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Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

The most stupid and senseless thing bout you girls is the fact that y'all see sex as y'all greatest asset! like who on Earth cursed the black female race for crying out loud?? you couldn't even say something like all those times she's help you, stayed with you bla bla, atleast wouldn't that have been reasonable??

Damn, break loose from that curse and stop being an unexposed subliterate

Iyaebe:
He admitted to have deceived her all these years and have used her body to learn all the sex styles and now leaving her for who? He's to be blamed and he will reap what he sow. And yes every relationship should lead to marriage for any reasonable lady,nothing like ehnnn we are just dating yen yen yen,no marriage intended.Dating me is marrying me anything less I throw you to the street which you truly belong so that your prick can carry out its community services well.

not by force. some men need to explore

Like u just wasted 3yrs of her life

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Get some morals and integrity. Being a liar in a relationship always leads to failure down the road.

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

For the fact that you deceived her for three years and keep enjoying her and you went on to use your mouth to propose her and she carried you on mind

Now you have seen her finish and wants to leave her

How do you feel planning all these emotional pains on her

If you leave her, whatever you come across in life take it

ityP:
She also slept with him. You people should stop claiming victim. Na two people dey enjoy sex. No be only man

Yes I know that.

But she isn't the one complaining, he is.

I don't understand how people find it so hard to express their mind sha. When I wanted to break up with my fiancée then, I called her that we needed to discuss something very important. Looked for a quiet place with very few people because I don't wanna do it in my place. Told her how great a person she is in many aspects. Then I told her I cannot continue with the relationship due to our irreconcilable differences. Told her I'm sure she will definitely meet someone who will be more compatible with her and all that.

She burst into torrent of tears and was begging me to please reconsider my decision. But I told her my decision is final and irrevocable!

She fell sick so much so that she landed in the hospital. Her parents called me, went to see them and after all the talks, they agreed with me.

She's now doing very fine as she's married with children.

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

Why do most ladies believe this bullshit? Don't get your loose voice because you are sending curse words that have nothing in them.

Omoluabiii:
who has been abusing them everyday??


its the ones you ve met, see a man will always attract the type of lady that fit his personality.
If stupid girls that have entitlement mentality is all you have been dating, its time to check yourself, a sugar will always attract ants, while a salt does not.
But tell me, which is better? Sugar or salt?
So, dont generalise that all nigerian girls re useless, its a dent,, put a clause, "some girls"
be civilised

I hail you, i have marked your name here any day you quote Nigeria girls we will have issues. Please don't quote me again I'm eating

Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

I am a man like you and I want to assure you that it will never be well with you in this life. You said you are afraid of women but you went ahead to promise a woman marriage for 3 years. Make we see how your life nor go take spoil. It will never be well with you

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

You said 3 years and you even promised her marriage ?
I'm with a lady for barely 6 months. I've not even made any promise of marrying her and yet she told me her mom wants to see me.
My guy, you went to far. My situation is small compared to yours and I even need advice..

kilisi:
I don't understand how people find it so hard to express their mind sha. When I wanted to break up with my fiancée then, I called her that we needed to discuss something very important. Looked for a quiet place with very few people because I don't wanna do it in my place. Told her how great a person she is in many aspects. Then I told her I cannot continue with the relationship due to our irreconcilable differences. Told her I'm sure she will definitely meet someone who will be more compatible with her and all that.

She burst into torrent of tears and was begging me to please reconsider my decision. But I told her my decision is final and irrevocable!

She fell sick so much so that she landed in the hospital. Her parents called me, went to see them and after all the talks, they agreed with me.

She's now doing very fine as she's married with children.

After you don chop her finish, you come look for fault, abi ? (Just kidding).

You are yet to tell us why you dont want to marry her...she seems to love you more than you do for her...better change your mind before you enter into the hand of a real Jezebel that will swallow your destiny

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

use genotype

dontrulee:
Intelligence and wisdom and spirituality.
It is easy to get any girl. Am a king in that area.

ok,if it makes you feel better,but stop going around hurting people who love you,that is the height of irresponsibility

dontrulee:
Did the Op mention that he promised her marriage?? Even if the Op does, must he fulfill the promise?? If the guy is no longer interested he should break up na... It's simple life, it's not wickedness at all.

if he knew he wouldn't marry her,he shouldn't have kept her for 3years promising to marry her,that is more that Boko haram wickedness

This one choke me oo

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

As if the private part is King Solomon's mine. Abeg say sth reasonable.

Young man, this thing is more dangerous than you can ever imagin.
Firstly, you are the one that was promising her marriage for 3 years.
You are the one wasting her time.
You are the one trying to find non existent fault.

I suspect that the demons in your village have conspired to destroy you


I piri you

MisfitHPG:
ok,if it makes you feel better,but stop going around hurting people who love you,that is the height of irresponsibility

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I hear you boss. Women should be pampered like egg, not to be broken and eaten.

MisfitHPG:
if he knew he wouldn't marry her,he shouldn't have kept her for 3years promising to marry her,that is more that Boko haram wickedness

Hmmmm... 3 years of an undefined relationship. You may see it as wickedness but in real life scenario it's not. who knows, she can get married in less than a year after the breakup. Life is unpredictable!

Buy two eggs, tell her to cook one and boil the other one and when she's through, scold her for boiling the egg you asked her to fry & frying the one you asked her boil.
So you've been dating a girl you know you'll not marry for 3 good years?
Bro, you're on your own.

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

The guy na Kidnapper and he should be arrested, you just kidnapped person daughter for 3 years then come here they yarn nonsense... tell me how that girl go loyal to any man again.

saggis:
I am in a similar situation right now. If not worse. She does not want to leave on her own. I don't want to be with her for ever, but she gives me all i ever wish for sexually. To put it straight, i don't want to be with her, but i like f**king her. What a dilema?!!. Anybody with a solution?

Give me the babes number in my dm

dontrulee:
Intelligence and wisdom and spirituality.
It is easy to get any girl. Am a king in that area.

for your mind you're these two

IGoComotYaTeeth:
for your mind you're these two

For your mind I go commot ya teeth...

Tell her the truth and stop wasting her precious time, but remember karma

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

But the question is HOW do you know the serious and rightful person?

vislabraye:
You said 3 years and you even promised her marriage ?
I'm with a lady for barely 6 months. I've not even made any promise of marrying her and yet she told me her mom wants to see me.
My guy, you went to far. My situation is small compared to yours and I even need advice..

This is so funny. But why are you scared though?

If I am in a relationship with a lady, that means I'm very much interested in marrying her.

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

EgoOyibo!!!

xperiencelove:
You are a curse to mankind. Remember that you will have daughters and they might reap what you are sowing now. Why will you waste someone's time for 3
good years intentionally without remorse! Yet, you still want to put the blame on her!!

The guy is evil minded. He will reap what he sows

dontrulee:
Did the Op mention that he promised her marriage?? Even if the Op does, must he fulfill the promise?? If the guy is no longer interested he should break up na... It's simple life, it's not wickedness at all.

And yet you will come out to be complaining about Federal government being Terrible to it's citizens after making promises during their campaigns for election, if they don't fulfill their promises you start cursing them and their families right?