Danielkelly:

Nonesense is she a child? You statement is sideline her bullshit. Bro you are crazy if you don't discipline her na so you go marry am her erropackaking na follow com i get one girl wen run me dat kind of uncivilized barbarical shit i tel am straight say hold your shit go your papa house go shit am na so she vex try manipulate me as she dey manipulate you i no gree i stand my ground gidigba til she change.

The fact that you think one adult ought to discipline another adult is what is instead barbaric in this case.

Your galfriend or wife is not a doll or slave for you go correct. If you don't like what she does and are unwilling to work with her in or through it, then move on. That is what grown up do.

Kobojunkie:
The fact that you think one adult ought to discipline another adult is what is instead barbaric in this case.

Your galfriend or wife is not a doll or slave for you go correct. If you don't like what she does and are unwilling to work with her in or through it, then move on. That is what grown up do.

Is that wat your mama told you?? well my my papa E.A ADEBOYE TOLD ME THIS: The kingdom of GOD suffereth violence and violence take by force.

Danielkelly:

Is that wat your mama told you?? well my my papa E.A ADEBOYE TOLD ME THIS: The kingdom of GOD suffereth violence and violence take by force.

Your Papa is a fool to have told you such nonsense.

What in the world has the statement Jesus Christ said He reference to His Kingdom and those rushing blindly into it through the broad gate that leads to destruction to do with relationship between a man and a woman here on earth?

@op, sorry but your girlfriend is simply dirty, disgusting, if there is no water in the house, I'll rather hold my poo than doing it without flushing, a lady for that matter, i wonder how she takes care of her privates... Na wa o

Kobojunkie:
Your Papa is a fool to have told you such nonsense.

What in the world has the statement Jesus Christ said He reference to His Kingdom and those rushing blindly into it through the broad gate that leads to destruction to do with relationship between a man and a woman here on earth?

it not given unto you to understand. Perherps may be you have not observed, i pray earnestly you have more experince and you go do like adult do always. Murmur Work into your shell.

Danielkelly:
it not given unto you to understand. Perherps may be you have not observed, i pray earnestly you have more experince and you go do like adult do always. Murmur Work into your shell.

Again, Your Papa is a fool to have told you such nonsense.

What in the world has the statement Jesus Christ said He reference to His Kingdom and those rushing blindly into it through the broad gate that leads to destruction to do with relationship between a man and a woman here on earth?

Open that book and read it using the brain cells you were given by God rather than let men deceive and delude you with lies.

So women dey poo with all their yanga... Na you get time dey apologise...
You are a SIMPle man I think...
Slap am she go reset her life

Kobojunkie:
Again, Your Papa is a fool to have told you such nonsense.

What in the world has the statement Jesus Christ said He reference to His Kingdom and those rushing blindly into it through the broad gate that leads to destruction to do with relationship between a man and a woman here on earth?

Open that book and read it using the brain cells you were given by God rather than let men deceive and delude you with lies.

who is the soilder you will dare and he will work away??, like adults do?? how many women will dare a gorillar soilder in dis life or the next?? you are still a kiddo. Cos you don't your the one in the delussion of civilization.

Danielkelly:
who is the soilder you will dare and he will work away like adults do how many women will dare a gorillar soilder i dis life or the next you are still a kiddo. Cos you don't your the one in the delussion of civilization.

What civilization are you yammering on about?

We are speaking here of common sense this one dey ramble about soldiers and gorilla soldiers.. yet you no see say you dey swim brekete in delusions.

snap out of that nonsense so you can re-engage your brain!

Kobojunkie:
What civilization are you yammering on about?

We are speaking here of common sense this one dey ramble about soldiers and gorilla soldiers.. yet you no see say you dey swim brekete in delusions.

Abeg snap out of that nonsense!

I got to go now got something to handle we go chat for another time kobo.

My friends respect her so much and I don't want them to loose that respect for her.

Besides I'm not the type of guy that talks anyhow. So I just have to lie to them.

Danielkelly:

Nonesense is she a child? You statement is sideline her bullshit. Bro you are crazy if you don't discipline her na so you go marry am her erropackaking na follow com i get one girl wen run me dat kind of uncivilized barbarical shit i tel am straight say hold your shit go your papa house go shit am na so she vex try manipulate me as she dey manipulate you i no gree i stand my ground gidigba til she change. Your own be say you talk you no dey stand your ground. Tel her how embrased your friends been come see her shit for toilet say you tel them say na her she stupidly doggyasslicakly shit am be4 den Bring another clean babe come house tell am say this wan sabi flush toilet & until she learn to flush toilet make she no cross ur compound or door again. Make she dey outside as you dey tel am na unlimited access

Daniel7543:
Good day nairalanders.
I'll be brief. Please pardon my typo errors, I'm not a good writer.

