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Wallade:
I am not competing for anything with my father in-law, there is nothing to tussle on but I married his daughter. I have respect for him and expect him to respect himself as well or keep his place as my wife's father but never interfere with my marriage except when permitted by me ultimately.

I am not below my father in-law. [b]If my wife thinks like you and instigate anything to prove that to me, then she is in for shocker[/b]s.

She won’t instigate anything. You should be sensible enough to know your place.

pocohantas:
She won’t instigate anything. You should be sensible enough to know your place.

My father in-law too should be sensible enough to know his place. My wife should care to protect the status of her husband and father.

Wallade:
My father in-law too should be sensible enough to know his place. My wife should care to protect the status of her husband and father.

She can have many husbands, but just one father. Please make peace with your second position at best, so that you can enjoy your marriage.

pocohantas:
Fathers are gold.

The only man that wants you to be greater than him.

The only man that will give you urgent 2k without asking “so when are you coming?”

The only man that you can chop his money and not pay back in any form. Just be fine and great, he is alright.

One coconut head will na come from God knows where and want to rub shoulders with your father because he paid bride price. Kai! Young guys are badly behaved. If not they should know their place, somewhere below the father.

Only a foolish, insecure guy will be dragging position with his wife's father na.


Parental bond is priceless.


How I wished most ladies understand this too and not try to take the place of their husband's mother

franchasng:
Only a foolish, insecure guy will be dragging position with his wife's father na.
Parental bond is priceless.
How I wished most ladies understand this too and not try to take the place of their husband's mother

Don’t mind them, they will learn. I do help mine to carry his mother’s matter for head. He thinks it is me they’ll use an settle? Agadi nwanyi like me with 70s sense.

Even if he complain from today till 2082 that he doesn’t know what she uses money to do. I will ask him how it is his business. Abi you wan carry your money go grave? Give her the money. If he doesn’t take care, me and her will form party, with me as the flagbearer.

pocohantas:
She can have many husbands, but just one father. Please make peace with your second position at best, so that you can enjoy your marriage.

Maybe you live in a society where you can have many husbands. 95% of societies recognize one man to one wife, by law.

My wife can not have another husband until we are divorced, if need be. If she so much believes she can pick and marry and dump and pick several other husbands. Then we are of very different believes and couldn't have been married in the first place.

I am not second place in my marriage and I will not tolerate it. Thunder fire that woman that will attempt to make me second place in my marriage. It shall never be well with such woman in marriage. I will not have it and she will see a different and bad me. Good riddance to such marriage.

Wallade:
Maybe you live in a society where you can have many husbands. 95% of societies recognize one man to one wife, by law.

Better don’t have heart attack. You can always be changed in a second, but a father can’t be changed. You are nothing but a husband who came after her family has finished suffering to raise her. Where were you when they were drinking garri? Where were you when her father was struggling to send her to school? Now she has graduated, you carry your coconut head to be forming oga. Nonsense and Wallade.

pocohantas:
Better don’t have heart attack. You can always be changed in a second, but a father can’t be changed. You are nothing but a husband who came after her family has finished suffering to raise her. Where were you when they were drinking garri? Where were you when her father was struggling to send her to school? Now she has graduated, you carry your coconut head to be forming oga. Nonsense and Wallade.

Are you married? I want you to answer the question.

pocohantas:
Don’t mind them, they will learn. I do help mine to carry his mother’s matter for head. He thinks it is me they’ll use an settle? Agadi nwanyi like me with 70s sense.

Even if he complain from today till 2082 that he doesn’t know what she uses money to do. I will ask him how it is his business. Abi you wan carry your money go grave? Give her the money. If he doesn’t take care, me and her will form party, with me as the flagbearer.

Confirm


You see I always tell guys, if you want to marry and have peace of mind, if you want to marry a quality lady, go for ladies above 27yrs. You see all these student girls shaking their big bomboms on IG, na for men above 50yrs who need just fun to expand their retirement age on earth



But many guys are pedophiles searching for under 18 virgins that wont cheat

Wallade:
Are you married? I want you to answer the question.

She is oh, you ought to know. You guys are not observant enough, she don play una tinko

franchasng:
She is oh, you ought to know. You guys are not observant enough, she don play una tinko

I can bet she lacks respect for her husband and treats him like second place citizen in the marriage or perhaps trash.

