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Is it a sin to lust and fantasise over your wife? Most especially, couples who don't both reside in the same state cos of career jobs.

Well, my wife works in a different state (Lagos) while we reside in Abeokuta, Ogun State (also working) - both very good jobs. She comes home twice in a month or thrice as the case me be. I don't go to visit her in Lagos cos she is staying with her Elder sister. (Can't imagine myself going to spend time at her sisters place...). Hence, I find myself lusting and fantasising over my wife alot when she is not around and really long for her return as the weekends approaches.

Can religious folks in the house help view this with their scriptural and religious eyes if this is a sin or it's normal cos I sincerely don't feel any form of guilt when I find myself doing so.

Pls no cursing... would appreciate Married folks only or matured minds throw in their views.

In addition, God has blessed us with beautiful 2boys already. So know be informed of the cruise level we dey operate.

People are sleeping, ask in the morning...

Debodimeji01:
Is it a sin to lust and fantasise over your wife? Most especially, couples who don't both reside in the same state cos of career jobs.

When you and your wife are busy copulating, are you not even at that point lusting after her, or do you think of other things when doing the do with your wife?

Do you "lust and fantasize" about your wife only when she is over in another state?

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Okay Baba

Boomboost:
People are sleeping, ask in the morning...

Baba is bothered about loosing out on heaven

NO

Read Songs of Solomon

Is she not your wife...or you just want to create another type of sin. Me I don't understand this sha. Righteousness will have something to say about this

Lol...

No, it's not a sin. As long as it's not another woman but your wife, you're good to go.

** Chuckles** .