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Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

This is probably the end result or should I say the repercussions of being INTENTIONALLY wicked, deceitful and manipulative with that girl. Better break up with her now, ask for her forgiveness and ask God for forgiveness.

Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

He's most likely already suffering repercussions due to that

Mylordmygod1:
i want it to be in the form of a set up, i don't want her to blame me because i don't know how she will feel

I cant speak about your age but I made the same mistakes and I wish I could do them over again.

You can't undo three years but every day you waste for this girl is evil. You dont want her and she doesn't even know.

Give her the opportunity to find someone that loves her. If she was your daughter, would you approve of your behaviour towards her?

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

BRING YOUR EARS NEAR ME AND LET ME WHISPER THE TRUTH TO YOUR SKULL. YOU ARE NOT YET A MAN, IT LOOK LIKE YOU WILL BE LIKE THIS FOR A LONG TIME.

Jman06:
How is he coward.

Assuming you're in his shoes, and you discover along the way that a relationship isn't favourable to you, wouldn't you dump the guy Something y'all do to guys all the time but when the reverse is the case, the guy is bashed for it.

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Any questions left?

Mylordmygod1:
I'm about to start up a business, and i don't need her assistance since i'm not marrying her..

lalasticlala help me reach out to more people.. Thanks

You want us to tell you how to break up with her na?

If you are bold enough to woo her, you should be bold enough to tell her....Make sure you don't regret your actions..

Na like this oga Titus take lose a good woman sha..

And she doesnt get angry when you flare up...chai one man meat, another man poison..

Just say you don chop tire....I raa ju go..

Why do you want to end the relationship now

U re just so stupid ND a fool.i hope d girl will deal with you wen u break up with her.so u were just trolling with her heart ND getting her Hope's on.

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Start eating garlic, belief me they hate guys with sticking breath, ND start raising her value, the rest is a matter of time

So after constant knacking for 3 unholy years? Dude you going nowhere, I believe that lady understands what you are trying to do. Disgusting

Bola146:
Trouble ke

Hey! H're u dis monin?

1Sharon:
Yes I know that.

But she isn't the one complaining, he is.

The more reason why you shouldn't even mentioned that he slept with her. They both had sex. Na woman dey enjoy am pass

vislabraye:
After you don chop her finish, you come look for fault, abi ? (Just kidding).

Nope. It was a no sex relationship. I married as a virgin and my wife set na virgin.

Sex no be food!

You are very mean.. So you telling her isn't enough
You want to push the blame on her ,so she will later end up depressed while blaming herself or even commit suicide
Guy ,you are very cruel and heartless..If you won't marry her,tell her straight forward.

You get mind..Tell her jaree. Its left for karma to decide if you are wrong or right ,but first of all free the lady now biko

Cry to her tell her ur mum refuse you from marrying her dat she want u to go back to the village to get a wife simple tidy her dat day sef

You don't need any form of advice from anyone to tell you the format on how to break up with her; and making it look like it's her fault. That's plain childish. You own up to your shit, take responsibility for your actions, inactions, and your lack of good & positive planning. Anyone who gives you such advice to pin it on the girl is a good-for-nothing; that's if the girl in question hasn't done anything to wrong you but loving you was her crime.

Ask yourself, would you love to get married to someone like yourself who has your character and thought process? I'm not even sure you'd fit as a good friend with your thinking. Proly, you never knew about relationship or were plain ignorant that a successful relationship lasts best when it's properly maintained and this goes to still appreciating everything about your woman just the same way you first met her even though lots would have changed, still seeing her as the best and most beautiful anywhere in the world even though she has her flaws & there are more beautiful girls out there.

You've reached your peak in seeing all about her and you don't feel attracted to her no more; that's greed. If you have a sister, pray that she meets a man who would do her the exact thing you intend doing to your woman right now if it would make you happy but if it won't, you're very selfish and wicked if you can't face her squarely to end the relationship; thereby taking the blame. Na your type go date mammy water offend am like this, com dey do marathon all through the churches for Nigeria like say u dey crusade just coz say u dey find solution when dem table your case for marinal court of justice.

