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Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Gynn: 9:49pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
I am sick and tired of the many sob stories I read about women on Nairaland... ...BY MEN There is no single day that passes we will not see a guy post about some silly things he is facing in his relationship As usual, men will come and bash Nigerian women in the comments. Some will in turn call the man a simp. And the cycle continues. Day in, day out. If it is not how the girl is cheating after all the love and care, it will be about how she is denying the guy sex. Or how she is disrespectful. Or she is an unappreciative gold digger. At the end of such posts, you will see a question like "What should I do?" Honestly it's nauseating and annoying reading some of the stories here by guys. When will Nigerian men realize that whatever vices or misbehaviour a woman displays in a relationship The men are the biggest enablers. Men complain that their women like money too much Yet when a girl post pictures you see men flocking in the DMs asking for account details. I think it was some months ago some silly he goat sent 100k or thereabouts thanking a girl for replying his DM. FOR REPLYING HIS DM! Christ! Men will pedestalize ordinary girls. When the she messes up instead of him to thrash things out, and tell her off He will be beg Probably because he doesn't want to see her go. Women detest weak men. Weak men are not good for society. Men should show some leadership. Stop using money to buy love. Stop tolerating nonsense from one badly raised girl because she gives you sex There are many well behaved women out there. If you want them beatiful and rich or financially comfortable you will find them. Work on yourself and build your character Anyways, what you give is what you will get. 25 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by helinues: 9:51pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Smartb0y: 10:00pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Nice post @op 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Elporo(m): 10:03pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Justbehave(m): 10:04pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Nothing but the truth. Simps are our problems 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by habsydiamond(m): 10:10pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Majority of those that bash people here are simps hiding in their shells. Lantern no dey see it won yansh Na other e dey see. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by DavidHarry(m): 10:20pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Gynn: You're correct. We are in a feminized society so these things will keep happening except a man choose to unplug himself 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by XXXXTENTACION: 10:22pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Trash... 101 |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Nobody: 10:39pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Keep quiet, you are a woman. No man can write this garbage here and tag himself the problem. If you feel bashed by men on Nairaland, just say it with your full chest, don't hide your gender... The reason a lot of ladies get bashed is because they blame men for everything wrong in their lives, feminists also added to the equation and now men are tired and calling y'all out. If women aren't responsible and submissive, they shouldn't expect a good man, period. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Nobody: 10:39pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: She's a woman... Don't mind her. |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Drsnives(m): 10:43pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Recive sense |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by dan9ice(m): 10:47pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Most of these girls, they have entitlement mentality. Coitus is something enjoyed by two individuals. But the other gender thinks they're doing guys a favor, by sleeping with them. One thing I noticed is eh, after copulation the other gender thinks they have done some thing compensating and magnificent for you and they deserved to be paid.. Something you literally enjoyed!! Most of them even reach organism while the guys losses blood, strength,money etc Is it not the same gender that try to lure Joseph. Was begging him for one round 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Ahmback(m): 10:54pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Fowl |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Gynn: 10:55pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
helinues: I believe things like this should be thrashed out before marriage |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Gynn: 11:02pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
XXXXTENTACION: When you look through your dirty eyes, what you see is trash 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Gynn: 11:08pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Afriqan: I won't argue with you. But I wish you luck, especially if you are a man. He say na "hide your gender" Look at your moniker, do you have gender? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 11:42pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
helinues: Majority of women have refused to work? Do you have any statistics to back your claims? |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by tobechi74: 11:56pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
I agree with you |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 12:08am On Oct 20, 2021 |
dan9ice: If those women were to tell you the whole truth, you'd know that most of them don't even enjoy sexx and many of them have never experienced or-gasms, at least not with you. They may put up a semblance of enjoying just to boost your ego because most members of the "logical" gender are clueless things. They can't even detect fake or-gasms. They talk about you to their female (and sometimes male) friends behind your back about how clueless you are but they just have to manage your inadequacy for one reason or the other. Meanwhile, you're out there praising your performance while thinking somebody's daughter is enjoying sexx with you. No, she's not. She just loves you, so your inadequacies don't bother her in a major way. Trust me, you don't want to be rated. You won't handle the truth. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Nobody: 12:09am On Oct 20, 2021 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Sonnobax15(m): 6:06am On Oct 20, 2021 |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Candidlady: 6:15am On Oct 20, 2021 |