Thank God you have such a man but not me, I will not deal. I would rather end the marriage.

pocohantas:
Fathers are gold.

The only man that wants you to be greater than him.

The only man that will give you urgent 2k without asking “so when are you coming?”

The only man that you can chop his money and not pay back in any form. Just be fine and great, he is alright.

One coconut head will na come from God knows where and want to rub shoulders with your father because he paid bride price. Kai! Young guys are badly behaved. If not they should know their place, somewhere below the father.

They are preparing your Tiger generator rope for dragging inside kerosene for this comment. Just you wait.

Wallade:
I can bet she lacks respect for her husband and treats him like second place citizen in the marriage or perhaps trash.

Thank God you have such a man but not me, I will not deal. I would rather end the marriage.

Wahala wa ooo. Ehen. You say watin? Second class what? Hehehehehehehehehehe.

franchasng:
Confirm

You see I always tell guys, if you want to marry and have peace of mind, if you want to marry a quality lady, go for ladies above 27yrs. You see all these student girls shaking their big bomboms on IG, na for men above 50yrs who need just fun to expand their retirement age on earth


But many guys are pedophiles searching for under 18 virgins that wont cheat

LMAO. You, too, you've been kind of making sense lately. It's like it's the way marriage makes people. Be like I go go find one husband tie down, I need to catch the transformer bug. But after I've finished doing what girls my age do on IG for big mens as you've said. I'll change my material when I'm above 27.

franchasng:
She is oh, you ought to know. You guys are not observant enough, she don play una tinko

How? Sorry, I don't understand.

Wallade:
I can bet she lacks respect for her husband and treats him like second place citizen in the marriage or perhaps trash.

Thank God you have such a man but not me, I will not deal. I would rather end the marriage.

Try and understand her point bro, she is talking about husbands that try to take the place of their wife's father in the name of being a hushand. Its not cool na.



Life is beautiful and simple if we all can understand our position, respect and appreciate it. Being a husband doesn't make you her father and being her father doesn't make you her husband and vice versa.


Some men get angry when their wife send money to her parents or siblings, to me there is nothing bad at all. For example me, I always make jest of my wife that when will you change your dad's car with your own money? I always challenge her to take good care of her father, unfortunately her mom is late.


Because I became her husband doesnt take away the fact that someone, some people sacrificed their years to train her to become who she was before I saw her and admired her and made her my wife. If they failed in their responsibilities to her, she wouldnt have been a lady I would admire to the extent of making her my wife.


Try reason her point, she is.not saying wives should not respect their husbands but they should not try to take the place of their wife's fathers, that's what I understand from her comment

franchasng:
Try and understand her point bro, she is talking about husbands that try to take the place of their wife's father in the name of being a hushand. Its not cool na.



Life is beautiful and simple if we all can understand our position, respect and appreciate it. Being a husband doesn't make you her father and being her father doesn't make you her husband and vice versa.


Some men get angry when their wife send money to her parents or siblings, to me there is nothing bad at all. For example me, I always make jest of my wife that when will you change your dad's car with your own money? I always challenge her to take good care of her father, unfortunately her mom is late.


Because I became her husband doesnt take away the fact that someone, some people sacrificed their years to train her to become who she was before I saw her and admired her and made her my wife. If they failed in their responsibilities to her, she wouldnt have been a lady I would admire to the extent of making her my wife.


Try reason her point, she is.not saying wives should not respect their husbands but they should not try to take the place of their wife's fathers, that's what I understand from her comment

Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. I can tell the kind of woman she is in marriage or will be.

I have got nothing to compete or drag with my father in-law but he should keep his lane and I will keep mine.

Wallade:
Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. I can tell the kind of woman she is in marriage or will be.

I have got nothing to compete or drag with my father in-law but he should keep his lane and I will keep mine.

hahahahaha wahala de

pocohantas:
A sensible man should know he comes below the wife’s father. Please know your place and have peace.

. I can understand during courtship. Are these rules applied during the marriage that she is in my house? I don't get it.

pocohantas:
Fathers are gold.

The only man that wants you to be greater than him.