Mr. Man, you don't need any advice, na slap dem suppose arrange for you make your brain reset to default settings. AND NEVER MAKE A PROMISE YOU CAN'T KEEP!!!

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Oga is very easy to end a 9ja gal relationship. Stop calling her n giving her attention n Money. Ladies hardly tell guys it's over, her attitude alone will make u to run

Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

A single sense you don't have.
You brain is as empty as washed coke bottle.

Tụfịakwa gị

Qatar2022:
I hail you, i have marked your name here any day you quote Nigeria girls we will have issues. Please don't quote me again I'm eating

lol funny guy

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Just know that when you marry her, she will deal with you

If I were you, I wouldn't have wasted her 3 full years.

CsRockefeller:


This is so funny. But why are you scared though?

If I am in a relationship with a lady, that means I'm very much interested in marrying her.

Never thought of marrying her. Just wanted to smash. But I'm surprised she started catching feelings.

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Just get some competition for her either other girls or drugs
You can also hire my company to toast and bang her, so you can bust her for cheating

Simran94:
And yet you will come out to be complaining about Federal government being Terrible to it's citizens after making promises during their campaigns for election, if they don't fulfill their promises you start cursing them and their families right?

Me? You must be mistaken. Have never for once complained about the Federal government. I have always believed in taking full responsibility for my Life. If you live your life based on the promise of another person, you're in for a long thing. It's normal nature for a man to disappoint, so I don't expect less from the government. The fundamental thing is majority of humans have hope within them and that makes them complacent and blind to the main reality. Hope is good but not enough to place the foundation of your life on.

Simran94:
And yet you will come out to be complaining about Federal government being Terrible to it's citizens after making promises during their campaigns for election, if they don't fulfill their promises you start cursing them and their families right?

I understand that ladies are more affected by what they hear. So when a guy whom they perceive to be credible promises something to them like marriage, they loose guard and become almost blind to all the red flags leading to a cycle of repeated heartbreak. And that is why most ladies will conclude that all men are the same. The truth is, not all men are the same, it's the ladies that remain the same in the different relationship they enter into and of course, they will have the same outcome with their previous relationship.

vislabraye:
Never thought of marrying her. Just wanted to smash. But I'm surprised she started catching feelings.

If you tell a lady straightforward that you just want to smash her without marrying her, she will most likely not agree except she finds you very attractive because she doesn't want to be as a slut or a sex machine. That's why majority of guys have invented all kinds of lies just to get in between the legs of ladies.

There was a time I tried performing an experiment, I was very honest and truthful with every girl I liked and wanted to smash. I was straight to the point unfortunately none of them agreed. It was then I realized girls don't like to hear the truth. It is their nature within them to be deceived. It's the sad reality of Life.

ISelectMySins:
What is your reason?

Ok, The first few months , Everything was going well, I think 6months down the line, She and her mom started pressuring me for marriage and I know I'm not financially buoyant then.

Besides. I'm more of an introvert, I think I do not know what I actually wanted before asking her out, But she developed great feelings for me in the relationship. I dont wanna hurt her, I called her and told her everything . She did not give up on it

dontrulee:
If you tell a lady straightforward that you just want to smash her without marrying her, she will most likely not agree except she finds you very attractive because she doesn't want to be as a slut or a sex machine. That's why majority of guys have invented all kinds of lies just to get in between the legs of ladies.

There was a time I tried performing an experiment, I was very honest and truthful with every girl I liked and wanted to smash. I was straight to the point unfortunately none of them agreed. It was then I realized girls don't like to hear the truth. It is their nature within them to be deceived. It's the sad reality of Life.

And yes, that's why the serpent was able to decieve Eve na.
Lolz

dontrulee:
Me? You must be mistaken. Have never for once complained about the Federal government. I have always believed in taking full responsibility for my Life. If you live your life based on the promise of another person, you're in for a long thing. It's normal nature for a man to disappoint, so I don't expect less from the government. The fundamental thing is majority of humans have hope within them and that makes them complacent and blind to the main reality. Hope is good but not enough to place the foundation of your life on.

By the "You", I meant Nigerians that always come online to bash the federal government for not fulfilling their promises