helinues: refusing to work after marriage? Bros lie smal smal nau kai! |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by skywalker240(m): 7:19am On Oct 20, 2021 |
So much truth |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Gynn: 8:06am On Oct 20, 2021 |
Farfalla: "Most women don't enjoy sexx" is a scam statement "You won't handle the truth" another scam statement Most men literally take sex enhancers so they can satisfy their woman in bed and be seen as a stud If he is not doing it in a way you enjoy, and you do not open your mouth and tell him how best to stroke you It is more likely because you do not want him to see you as too sexually liberal, or worse still a hoe than the assumption that he cannot handle the truth If your man is not stroking you well show him how to. Men also gain pleasure when they genuinely feel they are pleasing their woman 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by slickycee: 8:48am On Oct 20, 2021 |
I'm a guy and I agree with the OP When girls show me their chats with matured men. I just shake my head in shame . Married men o, men with grown kids o, men holding top position in firms would be simping for a small girl � I'm not a perfect red piller, some girls would testify that I have even played myself in many situations. I agree, but I'll encourage every man out there, just the way I advise myself. Know your worth !!!! Money can't win a girl !!!! One girl was telling me how men with families would ask for her account number on Twitter just to be sending her money !!! These guys haven't met this babe in person o, yet would be sending 30k as if the babe said she was broke. My able matured men and elders, Please money can't win you a girl's heart Being nice and also trying to give her a good experience won't make her love yOu. If you're not her type, period you're not . If she's in love with someone else, omo nothing for you.. There a million and more girls that are out there looking for who to love.. Please stop wasting your wealth on young girls that you won't marry.. There's one married man that kept befriending a small girl. Like this man tells her, he wants nothing but friendship He says he has a wife but he doesn't love her, so instead of staying at home. He goes about looking for young girls to spend time with. Omo don't you people have plans for money !!!!!! Who am I to tell you what to do with your money !!! Who am I to judge you !!!! I can't , but let me appeal to men. Please marry who you love !!!! Not who Is a wife material, before after 6 months you would start saying you're bored and start disturbing small girls. Dear young men, don't accept a woman's love if you won't be faithful. If you know someone loves you and you go bout hurting the person, it's bad karma you're storing for yourself. You go about cheating with anything that winks at you. Yet there's a lady who loves you and keeps praying for you. That same lady keep rejecting better guys because she's hoping you change.. Abeg o , na beg I dey beg Whatever a man sow that he would reap. You can find one woman and love. There's more to life than sexual adventures. May God help we men. Amen. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Farfalla(f): 11:35am On Oct 20, 2021 |
Gynn: My response was to the dude who claims that most women enjoy sex and that most of them get or-gasms. This is not true. Majority of women do NOT experience or-gasms. A few do and even then, not always. Those sex enhancers are useless if you do not understand the art of lovemaking. Most of you think it's about inserting pennis like a USB drive into a port and pounding away and then expect fireworks without foréplay, without even playing with other parts of her body, without whispering stuff into her ears. Most women will tell you what they want if the man didn't already act like he's a stud when he isn't. No woman who loves you will judge you harshly if you're not a great lover and you acknowledge that you want to learn what pleases her. It's when you go about bragging about your prowess when it's in fact below par that is embarrassing. My only advice to the "logical" gender is one, don't hype yourself before the match, and two, don't ask for post-match analysis and ratings because she won't tell you the truth anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by InfinityFabric: 7:48pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
helinues:Why should a woman work when you - the so-called husband is alive ? Does their physical build-up look like the one built for that kind of stress ? And what type of work would she do ? The one under another man ? No shame from you! And if it's not even under a man, you'll be cool with 8 - 5 ?, 9 - 4 ? Heck even worse than that ? Many of you complain about lack of respect then goes on to split the bills with her. Ok ooo! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by bepositive11: 8:21pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Gynn: Very well said! Right on point |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Candidlady: 8:24pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Farfalla: sis "ankali da allah". "omo de lo nshe" lol |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by bepositive11: 8:30pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Farfalla: It boils down to the famous self esteem problem that many men have. Those men are so insecure that they can't admit their faults and be humble enough to learn. They can't handle the truth so they lie to themselves and dismiss people trying show them the truth They brag to protect their fragile self esteem but don't realise that it's actually counterproductive 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Lets Tell Ourselves The Truth, We Are The Problem by Lightway: 8:46pm On Oct 20, 2021 |
Farfalla: Are you a woman and above 25 |
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