ImaIma1:


Is that your fantasy? A woman that can fry puff puff to support you.

Obi Cubana's wife was frying puff puff & chin chin to support him na before he blew, didn't you hear the story?

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

What I think you should do is to invite him to come with you to the market to see things by himself.

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Jeon:


Who's this hegoat?

d one fuking ur mum in her ass cause her pussy is wide

ImaIma1:


Is that your fantasy? A woman that can fry puff puff to support you.

it is okay if you can't read meaning to a situation where a man is giving his wife 4k in this hard economy... why don't you ask her of her husband's present financial strength?

I still stand on my opinion even its not inline with your imagination....

Oyiboman69:
it is okay if you can't read meaning to a situation where a man is giving his wife 4k in this hard economy... why don't you ask her of her husband's present financial strength?

I still stand on my opinion even its not inline with your imagination....

As I said in my response to someone else, the issue should be that he doesn't have enough and not that she is lying that it won't be ok.

The economy is bad and it's affecting everyone. She lost her job two months ago. She's probably trying to get another. And you should know that it is not that easy to get a job. And setting up a business is not something you do with a snap of a finger.

ImaIma1:


Then it should be that the money is not enough and not saying the wife is lying because he cannot afford it. Let him enter the market himself and see who is lying.

that's what the topic says...her naration is simply asking on how she can manage the 4k....

truthsayer009:


Obi Cubana's wife was frying puff puff & chin chin to support him na before he blew, didn't you hear the story?

Yes o. And Tony Elumelu's wife was hawking oranges...

Get a job ma

That's the best way out

Also ask him to try running the house with 4k when he's in vacation or do the spending himself

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

If it is for feeding and school runs, small but u can manage if you want. But if the man is paying for utilities, pay school fees, buy schools books and accessories etc, madam the money reach remains.

ImaIma1:


As I said in my response to someone else, the issue should be that he doesn't have enough and not that she is lying that it won't be ok.

The economy is bad and it's affecting everyone. She lost her job two months ago. She's probably trying to get another. And you should know that it is not that easy to get a job. And setting up a business is not something you do with a snap of a finger.

I understand your contributions...she's been very aggressive to some comments which are not in her supportth which tells you something about her kind of person, if you could see could see through it though....

Wouldn't it be nice in asking how she can manage that amount without weaving her husband just to get sympathy?...

Would you have done this if you are in this situation?...

Tonyclems:
Am a man, I buy my food stuff in bulk. Like rice,garri yam, noodles, oil Maggi and others still just me n my wife no child yet, we spend roughly 10k weekly. Ur husband is heartless

its obvious you're not a man....

Golferty:



I lost my job last 2 months and its been a hard time getting a new job. That's besides the point. I asked this question for strictly married women who knows how to manage a home.

If u don't have an advice for me then please its best u keep quiet

You are bringing in nothing but expect someone to bring. Parasitic gender.

Oyiboman69:
I understand your contributions...she's been very aggressive to some comments which are not in her supportth which tells you something about her kind of person, if you could see could see through it though....

Wouldn't it be nice in asking how she can manage that amount without weaving her husband just to get sympathy?...

Would you have done this if you are in this situation?...

The truth is that some people's comments are not sensitive and they lack empathy. Is it really easy to get a new job after losing one in this country? Or is it easy for her to have started a new job in that time frame?

It's easy to try to judge people through our own lenses, with our own situations. But the truth is, people are struggling. And 4k is not even near enough for two adults and kids for even 3 days. It's for both of them to put heads together.

My.own reactions would be different from hers because my husband is not same as hers. I.might have support from family which she might not have. So, the variables are different.

ImaIma1:


The truth is that some people's comments are not sensitive and they lack empathy. Is it really easy to get a new job after losing one in this country? Or is it easy for her to have started a new job in that time frame?

It's easy to try to judge people through our own lenses, with our own situations. But the truth is, people are struggling. And 4k is not even near enough for two adults and kids for even 3 days. It's for both of them to put heads together.

My.own reactions would be different from hers because my husband is not same as hers. I.might have support from family which she might not have. So, the variables are different.

the man knows this...so is every one but understanding Is far from the woman.
I deduced that from her response to some people comments.
why is the man giving his wife 4k weekly?... this is where I really need you to start your conclusions from.

Saintmary:
Just ask him to help you buy foodstuff on his way back home.

Wahala dey oh! The cost of food stuff in Nigeria is nothing to write home about, 5 liters Kings oil i bought for 4500 in July is now 6500. I don't think if there is anything that is going up astronomically in price like food stuffs.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Men, you keep amazing me everyday. We think so much alike. I'm guessing this is MariahAngeles. If not, please ignore.