The only man that will give you urgent 2k without asking “so when are you coming?”

The only man that you can chop his money and not pay back in any form. Just be fine and great, he is alright.

One coconut head will na come from God knows where and want to rub shoulders with your father because he paid bride price. Kai! Young guys are badly behaved. If not they should know their place, somewhere below the father.

Then go and marry your father.

pocohantas:
Better don’t have heart attack. You can always be changed in a second, but a father can’t be changed. You are nothing but a husband who came after her family has finished suffering to raise her. Where were you when they were drinking garri? Where were you when her father was struggling to send her to school? Now she has graduated, you carry your coconut head to be forming oga. Nonsense and Wallade.

I see the reversal you did up there, it has always been their anthem here.

A good and responsible father will interfere in your marriage if he absolutely need to. There is nothing you can do about that.

Wallade:
I am not competing for anything with my father in-law, there is nothing to tussle on but I married his daughter. I have respect for him and expect him to respect himself as well or keep his place as my wife's father but never interfere with my marriage except when permitted by me ultimately.

I am not below my father in-law. If my wife thinks like you and instigate anything to prove that to me, then she is in for shockers.

pocohantas:
Better don’t have a heart attack. You can always be changed in a second, but a father can’t be changed. You are nothing but a husband who came after her family has finished suffering to raise her. Where were you when they were drinking garri? Where were you when her father was struggling to send her to school? Now she has graduated, you carry your coconut head to be forming oga. Nonsense and Wallade.

Are you aware some husbands singlehandedly trained their wives in school and also alleviated their in-laws from poverty or put the brother-in-law through so he can be successful too?

pocohantas:
Fathers are gold.

The only man that wants you to be greater than him.

The only man that will give you urgent 2k without asking “so when are you coming?”

The only man that you can chop his money and not pay back in any form. Just be fine and great, he is alright.

One coconut head will na come from God knows where and want to rub shoulders with your father because he paid bride price. Kai! Young guys are badly behaved. If not they should know their place, somewhere below the father.

You'll make heaven, this I have seen.

Igbo adage: A daughter that knows not how to treat dad well, will never know how to treat husband well.

Nwa ada na-amaghi nna ya alu, agaghi ama ka-esi alu di ya.

Iseeee


All I see is a well groomed daughter!

Is this not incest kind of relationship

this your zaddy OP
him don Bleep u lyk how many times

Sterope:
A good and responsible father will interfere in your marriage if he absolutely need to. There is nothing you can do about that.

When the time comes, we shall see what I will do about it.

What do you expect from kaffirs

Sugar daddy

Dad or Sugardaddy ...which two ?

pocohantas:
Fathers are gold.

The only man that wants you to be greater than him.

The only man that will give you urgent 2k without asking “so when are you coming?”

The only man that you can chop his money and not pay back in any form. Just be fine and great, he is alright.

One coconut head will na come from God knows where and want to rub shoulders with your father because he paid bride price. Kai! Young guys are badly behaved. If not they should know their place, somewhere below the father.

You captured everything so well especially paragraph 2.

Omo! I don't know what I'd have done without my Father's love oh. He's the reason I'm where I am today. His support is amazing and I'm grateful for him.

I don chop my Papa money tire ehn. .

He has also told me I won't find another person like him again, and if any man touches me "Jail straight".

Make threats? Won't listen?

Your trump card is if you marry from a useless or a weak family. A proper family will throw you and yourself out into the gutter. Lmao. Who you be?

Wallade:
When the time comes, we shall see what I will do about it.

franchasng:
Confirm


You see I always tell guys, if you want to marry and have peace of mind, if you want to marry a quality lady, go for ladies above 27yrs. You see all these student girls shaking their big bomboms on IG, na for men above 50yrs who need just fun to expand their retirement age on earth

But many guys are pedophiles searching for under 18 virgins that wont cheat

Age is not a reliable determinant of *quality* besides qualities are brewed by personality, however what you define as quality is best known to you and you are entitle to ur opinion but;
catch dem youngs remains the best choice, cos if you're a wise man you can mold her into your satisfaction. the older a gurl becums the more her cumulative bitterness and the more she embraces sef love n have smaller room for a partner, her submissiveness is base on condition relative to motive and intentions she will subtly carry out.