Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

Then keep your romance and sex for someone who's ready for romance and sex....

Not having romance and sex affects you too.

If you want her,then you must want her with her standards.
If you want romance and sex,there are girls who are ready to mingle in that area.
You can't eat your cake and still have it.

Una too dey exaggerate Everything about sexxx . Lashing na food? . Instead of you to think of how your life after NYSC go be,you dey there dey complain about girl wey fit run leave you anytime she see say the only thing wey you get to offer her na your useless dangling third leg

Some of una wey I dey share this my prestigious masculinity with these days just dey make me dey para

No No No....dey there, infact just dey there dey plunge yourself into a state of dilemma Simply because of ordinary lashing wey girl no gree give you . The same girl wey dey try save you self . Imagine say she cor mistakenly get Belle for you now,na from that very moment you go start to dey talk dey waka for road

Kolo people

scanner1000:
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

scanner1000:
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

She is right, if you are not ready to marry her you don't need any intimacy, that is fornication.
Respect her wishes, sex is not only about having penetration it involves erotic interaction too which I personally believe should be in the boundary of marriage

Look for your fellow fornicator and marry.

I pray the fornicator you find bills you steady for the service she will render.

If you are sure she still loves you and still have those qualities you saw in her at first then waiting for her shouldn't be a problem. Staying without the intimacy won't kill you (it's not like you both are having sex in the first place sef)

If on the other hand you have noticed a change in attitude and behavior that suggest she isn't into you anymore just EXIT straight.

She might have found someone new she enjoys the little intimacy with henece the new terms and conditions.

scanner1000:
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

Is sex food??
You got yourself a good girl like you said...but you want to ruin it because cumming is more important to you.....

Just love her...
Lucky you she’s not demanding money...
So you don’t feel pressured..your buying of things and giving her money will be occasionally... last last...she will come around

scanner1000:


PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

Let's get some understanding right:
Relationship does not equate sex, even marriage.
You can sought for sex outside your relationship, since you agree to no sex from day one why complain now. If I agree to no sex in a relationship, I will come up with my own counter agreement too. Which might includes freedom to seeking sex outside or other 3rd party, which I might not even tell her;

Na small small dem eat food wey dey hot.
With time she will give u all u want.

But are u sure the girl love u? Cos that her conditions strong pass army general own

Agree to her conditions then find another babe dey do wetin u want

If you love her then stay, sex is too easy and overrated these days, you can get sex anywhere

Good girl.


You either wait or waka out of her life.

scanner1000:
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

I will not lie to you, if you want to date a girl and marry her, waiting till marriage will never be your problem.. if I see a woman I want to marry today, I’ll prefer never to even touch her till marriage..

The main reason you are saying you can’t cope and it will be boring is because you don’t see a future with her and that’s the truth.. so leave the poor girl alone, let her be and look for some one you can be lashing..

Lee99:
If you love her then stay, sex is too easy and overrated these days, you can get sex anywhere

Put In your opinion sex is overrated, please..

Sex can Never be overrated to me in my opinion

talk2hb1:

Let's get some understanding right:
Relationship does not equate sex, even marriage.
You can sought for sex outside your relationship, since you agree to no sex from day one why complain now. If I agree to no sex in a relationship, I will come up with my own counter agreement too. Which might includes freedom to seeking sex outside or other 3rd party, which I might not even tell her;

I hardly cheat when I love you and am having any form of intimacy with u. But I think I will take dis ur advice..

Xilsbridalhouse:
Good girl.


You either wait or waka out of her life.

So kongi can kill me right?

Sonnobax15:

Una too dey exaggerate Everything about sexxx . Lashing na food? . Instead of you to think of how your life after NYSC go be,you dey there dey complain about girl wey fit run leave you anytime she see say the only thing wey you get to offer her na your useless dangling third leg

Some of una wey I dey share this my prestigious masculinity with these days just dey make me dey para

No No No....dey there, infact just dey there dey plunge yourself into a state of dilemma Simply because of ordinary lashing wey girl no gree give you . The same girl wey dey try save you self . Imagine say she cor mistakenly get Belle for you now,na from that very moment you go start to dey talk dey waka for road

Kolo people

Am not new in stuff like dat, am over careful

Jeremani:
Na small small dem eat food wey dey hot.
With time she will give u all u want.

But are u sure the girl love u? Cos that her conditions strong pass army general own

I swear down. But I think Dis one major things that make men cheat. Kongi wan finish me

That's the reason she is still a virgin

This virginity thing dey overrated. The fact your love for her increased because of virginity shows that you still never get sense.

There is nothing for you in that relationship.

scanner1000:


So kongi can kill me right?

Na you sabi

Bleep... The numbers of relationship issues Wey dey enter nairaland ehn..

Chisos,and this one is a corper?

Spin plates!

Go out and have fun with other women!

Don't let her occupy any pedestal in you heart or head!

She is not saving herself for you but the highest bidder!

Be wise!

helinues:
Chisos,and this one is a corper?

What happened for being a Corper?

A corper acting like a secondary school boy. If she's a wife material, then wife her and start having sex.

Honestly, you should be more focused on your future. Since she's also a corper, you two should plan on how to make something useful out of your lives. Life after service is tough my friend.

If sex is your problem, go and look for a sex worker. That lady knows what she wants from life.

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

scanner1000:


I hardly cheat when I love you and am having any form of intimacy with u. But I think I will take dis ur advice..

No one is asking you to cheat!
Just giving you options!
Is either she agrees to your terms or she quit the relationship!

scanner1000:
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

Walk away ....
You want romance and she doesn't, there's no point being together...

scanner1000:
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship .
I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp

PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year.
Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please.

You're a big fool @Op so you cannot control your third leg??

Beside don't believe those ladies that says no sex but agree to romance. They are the great decievers jare. She is probably having sex with another dude, you're just her back up plan. It's just plain stupidity to me. Makes me remember one funny story, I'll share it later...