Emi ni.

Madam, gather that 4k for one month it's 16k. Try complete it 20k. Buy food stuff in bulk, especially foods that are in season now like potatoes, yams etc They're a bit cheaper, depending on where u reside. Then your children's school should be trek able. Make una dey manage the food, before month end again you or your husband go get another one.

lifenija:
d one fuking ur mum in her ass cause her pussy is wide

Ooh so you are a product of Capra aegagrus hircus!! Next time tell ur mom to allow the hegoat [ur popsi] fuvk her vagina so she can produce more of ur types and making her vagina deep and wide so that it can contain The Pacific Ocean when rapture occur...
Your family tree is a cactus, because everybody on it is a prick.
It's not worth my time to exchange words with someone who came out from bestiality

TruthUntold:


Jungkook is a right.

Okay

ImaIma1:


The bolded is the MO of koboju.nkie and default setting. He obviously lives in an ideal setting where things work out without much ado.

Koboj.unkie it's not easy for everyone to get a job easily or start a business with the snap of a finger. She lost her job just two months ago, and the govt will not support till she gets a new job. It doesn't work that way in Nigeria.

Anybody who knows Kobo would've known where he/she was headed with that "question".
Never ending questions upon questions, poor woman would've thought she was in a counselling session.

Jeon:


Ooh so you are a product of Capra aegagrus hircus!! Next time tell ur mom to allow the hegoat [ur popsi] fuvk her vagina so she can produce more of ur types and making her vagina deep and wide so that it can contain The Pacific Ocean when rapture occur...
Your family tree is a cactus, because everybody on it is a prick.
It's not worth my time to exchange words with someone who came out from bestiality

lol slowpoke not worth ur time n uve written a short story.


just tell ur mom bassey says hi n wink to her for me

lifenija:
lol slowpoke not worth ur time n uve written a short story.


just tell ur mom bassey says hi n wink to her for me

Fuvk off bestiality baby

I can’t talk till I know your husband income

This will determine purchasing power

Men clothing Dm

You didn't marry a man... sorry!!!

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

This is the mistake most people make.

What we think about the money your husband gives you should not be a factor in your home.

It is your home. No third party opinion should matter in it.

The Point should be, is that what he can afford for weekly feeding?

Does he have more but is being stingy?

Remeber that beyond feeding, Your husband has other obligations to you n the family which he must meet.

So if he gives you, that amount Because that is what the family can afford to spare for feeding weekly. Work around it.

Believe me, most families off social media uses far less. If u have never been there, u wont understand.

For those Who are priviledged to live on more, just know that you are fortunate.

So live gratefully and help those you are better off than

Golferty:



What kind of timetable is that? I planned on buying irish potato to fry for snacks but just a bottle of groundnut oil will finish the money.
Please I'll be happy if you can also draw a timetable for me
I will show my husband this thread so he can see what everyone thinks of the amount he gives me.

LET HIM DO THE BUYING HIMSELF! Shikena

Saintmary:
Just ask him to help you buy foodstuff on his way back home.

WTF

People are damn suffering in Nigeria


Poverty is a bitch.

Oyiboman69:
the man knows this...so is every one but understanding Is far from the woman.
I deduced that from her response to some people comments.
why is the man giving his wife 4k weekly?... this is where I really need you to start your conclusions from.

The issue is the fact that he thinks she is lying as if he is oblivious of the present economic situation or as if he doesn't live in Nigeria

Artworld1577:
so you want my wife to also post my inability to provide at home here so that you and your fellows can white wash me blue and black.

lol

truthsayer009:


Get nasty? Ehn that's the real reason she should show him the thread. Insult is needed sometimes for rejuvenation of sense.



Nahh he won't, he is not being honest & he knows it.

A basic blue collar worker i.e BrickLayer or even white collar worker would eat 3 times daily.

Morning: Heavy food Bread & beans with coke - N700
Afternoon: Indomie from street side sellers - N700
Night: Rice with coke or water - N500.

That's averagely a total of N1900, so in 5 working days he has spent 10k and yet he wants a woman with 2 kids + him to spend 4k on foodstuffs in a week.

It is better to explain situation of things to your spouse instead of telling her she is lying over 4k.

Imagine giving her 4k and expecting her to perform miracles with it.
I'm quite sure if he couldn't do any better, the wife wouldn't complain.

It's probably the I don't know how you're going to do it, but just make it happen attitude that annoyed the wife.
Some men do that even though they can do better.