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Datboredberry:
Add to your worth...
Shawarma shouldn't be the only thing to dig...

so what do you want now?

KingDash:
so what do you want now?

I hope someday, you wouldn't consider buy the kids of your girlfriend Shawarma a milestone... Or some thing worth celebrating or complaining about...

I pray Shawarma isn't the only thing you have for a woman to gold-dig...

May you be blessed, so you can with pride complain with your mates out there how a woman absconded with your millions... That's something...not Shawarma, or school text books or money for a fever test...

Datboredberry:
No doubt you're broke too...

If you can't afford Shawarma.. you shouldn't be dating... Your life really needs your attention...

Honestly, you think class equates to being completely undemanding?

Everytime I visited my exes... I always bought snacks and candies for his younger siblings...

Yogurts, chocolate cookies... I have a sweet tooth...

It was fun...

But almost all of you are broke including you Gan.

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid...

If you can't even be decent enough to get atleast Shawarma for the kids of the woman you're dating... You're either extremely poor or an inconsiderate idiot.

Being independent doesn't mean you shouldn't expect gifts from your partner...

The point of relationships is sharing... enough to not consider the terms 'yours' and 'mine'...

Most of you are so dumb and Ignorant...

So you expect him to take care of someone else's child.? You must be very stupid ma'am

OP... you must be staying for dem Alagbado, Okokomaiko, Egbeda, Idimu, Iyana-Ipaja, Abule-Egba, Sango-Ota etc...

That fit be one of the reason.

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid...

If you can't even be decent enough to get atleast Shawarma for the kids of the woman you're dating... You're either extremely poor or an inconsiderate idiot.

Being independent doesn't mean you shouldn't expect gifts from your partner...

The point of relationships is sharing... enough to not consider the terms 'yours' and 'mine'...

Most of you are so dumb and Ignorant...

I guess you didn't read the part where op said he has been giving giving and giving without receiving anything in return

That's a parasitic relationship and op needs to change his circle of love interests

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid...

If you can't even be decent enough to get atleast Shawarma for the kids of the woman you're dating... You're either extremely poor or an inconsiderate idiot.

Being independent doesn't mean you shouldn't expect gifts from your partner...

The point of relationships is sharing... enough to not consider the terms 'yours' and 'mine'...

Most of you are so dumb and Ignorant...

What does he get in return apart from toto?

Datboredberry:
No doubt you're broke too...

If you can't afford Shawarma.. you shouldn't be dating... Your life really needs your attention...

Honestly, you think class equates to being completely undemanding?

Everytime I visited my exes... I always bought snacks and candies for his younger siblings...

Yogurts, chocolate cookies... I have a sweet tooth...

It was fun...

No wonder they are now your exes.

News flash!!!
Mama Christmas that comes bearing gifts got dumped

mariodko190:
I don’t know why am always encountering poor and hungry girls, and single mother too, At first I’ll be comfortable with them, but as times goes I get fed up with their constant billy and dependent, am the one always giving but not getting nothing in return, Na so one wen I dey folo dey do bestie one use her pikin bill me die, today she go say “babe dem pursue my pikin comot for sch because of text book” tomorrow “babe my pikin get fever I need money for checkup” next thing is “babe my pikin say e wan eat shawarma” sometimes I keep wondering if I will ever find a girl with class and not depended, self made and love me for who I am

Change your location, move to Lekki phase 1

Datboredberry:
I hope someday, you wouldn't consider buy the kids of your girlfriend Shawarma a milestone... Or some thing worth celebrating or complaining about...

I pray Shawarma isn't the only thing you have for a woman to gold-dig...

May you be blessed, so you can with pride complain with your mates out there how a woman absconded with your millions... That's something...not Shawarma, or school text books or money for a fever test...

wow...

PUSSYHOE:
What does he get in return apart from toto

Aren't you the notorious 'toto' sniffer?

Trust me.. that 'toto' is some of your fellow men's beginning and end.. you trying to tell me most Nigerian men don't feel blessed when a 'toto' is bestowed upon them?

Susily:
I guess you didn't read the part where op said he has been giving giving and giving without receiving anything in return

That's a parasitic relationship and op needs to change his circle of love interests

Parasitic relationship? And when the op finally finds the woman who wouldn't ask for him to provide gifts for her children while visiting, what then would he be offering?

Or the op thinks his penis is of some tremendous importance?

Dheji2:
No wonder they are now your exes.

News flash!!!
Mama Christmas that comes bearing gifts got dumped

News flash!!!

