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Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Ladycewhy(f): 9:59am On Nov 12, 2021
Dear op even if you arrest that guy, your sister will bail him out but don't loose courage.

Like some people have suggested , report him at the police station ,let it be on record that you did your best.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by LotaTee: 10:00am On Nov 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You will probably end up in jail while he will continues to beat on/bully her in your absence. undecided

The problem is your sister, not the boy. Your sister is the one choosing to stay in an abusive relationship and she needs to realize this and decide to end it. undecided
You people are funny.Would you say the same if the roles were reversed?
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Cyoung4real(m): 10:03am On Nov 12, 2021
All this girls no Dey hear word, dem get coconut head. Na so one girl tell me say her boyfriend Dey always beat her and I told her to breakup before the boy go kill am, the next thing I saw on her status some hours later was a picture of her and the boy with caption “No monkey can break us” omo started minding my business ever since then. Na your papa be money, ediot. angry grin
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by dicksonadams(m): 10:03am On Nov 12, 2021
Arrange another guy to date, marry and impregnate your sister
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by LotaTee: 10:03am On Nov 12, 2021
somethinggood:
What a wicked advice...

@OP. Kindly ignore those telling you not to do anything while your sister is being molested.

In as much as she is an adult, will you because of that allow someone to kill her while u bear the grief?

Kindly report the matter to the police, u can simply state threat to your sisters life as the offence.

In one of the days your sister calls you, or u go to separate the fights, record the calls, asking for details where she will mention the guys name beating and what he is doing to her, also make video record as evidence when u go to settle them.

With this, you can take to the police while making the report.

Goodluck
One of the very few sensible comments I've seen on this thread so far.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Jorge91: 10:07am On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?
You have tried your best, until the guy fling her from balcony or use something hard to hit her head out of anger, that resting in peace she is looking for she will see it.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by T0BY(m): 10:10am On Nov 12, 2021
see what weed is doing to you.. unreasonably commenting on all threads.. quit drugs and regain your sanity.. smh
Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM cool REAL MATTERS. WTF MAN
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by UMUNNA001(m): 10:11am On Nov 12, 2021
Pls bros just allow them any day anytime they are tired of being together thy will unloose them selves from the championship relationship they are into.
Moreover you are not the person that got the boy friend or the male friend for her.
Stay off them before you endanger your life because of kids in a love relationship.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by SmartyPants(m): 10:12am On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
that mean as an elder brother I can't help her out? My fear is that if I do something stupid the boy will use advantage and deal with me. That's why I want to know my own right as a brother in thier relationship.
Can't you read?

You have been told several times YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

The next time he beats her you can report to the police.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by udemzyudex(m): 10:18am On Nov 12, 2021
MPESA:
Until you learn to understand that your sister's well being is your 1001 priority and protecting her against all odds is your total responsibility.
SHALOM.
Na wa ooo, the sister is always running to the guy and claiming everything is fine, why are you guys not telling him to call his sister to order?

If truly his sister is his priority, then she should focus on her instead of the guy.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by stuffs4me(m): 10:29am On Nov 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You will probably end up in jail while he will continues to beat on/bully her in your absence. undecided

The problem is your sister, not the boy. Your sister is the one choosing to stay in an abusive relationship and she needs to realize this and decide to end it. undecided
How did you know it was not the sister that is the abuser and the boyfriend is the victim.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Boogyman557: 10:32am On Nov 12, 2021
T0BY:
see what weed is doing to you.. unreasonably commenting on all threads.. quit drugs and regain your sanity.. smh
Holly Gram cool I have been waiting 4 ur riply man. Jah bless man. WTF MAN
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Festflor: 10:38am On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?

Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by AfroKnight: 10:43am On Nov 12, 2021
Dude you have to let her know that things can escalate one day. One of them may get badly injured or even killed. She needs to leave the relationship and work on herself.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Kobicove(m):
Kobojunkie:
If your sister lives with the guy, you have no legal ground of any kind. undecided

So long as she is of adult age, you really can't do anything for her except that which she allows you do. You should probably stop running over to rescue her and tell her to instead call the cops when she needs help. undecided
Call the cops here in Nigeria?

The Nigeria police has no time to settle quarrel between domestic partners! undecided
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:48am On Nov 12, 2021
them don take sex confuse your sister's brain. One day, them go take proper beating and hospitalizations reconfigure her senses back. Till then grin
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by oodua1stson: 11:01am On Nov 12, 2021
Your sister is enjoying good penis but you're here trying to put asunder
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Newboss(m): 11:13am On Nov 12, 2021
Bloody simp!

You can't even separate yourself from the toto of your sister who is fully an adult who can make her own decisions.

Captain save a hoe is taking this simping shît too far. For your mind, women are weak and should be helped. The day woman go shuk pen inside your eyes, your eyes go clear.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Babastrong(m): 11:27am On Nov 12, 2021
No legal action. just tell your sister to go and learn boxing or taekwandwo before see married. it takes madness to conquer madness.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by id4sho(m): 11:32am On Nov 12, 2021
Have you thought that your sister is abusing her boyfriend sad.
I pity that gentle man
Sister ni! Devil ko!
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Kunlelee: 11:34am On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
what if I decide to beat the boy?
Don't do that unless you'll have yourself to blame. The best you can do is advice your sister and let her know when next she call you about the guy, you won't show up.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by femi4: 11:51am On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?
Mind your biz....no relationship without ups n downs
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Solatium(m): 11:57am On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
what if I decide to beat the boy?
if the boy come beat you nkọ? grin
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by frozen70(f): 12:07pm On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?
The two of them are adults

You have no right or any legal power on her because you don't know how far they have gone besides, she will always tell you that, every thing is OK

Simply inform your family if what you have observed in them and they should advice her to withdraw from the relationship

If she insist, leave her in the relationship

Is either she enjoys the relationship or she regrets the relationship

There are some certain decisions or advise you give to people base in the danger you have seen in the relationship

But experience is the best teacher
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by AntiWailer: 12:12pm On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
what if I decide to beat the boy?
You are now talking.
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Basicend: 12:37pm On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Your sister likes the boy obviously. But she's experiencing many things that she does not like.

So tell her the truth, that it will still end in premiums tears. .

She is hooked to him because of either good sex or money.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Mvena(f): 12:42pm On Nov 12, 2021
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?
Make dem kill each other na
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by Mvena(f): 12:43pm On Nov 12, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You will probably end up in jail while he will continues to beat on/bully her in your absence. undecided

The problem is your sister, not the boy. Your sister is the one choosing to stay in an abusive relationship and she needs to realize this and decide to end it. undecided
Some people dey like torture sef abi he dey do am well
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by MolarT(m): 12:55pm On Nov 12, 2021
Is ur sister living with u or she is living with the bf?

Answer this and I will give u advice.
kamtamark:
Please pardon my English. Is one years now that my sister introduced a boy to me as her boyfriend, since then I have gone to their place several times to separate fight and it seems it is getting worst but they don't want to end the relationship.

I warned my sister never to near the boy. To my surprise I will see the two of them again and my sister will say everything is now ok.

Please what legal action can I take to separate the two of them?
Re: My Sister Always Fights With Her Boyfriend by MPESA(m): 1:01pm On Nov 12, 2021
Iliveforever:
To me, it’s like the sister will even be the one to go back to him
You are right but the only problem I have with the guy is that he do beat the lady If not I no go even put mouth for there matter.
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