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Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by drlateef: 10:35am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Get someone who was impregnated and her education destroyed to come and talk to her. That’s all you need, apart from prayers. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by TundeWX: 10:35am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Drakkernoir: True |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by TundeWX: 10:36am On Nov 13, 2021 |
drlateef:lol..Terror 101 |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by authority2006(m): 10:38am On Nov 13, 2021 |
CivilzedTyger: That dude is one of the things that are wrong with this country. Imagine attacking Islam over an issue that is headache for many parents all over the world! I wonder what he will say if a Christian raise the same issue tomorrow? Solsix: Shut up and stop making a fool of yourself 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Yeyenairaland(m): 10:39am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Apply Sharia law ASAP Cut one of her fingers and ban her from any form of digital device for the rest of her life |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Nobody: 10:40am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Solsix:oh I see how Christians dominat BB naija and porn industry |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by authority2006(m): 10:40am On Nov 13, 2021 |
TundeWX: Giving her back the phone just like that doesn't solve the problem either. Parents can seize phones temporarily for many reasons and this one happens to be on the top of the lists. Why rushing to give her back the phone? |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Regex: 10:43am On Nov 13, 2021 |
The coming of social media has rendered so many home training useless. It can not be stopped, but rather delayed, so there is no use seizing her phone unless you have decided she will not use phone again throughout her lifetime. She has been exposed, and it takes the grace of God for her to be cautious. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by godofuck231: 10:47am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Public flogging or behead her , after all na Una de form practice of sharia law |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by brainhgeek(m): 10:47am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Teenage exuberance. Don't force or impose values or virtues upon her now. It's either too late or too early. She needs a loving mentor (family member) who she can trust. She is going through a phase of personality metamorphosis. It is not usual. You guys should not tag her or you might as well have lost her before redemption is possible. Just get closer and be her best friend. She needs someone to lovingly guide her through this phase of life. Again, don't impose unnecessary value or orders on her before those wolves outside give successfully lure and trap her with the tool you are not using at home. A listening ear!. She's molting. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by cayorday89(m): 10:48am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Eriokanmi:Best way to go Sir, caging a child is even worst because in the long run the child will not be able to relate well with his peers and will miss out on very vital information that is peculiar to her generation which will help such child in his or her progress in life. Phone is a must in this dispensation, but they must be guided in a friendly manner, monitored like you are doing and try to caution when necessary or even ask questions like how will they handle some situations when they are faced with the side attractions from boys, uncles and men that lurk around. Same goes to the boy child. In all let them communicate with their peers. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by tiswell(m): 10:49am On Nov 13, 2021 |
prettysassygirl:so if she gets pregnant before the end of the 'phase" nko? I guess you are just as the same age as the girl in context 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Simdyofficial(f): 10:50am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Heryormilekan:my dear every woman got holes. Ask your mama to show you. That's where you passed through. Respect 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by DeRichard(m): 10:53am On Nov 13, 2021 |
RAFFIZY: The simple truth is Jesus Christ is the only way. Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Karleb(m): 10:54am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Who didn't chat with the opposite sex at adolescent? |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by orlaglobal234: 10:55am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Is not your sister fault but blame your parent, your parent caused all these by purchase Android phone for her because nowadays Android phone and internet spoil our girls than any other things.... but honestly i support your parent on this action they took |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Qatar2022: 10:56am On Nov 13, 2021 |
TundeWX:Adviser of the century |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Qatar2022: 10:57am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Solsix:Did you read in this post anywhere he mentioned force? Why can't you people read before vomiting trash? For your notice I'm not a Muslim |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Qatar2022: 10:58am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Beebah2000:And your stupid self support her behaviour? |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 13, 2021 |
RAFFIZY:Are you Sufi? |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Ishilove: 11:02am On Nov 13, 2021 |
RAFFIZY:Kuku give her a Nokia torchlight phone |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Nobody: 11:03am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Qatar2022:Oga, I am not supporting her behaviour. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by sabreal: 11:04am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Post her ohine number here. She will.be re parented within 5 days sharp sharp. She is got sine talents to heavily explore. Your parents have done their best. RAFFIZY: |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Magnoliaa(f): 11:06am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Omoluabi16:Lewl. I agree with some here... |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Myer(m): 11:08am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Solsix: This applies to adults. So if shes old enough biko let her make her choice. All you can do is let her know the pros and cons and know that you love her all the same. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by mansion11: 11:11am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Actually bro i feel for u.but the wayout is prayer.just pray for her and every humanbein have their own test perhaps thats her own |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Omoluabi16(m): 11:14am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Oya now which one do you disagree with |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by treatise: 11:16am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Send her to a university in Afghanistan |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Magnoliaa(f): 11:17am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Omoluabi16: Strict control of your children's SM use until they are 18 or so... or unless you explain what you mean/how... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Acidosis(m): 11:19am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Allow her use her phone, please. Some of you did nasty things with 2go, Blackberry Messenger, Etc. If chatting with boys is the issue, all you have to do is to guide her! No allow hijab f00l you, nearly all young teenagers want to chat/interact with the opposite sex. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by Ojikutumomiage(m): 11:20am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Beebah2000: Na Una dey spoil the world, you guys need to caution else our world will burn. |
Re: My Sister Has Gone Out Of Control by 4four(m): 11:24am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Solsix:most of you with this backwards thinking, some of you guys will be worst than Buhari if Una mistakenly get to power, just because the dude stated de are Muslim, you don twist religion jargons out of the issue. So back to the real issue, this is way typical African parents handle issues like this either they are Muslim or Christian or traditional woshiper |
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