I didn't buy gifts for them to garner their affections or buy their loyalty... I bought it because I love kids.. and I grew up receiving gifts from visitors... My upbringing is different from yours obviously.

Like I asked, what makes you think I got dumped tho?

Relationships end... Thankfully... You thinking it's such a big deal, it's weird... People date, people move on... You're the type to bash his head on the wall over a breakup?

Do I look like I'm seeking someone to settle down with? On the other hand, I'm just starting my life...

Differentiate:
So you expect him to take care of someone else's child.? You must be very stupid ma'am

All the op listed equates to catering for his girlfriends' kids?

Jeez...

Datboredberry:
I hope someday, you wouldn't consider buy the kids of your girlfriend Shawarma a milestone... Or some thing worth celebrating or complaining about...

I pray Shawarma isn't the only thing you have for a woman to gold-dig...

May you be blessed, so you can with pride complain with your mates out there how a woman absconded with your millions... That's something...not Shawarma, or school text books or money for a fever test...

What about paying for their school books?

Datboredberry:
Aren't you the notorious 'toto' sniffer?

Trust me.. that 'toto' is some of your fellow men's beginning and end.. you trying to tell me most Nigerian men don't feel blessed when a 'toto' is bestowed upon them?


Parasitic relationship? And when the op finally finds the woman who wouldn't ask for him to provide gifts for her children while visiting, what then would he be offering?

Or the op thinks his penis is of some tremendous importance?

Companionship. That's what he'll offer her

Relationship is a two way thing. One party can't just continue giving without receiving similar gestures in return, and the op said he has gotten nothing in return for his kind gestures

So he should find a mutually beneficial relationship and indulge in it

Susily:
Companionship. That's what he'll offer her

Relationship is a two way thing. One party can't just continue giving without receiving similar gestures in return, and the op said he has gotten nothing in return for his kind gestures

So he should find a mutually beneficial relationship and indulge in it

and who says she isn't giving him her company?

You and the op were referring to sex... I know... Which is low...

Relationship is a two way thing... But with consideration for the children of the person you're dating...

If the op was really serious and not simply search for a sex-mate... Then giving her money for her child's health or getting the kid a cheap snack wouldn't be something to gnash his teeth over...

Datboredberry:
Aren't you the notorious 'toto' sniffer?

Trust me.. that 'toto' is some of your fellow men's beginning and end.. you trying to tell me most Nigerian men don't feel blessed when a 'toto' is bestowed upon them?


Parasitic relationship? And when the op finally finds the woman who wouldn't ask for him to provide gifts for her children while visiting, what then would he be offering?

Or the op thinks his penis is of some tremendous importance?

Are her children supposed to be the op responsibility? If his penis isn't tremendously important so what makes you think her pvssy is worth shit?

Datboredberry:
and who says she isn't giving him her company?

You and the op were referring to sex... I know... Which is low...

Relationship is a two way thing... But with consideration for the children of the person you're dating...

If the op was really serious and not simply search for a sex-mate... Then giving her money for her child's health or getting the kid a cheap snack wouldn't be something to gnash his teeth over...

So much for an assumption. I hope you don't make decisions and conclusions based on assumptions?? Quick to assume we're referring to sex

Well the op was giving, giving and giving and not getting anything in return. So you should condemn the other party not returning op gestures instead of condemning op

Datboredberry:
No doubt you're broke too...

If you can't afford Shawarma.. you shouldn't be dating... Your life really needs your attention...

Honestly, you think class equates to being completely undemanding?

Everytime I visited my exes... I always bought snacks and candies for his younger siblings...

Yogurts, chocolate cookies... I have a sweet tooth...

It was fun...

Well the advice that he shouldn't be dating now and give his life more attention is good. I applaud you for that. But after he must have developed better he's not supposed to give entitled bitches like the ones he posted above an atom of attention. He's supposed to roll with girls that are developing themselves too

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid...

If you can't even be decent enough to get atleast Shawarma for the kids of the woman you're dating... You're either extremely poor or an inconsiderate idiot.

Being independent doesn't mean you shouldn't expect gifts from your partner...

The point of relationships is sharing... enough to not consider the terms 'yours' and 'mine'...

Most of you are so dumb and Ignorant...

It's you who is being dumb. You said the point of relationship is sharing, so what are they giving (sharing) with the Op. Isn't sharing supposed to be a two-way thing?

Susily:
So much for an assumption. I hope you don't make decisions and conclusions based on assumptions?? Quick to assume we're referring to sex

Well the op was giving, giving and giving and not getting anything in return. So you should condemn the other party not returning op gestures instead of condemning op

And she gives him her company...

