Rrchrd:
Mmm wia una dey see all these well-Paid jobs abeg make una connect me nah

I dont care if anybody is pregnant for anybody... Just give us tips how you make 500k per month. Sapa too much

I don't care what you do BUT DONT ABORT THAT CHILD DONT YOU DARE!!!!!!!!!

BabaCommander:


This just showed you are talking trash.
Having sex the next day after period can make her pregnant.

Enjoy the attention you are seeking.

I didnt only have sex after her period but it continued for about 1month almost 3times a week or more! Who says I'm seeking attention

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

Which yeye love? They weren't even dating just fụ̀cking .

OP, you wanna marry a girl you haven't even dated, be my guest. Don't come crying when she's not who you imagined her to be.

We were as close as who was dating even in d office..we go home together, eat together and chill together for more than 8months..just that I didnt really spell out the relationship

Annie001:

Many of you here are home wreckers, saddist and don't have a good life
Shame on you and the 55 people who liked this

Big shame o. Sis I dunno how people even reason?

ComeToJesus:
I know that in Nairaland and other blogs, there's a department that produces phantom fabrications like this.


After watching Zeeworld and other make-believe channels, they come here to practice their scriptwriting skills with a strong bias in fiction.

How is this a phantom fabrication? Smh for nairalanders o

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Just go away please. There are more pressing issues.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

What confuses me was that you claimed to earn 500k and above. You must be at minimum a midlevel staff if not at senior level. Someone of your "assumed" intelligence should not be coming to a public forum and be asking faceless people about how to go about your relationship. This makes your story to be unbelievable. I wish you well.

ppogba:
I will advise.you based on the following assumptions.
1. You both are earning 500k plus.
2. Your company policy frowns at you both working there together.
3. You intend to have her as your wife.

If the.3 stated. assumptions are true, I will advise you both start serious saving immediately ( at least a combined 50%) before the company gives one of you the option of resigning. With that, you should be able to cope
Failure to do this, you will discover that what is after figure six is actually more than seven. To

I dont think my company frowns at this. It is a government agency not a private company

asobo1:
In a well structured organization, both of you ought to have been given your sack letter.

Come sack us na..dummy u think it's a one man business that u work in?

Did you asked for our help when you dey hammer am

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Please don't see this as an insult, but please grow up for God's sake you are a 33 years old man. Igbo, Calabar, only son are all irrelevant unprotected sex has consequences thank your God it is pregnancy and not a deadly disease. Go ahead and build your family love has no boundary.

Tunex252:
You can go ahead and marry her but the issue is you and your wife working in the same company is big turn off for me

I have a friend, himself and the wife is working in the same company but i think its a different department

potent5:
Congratulations, Op.

If you allow her to abort the baby, you will regret it for almost all your life. And please, don't marry her because she is pregnant for you. Marry her if you believe she has what you want in a woman, irrespective of her tribe.

This is the best advise for you.

If only ur Monika is smellysperm I will have no issue with it
But y comment when u have nothing to say

DICKstractor:



Dont marry her bro
Don't marry her

From the kind of news we see here on nairaland every day on paternity fraud, I've come to the conclusion that, in this generation, a child has no father until he is born and DNA test done


What if the child is your boss' or another colleague's. Oh, you think you are the only one enjoying the cookies? Let me tell you now, kpekus is an accommodating bottomless pit. E no dey discriminate.


Wait and do DNA. You'd be surprised when the child is born, he will look like the security guy




Office romance gone sour

Fork mates? Ok interesting

ppogba:


That is the most likely period to get pregnant. A day before or a day after.

Please enlighten me. Which egg will the sperm fertilize, one day post period? Unless you are saying that the OP sperm has a longevity of close to 8-9 days.

my man go and do the needful and continued with ur wife ... u wil not regret of taken this decision in life

Tony142:



U are mad, if he did not marry her, then who will marry the baby mama he produce? Na simp I pity for sha, meanwhile u are mad again

Na buhari frustration de worry you.

Going by your replies, you already knew what you wanted(what you were getting into) so yhh congratulations are in order then.

Not a bad situation, You are both adults, not just adults, like grown UPs, if you think ypu would both be sacked at your work place, the lady can write her resignation while the guy continue to do the work to provide for the family

At 33 years of age, you got your colleague pregnant yet you don't know what to do, go and jump into the lagoon

This guy don de Bleep silently then run come here.come tell us which way make him go as him don give her belly.

Guy advice your self well na man u be no be us go come live with you in the your house when fire start .
No even your ppl just finish what you started as far as money no be problem .

But make sure u invite us to come jolicate for dedication ..
Good luck with ya Calabar girl

ottiz:

Please enlighten me. Which egg will the sperm fertilize, one day post period? Unless you are saying that the OP sperm has a longevity of close to 8-9 days.

We continued having sex for weeks

Better marry her.

Inorder news...

Look at the picture I woke up to this monday morning with the caption

"I've been imagining you on me this way since yesterday"

The worst part is that it's from a church Usher that collected my number for "Church Follow Up" yesterday Sunday o becos I got up as a first timer.

That's why I don't like coming out or putting myself out there.

Some Men are Perverts

AmericanDad:


Do u think I'm that jobless to sit down and coin a false story for likes pls if u cant advice...kindly ignore

If you were genuine, you would not reply

Your moniker says it all. Americandad, you will finally become a dad. Congrats sharp striker… lukaku

Continue with the work at home nah!

AmericanDad:


Nah its mine cos I was with her when her period finished...and we had sex when she was off the next day

Had sex a day after menstruation ? I’m sorry it’s not yours, accept if you miscalculated.

Congrats!

What help are you seeking for now?

This moral help you asked for could have been more appropriate before you start the bed drills with her.

You guys must not kill the innocent soul because of your selfish reasons.

Didn't you know you were colleagues?

Didn't you know what is required before a pastor can tie the knot in church?

Didn't you know she is from Cross River State?

AmericanDad:


I didn't cum inside. I came out. Dunno what happend

If you're certain she's not seeing anyone else, and of course you may have spilled some unknowingly pre cums can also contains sperms cells.

Either way, be sure to run paternity test early enough.