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Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Tobest94: 4:41pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
All of You saying trash , op was hungry and nobody was at home, he made eba and ate and you’re shouting he should have asked for permission!! Which shot permission? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Munzy14(m): 4:42pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Just say married couples.. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
What stoped you from cooking indomie lol |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:45pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Munzy14:.....So a married man feels entitled to his wife's body while his wife feels entitled to the kitchen. O Kwa ya nna a ? Anyi n'amuta Kwa ihe ebea nkeoma. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Mariangeles(f): 4:45pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by emmanuelbrown26: 4:54pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kingpin1000:U see the life, that's just the selfishness of women in general. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Munzy14(m): 4:57pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: ![]() ![]() If I come closer to your woman, I know you will pull a gun.. ![]() Exactly how some women will if person enter their entitled place (kitchen)... ![]() ![]() Ihe no n'eluwa wu omumu omumu.. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Munzy14(m): 4:58pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Hmmm!!! This your Ok. Thats true.. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:00pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles:.....This particular issue was about food. From what the op said,he made okro soup and eba but that she likes him making only indomie. Hence,she wouldn't have been angry if he had made just indomie. Meaning,the op has been making use of the kitchen but on the instructions that he will be cooking only indomie. And the op wanting to change delicacy decided to cook another thing taking advantage of her absence. The issue here mainly wasn't about using the kitchen but the type of food he cooked. All in all,my annoyance with the op is cooking just a small quantity and finished it. I can bet you that,that woman wouldn't have been mad if the food he cooked was for everybody. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:03pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Munzy14:.....And the woman will not pull a gun or even fight another woman going close to her husband rather she will be busy entitling the kitchen ![]() Bia nwoke a,kpachara Anya gi. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by paris10: 5:05pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Listen y'all!!!. It's food. Food for the belly, belly for the food. They all get destroyed at one point. Marriage is an institution of learning, not where a woman go to lay claim of possessions. That being said, as with African traditions (since the wife is claiming the kitchen), the husband's siblings who are 18 or more also has access to everything in that house except the brother's bedroom. A woman exert control when things like kitchen becomes her priority. More so, wife & husband's siblings should be a unit. If this is not present, then the woman is a selfish individual with a selfish target.. It also doesn't matter if she built the empire with the husband. Love conquers all things. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by fruitfulvine360(f): 5:10pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Plenty sense here 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by ImaIma1(f): 5:12pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: Sometimes that kitchen can be an issue. It's not about having power over the kitchen. It's about managing the foodstuff. People that don't have an idea how the things were bought tend to use it anyhow without thinking of others. My brother's wife is close to us. But when we don't go into the kitchen to cook if she doesn't give us the go ahead. It's not our house. We respect the woman of the house. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Mariangeles(f): 5:14pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Munzy14: Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha A chigbuola'm! ![]() Mazi Okacha-mara. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Munzy14(m): 5:15pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: ![]() Fight ke, most will zip up and ask you to use condom since you decided to be playing home and away match...A coded bye bye to skin until you build a permanent home stadium for only home match.. Joke apart, Many women don't joke with kitchen ones they marry...My grandma never did, my mom same...And I am certain my wife will not...And my daughter(s) will not as well. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by ridbell01(m): 5:22pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Don't cook when she's around again I was once in your position. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by stuffs4me(m): 5:25pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mercychen: The problem is that the guy is the husband's relation and hence is not wanted. Any excuse would have been sufficient to kick him out[b]. If the guy was her brother, I'm very sure she wouldn't have been upset.[/b] |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:27pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Rebic: People are different. Their situations are different. Their pet peeves are different. It was just a simple matter of casually asking for permission or letting the kitchen owner know what was about to happen. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:28pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
ImaIma1:....That's why I said that women should be calming down. Get work and support their husbands so that little things like food won't be a big problem in the house. I know it's not easy but even while I was growing up,we were taught never to deny a hungry person asses to food provided you have even if it's little. Nne, believe me. Givers never lack |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:28pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
tolakush92: Okay. Now you know that she has reservations about you cooking anything other than noodles. With time, she may become more relaxed. But for now, please let peace reign. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:32pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:.....Is it the op that will let peace to reign or his brothers wife? I want to get something clear pls. Thanks |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:35pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: When you go to a person's house, do you dictate to them what they should do and not do? |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
stuffs4me: Well? It depends on his report with her. If they have a sister and brother kinda relationship, that shouldn't be a problem. But maybe op is using "agidi" or the "na my brother house " mentality attitude to enter the kitchen, that was why the wife was upset. Remember he said, he was only allowed to cook indomie? So I guess hes was trying to prove a point in a rude way. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:40pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:....The op didn't dictate to her. He only made use of the kitchen ( cook) So what's the noise about? If she has wisdom,she should have gotten angry because he made the food for himself only. She wants permission before he can make use of the kitchen because the op is not his relative. Make Una dey speak the truth sometimes Kwa nu. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Splendblex(f): 5:40pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
cococandy:I wish I could like your comment a thousand times. Some people take some little things so seriously, life is not that hard. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Munzy14(m): 5:40pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mariangeles: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:43pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mercychen:.... So what's the difference between cooking only indomie and cooking okro soup in the kitchen? Will the kitchen stop being kitchen if he cooks another thing? I think that her annoyance was him cooking it for himself only without caring if others will want to eat. Finish. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by ThatFairGuy: 5:46pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Savagery. Emboldened cracked me up TheStakeHolder: 1 Like
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Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:46pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: You want to quickly turn this conversation into an in-law war. That's not the point, and I'm not getting dragged into that conversation. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Did you take permission from her? If not, you didn’t do well. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by ImaIma1(f): 5:53pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: Not entering the kitchen is not the same as denying a person food. You don't have to go to the kitchen for you to eat. They are two different things. When people visit you, do they have to cook themselves before they eat? Even if both are working doesn't mean things should be wasted or that anyone should just go into the kitchen indiscriminately. If everyone who comes to visit goes to the kitchen on their own to cook, you'll come back one day and there's nothing to eat. I'm very free with food. People visit and eat and take away. I send soups to my husband's friends/family. It's not the same as having to enter the kitchen to cook the food without asking. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
OChimex: There is no form of entitlement whatsoever They own and plan their house I just feel it shouldn’t be a bug if I cook in the house If I was I her shoes I wouldn’t have felt bad 1 Like |
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