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Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by na2016: 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
motymop: If you read his post, you will see where he said he doesn't want to start all over again. That suggests to me that this guy may be in his 30s and knows the stress in getting a wife and that this girl may fit into lots of his criteria already before this dilemma. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Munzy14(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Iyaebe:I am covered by the front and back of my future wife...Who will always be my backbone and helper.. |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by ariesbull: 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24: Now you are a weakling.... It is a woman that attends a man's church and not the other way round Don't be toto simp |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Alusiizizi(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24: If you were not such a simp she would not dare demand such a condition. |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by thinkmoney(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Awkabigboy:You see by the fruit u just manifest now, your God must be very different from mine. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Ccss: 4:22pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Don’t let a girl use God or church to distract you They are smart don’t be fooled 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Awkabigboy: 4:23pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Zzor respect yourself and your aged mother for once |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Melchfran: 4:24pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
chiommy123:How? |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Awkabigboy: 4:24pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
fof1:She should go and marry her curs3d demonic and fraudster pastors masquerading as Christians Same bible that came out from the Catholic Church, pentecostals are demonic gay people |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Awkabigboy: 4:24pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
thinkmoney:She should go and marry her curs3d demonic and fraudster pastors masquerading as Christians Same bible that came out from the Catholic Church, pentecostals are demonic gay people We must continue to fire u satanic devilish people, demons 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by BarrElChapo(m): 4:27pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
DON'T TRY IT This coming from someone who left the Catholic church sometime in 2016.. Attended one not too Pentecostal church In my law school days attended dunamis all through. Lived in the Redeemed corpers house and worshipped there all through my service year. And immediately after in joined Living faith but I thank God I'm back to the catholic church in April this year pls don't leave the catholic church for anybody. KoladeChris24: 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Munzy14(m): 4:30pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Uche m di ya... That babe wu onye nsogbu. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by MrMacinterchi1: 4:30pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
lereinter:That you haven't seen doesn't make it impossible. there are many working and progressive Case of same background. |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Babastrong(m): 4:31pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
[quote author=KoladeChris24 post=107396815]I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church. I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church. She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore. [i know one day she will ask you to chase your families away. Her families or divorce. Lol. This is one of the reasons i love my babe ab initio our relationship. My rules or nothing.] |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Pat081: 4:31pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Iyaebe:because of woman aboutI can never do that 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by yoursidenigga(m): 4:32pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
BarrElChapo: Guy, you don crosscarpet go many churches. Wtf! What made you go to all those churches? And why did you return to Catholicism? 4 Likes |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by EmekaBlue(m): 4:32pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Don't mind her. Me sef Catholic for life though i can attend all these new generation churches but remain a stunt Catholic 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by deavicky(m): 4:38pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24:let her be. This is a sign of over possessive wife. You have done enough with the option of her going to her own church because normally she is supposed to follow you to ur church. Leave to her church brethren to marry her if she does not want fellow u to ur church. You will get a better lover than her. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 4:39pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Munzy14:And also your spiritual leader. |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Pat081:You can as well remain single. |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by kkonyeji(m): 4:40pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
chiommy123: Imagine your comment, why won't u understand? So cos u don't feel comfortable, the best bait is to force the man to leave his Church? Girls like you drag headship of the home with your man. Bros, pls move on & leave that ur woman, cos it's obvious u want to follow her dictates alredy. It's even good this issue came up now & she is open & sincere to U concerning her choice of Church. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 4:41pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
chiommy123:There is nothing to be understood. He already said she can attend whatever church she feels comfortable with while he is comfortable with him attending his own church alone. Why does she have to force her own denomination on him? |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Ubenedictus(m): 4:41pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Richieniit:how many times you don go Catholic church? How well you don research their doctrines to come to this conclusion? 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by folake4u(f): 4:44pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: Na church wey dey give aggressive prayers we dey follow now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 4:45pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