Fattprince.. I don't have the time to respond to three mentions.. I've probably provided a response somewhere in this thread...

Op I Dey find games wey fit gimme least 30k
I don broke die

Datboredberry:
And she gives him her company...

Fattprince.. I don't have the time to respond to three mentions.. I've probably provided a response somewhere in this thread...

Ok

All these emotional back and forth talking that doesn't add up to your worth is very rubbish.

Datboredberry:
Like I said... Rather than argue emotionally, raise up solid points...

I have no problem with men... I simply hate Nigerian men who are mostly myopic, hypocritical twats...

The op complains that the women he bleeps are hungry since they asked him to get their kids gifts such as Shawarma while he visits...

Giving the children/siblings of your partner doesn't make you less of a man... Or an ATM...

Even while visiting neighbours and friends... We're all encouraged by our societal values to consider the children...

If the women asked for food or anything else, that's a different topic...

The women can obviously provide for themselves...

I don't need to kiss the asses of broke, narrow minded African men to not feel left out...

What do you offer that's of any interest or importance?

You're one of the billion others in the world... worthless and irrelevant... But Nigerian men are worse..: shallow, unexposed, unnecessarily egoistic...

I quite agree with you on this.
I wish when most people goto school, they gain education as well but its the opposite. Most dont hv a clear mind, selfless or open-minded to learn the language of the world which is education.

I am actually dating a single mom as well and she isn't doing so well and im trying myself. I got much more than her and i see nothing bad helping out.
I got a friend tht sends half of his salary to 5 diff single mothers (50k) because his mom was a single mom and he would always say its not an easy job. I can bow for him anytime for that gesture.

Most Naija guys wld buy you coke and xpect kpekus as returns. Shitty attitude to me.

Datboredberry:
Are you daft? Didn't you read my comment?

Giving the kid of the person you're in a relationship with a gift doesn't mean you're taking care of them... It's common sense and simple decency to give simple gifts... Especially to children.

The STIs you mention, you must have received so many...

But always remember, for these girls you've dated to have those infections, there must have been a community dìck...

It's gross... But I somewhat understand your bitterness. And I sympathize.

It seems like you're a single mom

Datboredberry:
I hope someday, you wouldn't consider buy the kids of your girlfriend Shawarma a milestone... Or some thing worth celebrating or complaining about...

I pray Shawarma isn't the only thing you have for a woman to gold-dig...

May you be blessed, so you can with pride complain with your mates out there how a woman absconded with your millions... That's something...not Shawarma, or school text books or money for a fever test...

Na mumu go dey brag say woman abscond with him millions...the beating wet you go collect .You don't brag about stupidity my dear.

Relationship relationship relationship

Una no dey get headache on top relationship matter?

Datboredberry:
No doubt you're broke too...

If you can't afford Shawarma.. you shouldn't be dating... Your life really needs your attention...

Honestly, you think class equates to being completely undemanding?

Everytime I visited my exes... I always bought snacks and candies for his younger siblings...

Yogurts, chocolate cookies... I have a sweet tooth...

It was fun...

Hey I thought twas a reasonable person who typed this. . then I click on profile and I saw time registered 07 Nov 2021! Stop being a birsh ass to get attention. You and I know what you commented is bullshit. Wtf!

Are you living in Ibadan

But remember there's no love without giving

Even if you jam rich girl, you go still dey give

Datboredberry:
Like I said... Rather than argue emotionally, raise up solid points...

I have no problem with men... I simply hate Nigerian men who are mostly myopic, hypocritical twats...

The op complains that the women he bleeps are hungry since they asked him to get their kids gifts such as Shawarma while he visits...

Giving the children/siblings of your partner doesn't make you less of a man... Or an ATM...

Even while visiting neighbours and friends... We're all encouraged by our societal values to consider the children...

If the women asked for food or anything else, that's a different topic...

The women can obviously provide for themselves...

I don't need to kiss the asses of broke, narrow minded African men to not feel left out...

What do you offer that's of any interest or importance?

You're one of the billion others in the world... worthless and irrelevant... But Nigerian men are worse..: shallow, unexposed, unnecessarily egoistic...

You always attack people, pretending to be intelligent... wow !!!

BadRadio:
You always attack people, pretending to be intelligent... wow !!!

I wasn't trying to come off as intelligent... But if that's the vibe I give off, thanks..

Figger:
It seems like you're a single mom

Ouch?

This is an insult? Boo hoo... I'm a single mom caring for the child(ren) of a deatbeat degenerate...