I live in a 2 bedroom flat apartment here in Benin city. I live alone, I'm a very neat guy inside out. Infact you can eat comfortably in my toilet . I wash my toilet almost everyday.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. She's from Uromi, Edo state. She's so kind, caring and beautiful. Infact, I want my unborn kids to look exactly like her. She also live here in Benin city with her parents and they're well to do. Most times we spend the weekend together.

But the issue I'm having with her is that whenever she make use of the toilet (especially poo) she don't flush, there's always water running in my flat 24/7. I have talked to her severally but she will always say..."she's sorry, that she forgot". Since we've been dating for almost 2 years now I have flushed 90% of her poo, she's not willing to change. The last time we quarreled seriously about this issue was last month, Infact I ended up apologizing just because I tried to correct her.

She came over to my house after her grandfather's funeral, same thing happened again and i was like..."is this how you went to disgrace yourself at your family's house in Uromi?“... She got angry and started yelling at me. I just have to apologize.

What happened today really got me angry. Please note. I don't really make use of the visitor's toilet because the master's room has it own toilet/bathroom which is my room. But i do wash the visitor's toilet once in a while even when nobody is using it.

So my friends came over to my house, we were all drinking, gisting and watching a football match, one of my friend wanted to urinate in the visitors toilet, the moment he entered the toilet, he came out immediately shouting...."Danny na wa for you o, u nor Sabi flush".... When I saw it mehn.. It was irritating. I knew my girlfriend did it when she came over last weekend. I was so ashamed. I just had to lie it was my little cousins that must have mess up the toilet when they came to visit during the week.

Please nairalanders, how can I talk to her to stop this habit??. I'm really down and I've tried but my best is not enough. I love this girl so much. Please help.

Lala

U sure say she dey wash her nyash at all

Nwodosis:
You said one can even eat in your toilet, she knew that is an insult to the readers and she's fighting hard to make sure no one eats in your toilet.

See comment

Daniel7543:
God forbid, she not a psychopath. She will be done with her nysc next month. I don't want to break up with her. I hope she change. I'm tired bro.

Lemme get this straight...
She's an adult who doesn't flush the toilet when she uses it... And when you try to correct her, she gets so mad, that you have to apologise... And even though you're not comfortable with it, you flush her poo and hopes that one day she will change...

Hmm...
Honestly OP...
Advising you is a waste of advice, because you won't implement it...


Anyways...
Since you don't want to break up with her, keep hoping she changes ... Buh until then, more water to keep flushing the poo of an adult and keep apologizing for it, anytime you bring it up...

Daniel7543:
My friends respect her so much and I don't want them loose that respect for her.

Besides I'm not the type guy that talks anyhow. So I just have to lie to them.

open up to your friends and they gonna help you solve the problem faster if they aren't toxlc positivity os close up and she won't change. you'll be more depressed covering herup, which will affect your mental health. You were expecting me to say you did well?! Ha ha ha no you didn't, give a rat chesse and they will ask for a glass of milk alusion from Air+force01 consider her a squaty in your apartment even the sex na she enjoi..yam pass then you will do the right thing.

So, na just to press button flush toilet be her problem? Tells so much how lazy and dirty she is. Just imagine your toilet in case of your house going through a water hasle which no one can predict, could be your pumping machine been faulty, your girl would store up her poo for God knows how long in such case. you better choose between to endure her or to move on, don't sha come back here ranting how she wouldn't stop messing your life up

They say life no balance abi u no hear ?

You go see nepa dey use generator
Police dey buy dry gin on credit

You get babe wey fine, caring , respectful and you expect make she no get one bad character?
Something must be missing bc no human is completely made without a single flaw

Me I tall, get money, get big preek, get accent for mouth when needed, got it all yet I no get papa again, money no fit bring am back to me

All I'm trying to make you understand is that as long as the girl doesn't give you a headache over your peace of mind then there are ways to handle such situations

Does she have a best friend (female)?
Have a rendezvous with her friend , plan with her to visit your girlfriend's house and poo in their toilet without flushing too
Let her do it up to 2 or 3 times
Then wait for your gf to complain , then you make her understand that's how you also feel shikena
She'll STOP

"Sometimes ordinary advice ain't enough, do o people what they do to others to teach Dem not to hurt them"


Lights up my kpoli in peace

Daniel7543:
Good day nairalanders.
I'll be brief. Please pardon my typo errors, I'm not a good writer.

I live in a 2 bedroom flat apartment here in Benin city. I live alone, I'm a very neat guy inside out. Infact you can eat comfortably in my toilet . I wash my toilet almost everyday.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. She's from Uromi, Edo state. She's so kind, caring and beautiful. Infact, I want my unborn kids to look exactly like her. She also live here in Benin city with her parents and they're well to do. Most times we spend the weekend together.

But the issue I'm having with her is that whenever she make use of the toilet (especially poo) she don't flush, there's always water running in my flat 24/7. I have talked to her severally but she will always say..."she's sorry, that she forgot". Since we've been dating for almost 2 years now I have flushed 90% of her poo, she's not willing to change. The last time we quarreled seriously about this issue was last month, Infact I ended up apologizing just because I tried to correct her.