MrMacinterchi1: Hahaha. Thanks for the correction. Then, the girl is the manipulator. In this case, she is to follow the man to catholic. Simple as ABC. If she doesnt want to attend catholic, why date one? I am sure catholic church will treat the boy like "anyhow" if he leaves. His whole family too will label him a rebel. The boy should stay in catholic. The girl is a manipulator, and with such character, she isnt even a good Christian. They will have trouble in the marriage. My post is not one sided. It is very clear. The Nigerian culture says the lady should follow the man to his church. Simple. This is the standard based on the culture. But if you ask me my stand: no one should change anyone. Even, I dont like that the woman is asked to change, but I think it will cause conflict for baby christians, so our forefathers made it a standard for the woman to leave her church. The right way for me is that the two people should pray together. That is what they should do when dating. But the ones of these days will rather start sampling themselves and are weak spiritually. So, they religiously choose where they were born, or where they received salvation. No matter the church you attend, even you like it, and it may even be where God is using you.....as long as you know you want to live together with someone else to be one body, you must leave your thought that the person must join you. The two of you must sit down and discuss. Yeah, both of you are born again. And one person or both must leave his or her church. So, who will leave? You will be selfish to ask the other to leave. So, what do you do? Start praying together. Do not even pray for direction to which church you should go. Just start praying together to develop yourselves. Start reading the Bible together. Share your thoughts. Then, go out to churches together and just observe around. This is my method. One way or the other, you both will get direction, and there wont be conflict. And each of you must bear it in mind that there are 3 possibilities with 33.3333% chance each: 1. Attend the man's church 2. Attend the lady's church 3. Attend a different church When both are opened to equal chance of any of the 3 above, then, that is one happy family. But when one of the spouse is stubborn to say his/her church is where he or she is growing or developing, then, there is going to be a big trouble. It is a sign that they will keep manipulating themselves in the marriage. Anyone who is like this should check him/herself well. It is not only a denomination members who will inherit heaven. Jesus did not institute denomination. He instituted His body - the body of Christ. So, I feel so bad for denominational people. They appear to be dutiful and faithful to God, but they are the ones Jesus will tell He doesnt know. Why? They are so partial in their ways. When they see another person in another denomination suffering, they willl rather hold their goodness and give it to their members. These set of people are chained. It is a serious bondage. But the irony thing is that the church they attend might really be excellent. But what if God needs the person to step out? What if the church is just a training ground for the person? This is how the person will chain himself or herself to that ground and will never fulfill his/her destiny. Yet they will be doing serious religious work in the church. You can imagine if Paul did not step out to the Gentile, we wont know him today. Salvation is a personal confession and not collective. You can develop in another place, and not only in tje place you think you can. I pity people who are chained to a particular denomination. Watch closely, they are empty barrels. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by delpee(f): 4:47pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: It's embarrassing and annoying really. I keep wondering if we serve different Gods. Mode of service and traditions may be different but ultimately we're all expected to worship God in spirit and in truth. If that applies, we shouldn't have marked divisions. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Ubenedictus(m): 4:48pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Prevailing:to be able to say this, have you attended the Catholic church before, been to their mass and see what is done there, if they don't pray to Jesus but only Mary? 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Richieniit: 4:48pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Ubenedictus: Bruh stories... You'll be shock the more research you make about them the more scary it get. Every catholic home have shrine they worship all in the name it represents God.. same God that has warned you ppl never to use any image to represent Him. Why on earth do you need holy Mary to intercede on your prayers and her name mentioned at every prayers you guys make Them don brain wash una finish. That cross you guys carry about is totally ungodly. Well who are my to judge But pls don't quote me again if you can't diff btw the truth and your truth. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Myer(m): 4:48pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
AbarisFather: Yea. Theres no denying that the Catholic church has mixed alot with the church. But does that make it less than a Christian church when they still worship God and Jesus Christ. And preach the same bible? 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by delpee(f): 4:54pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
@Op You have been kind enough to allow her to go to her own Church. If that isn't enough, you need a review of the situation. A couple that plans to stay together for life will understand the need to always maintain a balance. You meet each other halfway. If one party must always have her way, there'll be problems later. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by TiglathPILESER: 4:58pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Catholic church of all places...seat of lucifer... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by MrMacinterchi1: 5:00pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
PeaceJoyLove: Your points are workable. However in most cases, some individual don't seem to agree. I enjoyed your write up once again. 1 Like |
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