, don't ask for post-match analysis and ratings because she won't tell you the truth anyway.

It boils down to the famous self esteem problem that many men have. Those men are so insecure that they can't admit their faults and be humble enough to learn. They can't handle the truth so they lie to themselves and dismiss people trying show them the truth

They brag to protect their fragile self esteem but don't realise that it's actually counterproductive

Farfalla:


My response was to the dude who claims that most women enjoy sex and that most of them get or-gasms. This is not true. Majority of women do NOT experience or-gasms. A few do and even then, not always.

Those sex enhancers are useless if you do not understand the art of lovemaking. Most of you think it's about inserting pennis like a USB drive into a port and pounding away and then expect fireworks without foréplay, without even playing with other parts of her body, without whispering stuff into her ears.

Most women will tell you what they want if the man didn't already act like he's a stud when he isn't. No woman who loves you will judge you harshly if you're not a great lover and you acknowledge that you want to learn what pleases her. It's when you go about bragging about your prowess when it's in fact below par that is embarrassing.

My only advice to the "logical" gender is one, don't hype yourself before the match, and two, don't ask for post-match analysis and ratings because she won't tell you the truth anyway.

Are you a woman and above 25