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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by olumighty9: 3:07pm On Nov 07, 2021
My brother, I was once in this situation, please never succumb to this because of love, what you can't sustain don't even start. Traditional a lady doesn't have a religion of her own she is supposed to follow you to wherever you worship in as much as you are a believer. For you to have even given her the leverage to attend her church while you attend yours is enough, leave that relationship before you regret it, speaking from experience, let he who has ears hear. Peace

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by baby124: 3:07pm On Nov 07, 2021
Leave her alone. How can an intolerant person be dating what she can’t marry. She’s not serious.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nyenatetan(m): 3:08pm On Nov 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Then stop going to Catholic church, its that simple




As a matured woman, whenever your mind is not disposed about making comments that supports the reality, you should keep the vocal cavity mute angry angry angry

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by MrMacinterchi1: 3:10pm On Nov 07, 2021
AbarisFather:


And that's true.... They're into idolatry kind of stuff,
My dad is a Catholic and he does that too.
You mind highlighting those things he dies that made your dad an idolatry?
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 3:14pm On Nov 07, 2021
Munzy14:

The standard...God bless you for that honesty.

Amen. grin

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by MrMacinterchi1: 3:14pm On Nov 07, 2021
ThinkSmarter:
If i were in ur shoe.
And if i truely love the lady and she reciprocates, i will personally compromise and join her in her church.
As far as she is playing her wife roles.
But after a child birth, i may switch back to my own church and tell her to stick to catholic.
I am not a religious person and i will always compromise church over my girl.
So, join her in her church and marry her, after wedding or so, u can stand ur ground again if u so wish and she will succumb to u.
And if she vehemently insist that u both attend Cath against ur wish, start sitting @hom on Sunda
She's not the Catholic faithful here, the op is.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by sewa36447(m): 3:16pm On Nov 07, 2021
She is not yet ready for marriage
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by SeriouslySense(m): 3:18pm On Nov 07, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy What do you want, and this can become a source or the beginning of many contentions, especially when a person keeps demanding while you are uncertain, that uncertainty could come in another form, but at that other time, you will not bulge, I think you both need to understand yourselves and know how to communicate, especially with carefrontation, not confrontation.

You cannot change people, they only change as they see fit. cheesy cheesy

Normally this is not really an important issue if you both respect each other.

You sound like you will bring this up after you have married her, Shifting this to another time, may not work out as you anticipated, depending on her nature. So it better you are sure of what you want now rather than later, grin grin As if you woke up another day to realize what you wanted when you already know that you are not sure.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by ednut1(m): 3:18pm On Nov 07, 2021
Christians and stupidly
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Humorme2(f): 3:20pm On Nov 07, 2021
Lots of haters of the Catholic faith on this thread
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Automolite: 3:21pm On Nov 07, 2021
undecidedAsk her to leave her own church too na. Afterall, what is good for the goose, is good for the gander.
Make una meet for neutral ground.
Robbosh!!
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Davidegede: 3:22pm On Nov 07, 2021
Stick to your love, don't mind people, wife material is not common. nothing is absolutely bad or good until the circumstances surrounding it is factored in. If the church she is pulling to is better...why not leave catholic and follow her. If she was pulling you to America now won't you follow sharp sharp.... besides catholic is not a good church, you should know by now, except you're just a church goer though
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by na2016: 3:25pm On Nov 07, 2021
omenayoung:
You can never be firm in this relationship if you start like that. She will always be the one to take major decisions if you lay This foundation
OP: It is not advisable for the husband to attend another church while the wife attends another. You may not see anything bad in it but this can even cause separation if not managed well. I will suggest if you really love her and you feel she meets all your requirement for a wife, join her in her church but make it explicit that you are doing that for the union. However, be firm when it comes to other decisions later.

This is marriage, not boyfriend and girlfriend. Catholic doesn't sit well with everyone, a new church for both of them is also an option they can explore.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Bekeey: 3:25pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.



Simps everywhere u go, lover boy...some men sef nawa o
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Winneygirl(f): 3:25pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

We catholics plenty, and there are people whom religious affiliation is a deal breaker for them.
If it is a deal breaker for her, let her go. Peace is priceless. You cannot buy it.
This is something you should have discussed earlier than now.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by na2016: 3:27pm On Nov 07, 2021
motymop:

Why doesn't she join him in his church?

Is the doctrine in Catholicism the same as others? If OP can't go to her church, he can suggest a neutral church altogether. This is nothing to drag about or to prove that you are the man.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Automolite: 3:27pm On Nov 07, 2021
AbarisFather:


And that's true.... They're into idolatry kind of stuff,
My dad is a Catholic and he does that too.
What you should understand is that every church has their own manner of worship. It all depends whether u d church goer is comfortable with it or not.
The kind of dance that David danced is not allowed in MFM, does that make it a sin?
But please, enlighten us on how catholics practice idolatry.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by FullBlastLight: 3:28pm On Nov 07, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
So the jesus wey dey your catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey her own church?

Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state undecided

True, they serve d same Lord, bt if u ignorantly or arrogantly ignore d doctrinal divergence in their Churches, it may sooner than later nosedive d so-called marriage or get it truncated!

Strict compatibility is very key in any human relnship, if such must smoothly sail!
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by godswilld10(m): 3:28pm On Nov 07, 2021
Reminds me of my Ex,she told me to quit my church and join her in catholic....I jejely move oooo,how can a lady dictate which church I want to attend because I wan marry u
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by farrmer(m): 3:28pm On Nov 07, 2021
A woman who loves you wouldn't demand that.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by uchennamani(m): 3:28pm On Nov 07, 2021
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
For me, it is simple. You should either accept or reject her decision. There are more important shit to worry about.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by DrDax: 3:29pm On Nov 07, 2021
mrdharkchild:
It is written, that a women would leave her family, her God and all that shit and accept her husbands shit and all. Abi Bible Don become irrelevant?
It's not the other way round, simp.

Actually, the MAN shall leave his father and mother, and cleave unto his wife.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by FullBlastLight: 3:30pm On Nov 07, 2021
Bigredmachine:
She's the type that respect her pastor and dis respect her husband... I won't be surprised if it's her pastor that is behind all the these...

Oga you better think straight and take the right step

If u no mention pastor here, u 4 die? Huh?

Mtcheeww...
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Newyorkitis(m): 3:31pm On Nov 07, 2021
Sometimes I ask myself this question: WHAT IF OUR PROTESTANT BROTHERS and SISTERS WERE THE FIRST TO HAVE AN ORGANISED CHURCH GROUP?
Because most of the things that they accuse The Roman Catholic church of in the time past, they are now doing it using another name.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Rayjnr: 3:32pm On Nov 07, 2021
I am a Muslim , but bro I will tell you the truth, Don't ever agree to a woman's condition if you want to live long.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by FullBlastLight: 3:33pm On Nov 07, 2021
RoyalBoutique:
Religion; the bane of progress in Nigeria.

My wife goes to mountain of fire.

I'm a traditional worshipper.

I can never set foot in church.

She knows that.

That's why we only did court marriage and traditional marriage.

No church.

I can't let religion dictate my life.

Wetin u sabi!
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Maryandrea: 3:35pm On Nov 07, 2021
Na she go marry u abi na u go marry am,she wants to be ordering u around.
KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Soldiercole(m): 3:35pm On Nov 07, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
So the jesus wey dey your catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey her own church?

Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state undecided
You're so funny are you the one following woman or woman following you, you that even accept she remain in her church you try, any woman that is not following me to catholic no marriage.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by MrMacinterchi1: 3:36pm On Nov 07, 2021
SATANlST:
so catholic is a dead church where god no dey abi?
thunder fire your maggot filled brain. even the oyinbo wey bring am come will never call a church dead church. who gave you the power to decipher which is living and which is dead??
nothing way person will not see for nairaland o. Satan de defend church

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nyenatetan(m): 3:37pm On Nov 07, 2021
My brother, as said by my fellow Nairalanders
This fiancee of yours is a typical example of those ladies that say "my pastor said.my pastor said ", they believe so much in their religious leaders that they don't mind looking so untamed.

I was once in a conversation with a girl who I know she's very devoted about Religious matters, I asked her why she didn't learn a skill that might enable her be more supportive when she's finally joined with the love of her life, but you won't believe the reply this lady gave me.

That she has tried learning so many skills, but everything always proved abortive so one day her Pastor saw a vision about her,then he told her that that's not her way.

I was like wao ! , just said OK and allowed the topic to diffuse on it's own,.

This kind of woman will leave you her husband at home starving simply because she gas a church program that she wants to be present and make her know how devoted she is - but _ at the expense of not properly managing the simple family God has entrusted in her care.
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by bukolabeauty09(f): 3:38pm On Nov 07, 2021
Find Catholic sister in your church, whom you both have same belief, same doctrine and same communion. Let her find her own husband in her church.

I can't marry a celestial or any white garment church member it is a turnoff for me, once you approach me I will just say no, not even friends not to talk of dating or marriage.

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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Munzy14(m): 3:39pm On Nov 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
Then he should be ready to loose her,its that simple.Nothing wrong when a man changes his church for the woman he loves,stop attaching meanings to it.
Is she the messiah?

She should leave ASAP...E be like she is blocking his progress grin grin

Trust me that guy will achieve more ones she leave...I am talking from experience.

With the right person, you will obtain more favour from the Lord..As simple as that.

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