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Your sister Ian the problem not the guy

Your sister needs to leave that guy alone so that his life will be meaningful for him

Your sister is a dream killer

She has not coerced the guy into a woman beater

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several time to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship . When I warn my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok. Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them ?

this is exactly what made me to be shoutin on my girl. Bro u beta mind ur business, ur sister is nt a kid and u dnt av the riqht to separate their love affair, leave ur sister, isn't she the one that choose the simp? Abi guy don finish 4 dix kwontree. ?

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your sister nose why she always quarrel with the simp. .

Ok bye

You have to understand that no matter how toxic a relationship is,

Some people prefer it to what you may call normal.

You want to call lawyer to separate 2 lovebirds.

How is this any of your business?

Leave her alone she’ll run out of toxic relationship anytime she’s fed up

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

legal actions baa wo nii?

kamtamark:
what if I decide to beat the boy?

Beat the boy,na your sister need beating no be the boy ,if that is my sister I wil just tell her how stupid and dump she is.I will tell her she shouldn't bother calling me again.Shey your sister no get sense.

dan9ice:
E get wetin your sister they gain, that's why she's still in the war called relationship

She's benefiting some I guess

The guy dey dick her well well

Aswearugaaad

Are you sure the guy isn't the victim in an abusive relationship? It takes 2 to tango, my guy

Having said that, you can only do that which your sis allows you to. If you go do pass yourself, she'll resent you for overstepping.

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

Legal keey? Woo, If you truly want to separate them then PEACE IS NOT AN OPTION, VAWLENCE IS DUE ��

Leave that's how God want them to be
God wants them to be living a Cat and Dog life and don't be surprise they will end up marrying each order and that time the fight will stop allow them because they are doing their love in a serious confusion way

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

What about your parents? Elders in the family? Church/mosque/community leaders?

Since your sister is not listening to you, report her to any of the above.

God forbid she dies, sustains am irreparable injury or kills the dude, all this English we are speaking would disappear and you would realize that your sibling's welfare (when you are in the know) is your business.

Kobojunkiee:
According to you there, he has to bribe his way into having this say tgat you claim, meaning he shouldn't even have one to begin with.

You are not your sister's saviour. The sooner you learn and accept that, the sooner you begin having peace for your own life.

so he should just watch things go wrong... I guess his attention won't be drawn when things go south according to your stance....[b][/b]

ojun50:
If you get better job, you no reason this yr sister matter

Why is stupidity becoming rampant on this forum like this? Someone is seeking for a solution to a family problem, you are talking gibberish. You and your fellow lowlifes should get over this 'make money' line whenever any social issue is brought up here. It's irritating!

There are a million problems money cannot solve!

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

The best legal action you can take is to leave them! Don't go and separate them when fighting again.

Kobojunkie:
If your sister lives with the guy, you have no legal ground of any kind.

So long as she is of adult age, you really can't do anything for her except that which she allows you do. You should probably stop running over to rescue her and tell her to instead call the cops when she needs help.

Nigerian cops abi which one, you know how much that one go cost you?

Kobojunkie:
You will probably end up in jail while he will continues to beat on/bully her in your absence.

The problem is your sister, not the boy. Your sister is the one choosing to stay in an abusive relationship and she needs to realize this and decide to end it.

Lol. De sister might be the one at fault. Some ladies are more abusive

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Keep warning her against the relationship so it will get stronger. Women are hard headed like that. We have seen time and time again that abusive relationships are women’s kryptonite. If you fly her outside the country and refuse to bring her back, she’ll find a well paying job in order to make enough money to come back home and continue the relationship. Your hands are tied.

MPESA:
Until you learn to understand that your sister's well being is your 1001 priority and protecting her against all odds is your total responsibility.
SHALOM.

To me, it’s like the sister will even be the one to go back to him

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

None.

Kobojunkiee:
According to you there, he has to bribe his way into having this say tgat you claim, meaning he shouldn't even have one to begin with.

You are not your sister's saviour. The sooner you learn and accept that, the sooner you begin having peace for your own life.

what if she dies from domestic abuse? This is his blood for goodness sake

Hmmmm, they are not married, so need of wasting your money to take legal action.

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

It is very difficult to advise any human who is in love and he/she will listen. It when they both face with situation they can't control that they will give up. Please be careful so that you will not be an enemy to their relationship.

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

When a guy has a good working gbola it's quite difficult for a woman to quit him regardless of the domestic abuse.i presume that's what your sister is going through.

Are you a man or woman?

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MPESA:
Not true, as her elder brother he has a say also he can force the guy to sign undertaking to keep distance from the said Lady .... giving a police some money is better for him than burying his sister.

But the lady don't want to leave the guy. You see where the problem lies? She might even side the boy. Things like this require wisdom to handle.

What a wicked advice...

Kobojunkie:
That doesnt change anything. Leave your sister to live her own life on her own terms abeg!

Focus on your own life, please.

@OP. Kindly ignore those telling you not to do anything while your sister is being molested.

In as much as she is an adult, will you because of that allow someone to kill her while u bear the grief?

Kindly report the matter to the police, u can simply state threat to your sisters life as the offence.

In one of the days your sister calls you, or u go to separate the fights, record the calls, asking for details where she will mention the guys name beating and what he is doing to her, also make video record as evidence when u go to settle them.

With this, you can take to the police while making the report.

Goodluck

kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

Small thing legal this legal that,

Have you asked her if the relationship is legal


Instead of warning her of the risk of contacting hiv/aids and stds.

Tomorrow now na one innocent man go come marry person wey them Don disvirgin back to back. Them go come they feature for the whole churches in Nigeria looking for the fruit of the womb.

cherryCola:
lol...,

nah so my sister been they do, small time she
go wire the niggar slap in my presence knowing that
dude can touch her in my honourable presence.
Until one day, niggar decided to broke loose of her spell and gave her the beating of her life still in my presence .

laugh wan tear my belle here ooh.wetin you come do the niggar?