She came over to my house after her grandfather's funeral, same thing happened again and i was like..."is this how you went to disgrace yourself at your family's house in Uromi?“... She got angry and started yelling at me. I just have to apologize.

What happened today really got me angry. Please note. I don't really make use of the visitor's toilet because the master's room has it own toilet/bathroom which is my room. But i do wash the visitor's toilet once in a while even when nobody is using it.

So my friends came over to my house, we were all drinking, gisting and watching a football match, one of my friend wanted to urinate in the visitors toilet, the moment he entered the toilet, he came out immediately shouting...."Danny na wa for you o, u nor Sabi flush".... When I saw it mehn.. It was irritating. I knew my girlfriend did it when she came over last weekend. I was so ashamed. I just had to lie it was my little cousins that must have mess up the toilet when they came to visit during the week.
My friends respect her so much and I don't want them to loose that respect for her.

Please nairalanders, how can I talk to her to stop this habit??. I'm really down and I've tried but my best is not enough. I love this girl so much. Please Help.

Lala

I dont understand the apologies..like why na? Tell am say e no gel..

Of course, she wash her bum bum after using the toilet.

But she would rather die than to press the flush button. Seriously I'm sick and tired bro.

Bigpapi:





U sure say she dey wash her nyash at all

Yes bro. She wash her bum bum after poo.

But to her "death sentence" means when she press the flush button.
So sick and tired mehn..

extol1:
She is a dirty girl. If she is forgetting to flush after poo, hope she watch her bum bum after she poo.
In a nutshell, guy man you dey try

TundeWX:
bro,just take her like that,these days to see someone who's "kind,caring and beautiful" is rare,you know how "streets" are these days....just d oda day one guy here dey complain of his babe thats into runs anoda again thats into diabolic acts...try calm down,there're worse things out there than poo

You will eat shit because of a woman . Jezz what kind of a man are you? Your shame dey shame me

Daniel7543:
God forbid, she not a psychopath. She will be done with her nysc next month. I don't want to break up with her. I hope she change. I'm tired bro.

Expect the worst when you marry her, don't a man/woman out of a pity.

OP why are you talking like a SIMP !!!

She by now knows how important hygiene is to you !
But she still does it.

You've spoken to her like an adult yet still does what she want.

If I were you, the next time she enters to use the restroom, i would lock the door

She would bang and scream sef, then I will ask her have you flushed the toilet

Let her smell her shit and her piss for a good amount of time.

Maybe sense would enter her head .

If you're too SIMPle for that,

Stop inviting her to your house !!


If you have the mind sef, tell her poor hygiene is a deal breaker for you and you guys would just have to go back to being friends, so she won't have to be coming to your house .

Maybe another babe who values good hygiene would now be coming.


OP you've spoken too much to this babe, take action and stop fearing the consequences

Daniel7543:
Good day nairalanders.
I'll be brief. Please pardon my typo errors, I'm not a good writer.

I Help.

Lala

She is too lazy....and that will be evident in other areas too

Daddy
Where for Benin you dey?
You be redpiller?
I just wan :Dcheck somethin


Haven read your travails I can't help but laugh
Otemwen you're suffering from onetitis because I don't get how person go comfy shit for another person house and e no go flush
And the fact that you keep making excuse for her is baffling
Like a poster said, she's shit testing you and you keep falling over and over again to the point of you being manipulated to apologise when clearly you're not wrong.



Do I have an advice for you Certainly not brother
Your mind's made up already
Kor

@dhiqson. Na airport road side I dey for Benin.


Bro, even if it's a test....the test nor dey finish. It almost 2 years now.

dis one don pass test, na examination she dey do now oo. I hope she changes

Dump that bìtch. She no dey hear word. She is part of the worst kind of women to be with.

Daniel7543:
@dhiqson. Na airport road side I dey for Benin.


Bro, even if it's a test....the test nor dey finish. It almost 2 years now.

dis one don pass test, na examination she dey do now oo. I hope she changes

You're really living the life bro
Is this said girl a student in uniben?
Bro 2years? Of flushing shit?
Bro you deserve better nau
No make doggy style blight your reasoning nah

Na uselu/eko me dey sha

Qatar2022:

You will eat shit because of a woman . Jezz what kind of a man are you? Your shame dey shame me

You might as well tell him to raise hell or better still break up her nw..

She finished from AAU ekpoma.

I really love this girl and she loves me as well. I don't know how to make her stop this habit. I don't want any break up.
I'm tired, I'm fed up, i've had it up to my throat.

dhiqson:


You're really living the life bro
Is this said girl a student in uniben?
Bro 2years? Of flushing shit?
Bro you deserve better nau
No make doggy style blight your reasoning nah

Na uselu/eko me dey sha

No offense, but there's something wrong with that girl. How can someone keep telling you they don't like something, and instead of being more conscious about it, you keep doing the same damn annoying thing?

Na ment?