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Do u know what am going through in my relationship now
I love her so so much and committed to her but she treats me like a fool
She shout at me
And always rebuke in public people thought we are married
I senior her but she is taking control over me
She suddenly stop allowing me to touch her
If I touch her she gets angry
Today I went to her chat and saw a guy she save with obim
I was so heartbroken
I saw how she expressed her feelings to him
Something she never say to me

Chai

You are WEAK thats why she's doing you anyhow. Weak men Disgust females.

Eyaaaa! Hurt her back by stop caring about her, stop calling her, just move out the way you moved in into her life, allow her focus on the new guy, she is crazy.

Do u know what am going through in my relationship now

No, tell me.

I love her so so much and committed to her but she treats me like a fool

Eh hen?

She shout at me

Ok?

And always rebuke in public

In public?
Ok?

People thought we are married

Ok?

I senior her but she is taking control over me

Oh, chai.

She suddenly stop allowing me to touch her
If I touch her she gets angry

As per a wife or a girlfriend? Thought you said she is a girlfriend?

Today I went to her chat and saw a guy she save with obim

Oh chai.

I was so heartbroken
I saw how she expressed her feelings to him
Something she never say to me

Oh, so touching, nna m.

My brother,
First of all, with due respect, how old is your stupidity?
How can you still call this love? Is the handwriting not clear you are obsessed with her kayamata•lly?

The first mistake you made was copulating with her! Second, you let your manly guard down. You forgot to tell us you do the dishes, clean the house, jog to the market, shiver while she barks at you, and kiss ass just to make her happy! She panel beats you to coma too..tell us lemme just die for you. Shame leave you dey catch me.

Relationship I would have ended just by her merely thinking to control me! Happiness gbakwa oku.
You killed your esteem!
Soon, she will be bringing your deputies to the house while you make them noodles.

I don't want to call you a simp because it will lose its value and not pass the strong message as an English word. Aturu ohia sends a noble message.


All my statements above are with due respect but will you zuzu and set your boundaries with her or ichoro ka aka metugi na ahu?!

Lalasticlala

Even though i am a lady, but believe me, you're a very foolish man. You're a true definition of what Nairaland guys called "SIMP".

You love are so much and you make it so obvious that you can't stay without her hence her using you like 10 and 11 spanner.

You're the weak one and she wants you to breakup with her.
Do it fast for your sanity. She gone bro

I never knew men get hurt as well. I used to think it's females who get hurt in relationships.

I'm tired of seeing stories like this, though I know it's hard been in a narcissistic relationship but the fact that you are aware means you can fix. Let her be go, show her you really ain't a fool, you were in love that's why you are enduring all she does but it's over no matter how much you love her, you'll get over her

Then finish her off with some slim shady rhymes but slightly changed

"I'm leaving you
Go get someone else and make 'em yours
And take away there freedom like you did to me
Treat 'em like you don't need them and they ain't worthy of you, Feed 'em the same shit you made me eat
I'm moving on forget you oh,
Now I'm special? Oh, I didn't feel special when I was with you
All I ever felt was this
Helplessness
Imprisoned by a selfish b*tch
Chew me up and spit me out
I fell for this so many times
Its ridiculous
And still I stick with this
I'm sick of this but in my sickness and addiction
Your as addictive as they get
Evil as they come vindictive as they make 'em
My friends keep asking why I cant just walk away
I'm addicted
To the pain, the stress, the drama
I'm drown in so I guess I'm a mess
Cursed and blessed
But this time I'm a
Ain't changing my mind
I'm climbing out this abyss
You screaming as I walk out that I'll be missed
But when you spoke to people who meant the most to you
You left me off your list
F*ck you *insert her name*
I'm leaving you, my life sentence is served b*tch

And you think you can't leave without her

Your story is funny and disjointed and I think you have esteem issues.


Don't let any body take you for a ride or make it appear they are doing you a favor by dating you

MadamVanessa:



Even though i am a lady, but believe me, you're a very foolish man. You're a true definition of what Nairaland guys called "SIMP".

You love are so much and you make it so obvious that you can't stay without her hence her using you like 10 and 11 spanner.

Just give me that 10 and 11 spanner if you are not using it.

Fight for wat u love.

MadamVanessa:



Even though i am a lady, but believe me, you're a very foolish man. You're a true definition of what Nairaland guys called "SIMP".

You love are so much and you make it so obvious that you can't stay without her hence her using you like 10 and 11 spanner.

If the op is a lady getting treated by her boyfriend like this, I hope you'll still use all the harsh words above for her

Lol na Dem be that. They love to be in control because you allowed it. Let her go now to avoid truama bonding with her. I don't like calling people a simp but you're obviously a simp ...... She is in charge, control over you. She has dominated and has so much power over you(it's already killing your mental health)....Thats the tactics manipulative people use(narcissist). You need to learn how to stand up for yourself because you lack boundaries.

Then why can't you just end it with her.
It can't be that difficult na

Stargurl20:
I never knew men get hurt as well. I used to think it's females who get hurt in relationships.

Of course, men are not humans so they don't get hurt.

Holly Gram If I read dis ur MESSAGE finish, I feet use annoyance BLAST innocent pesin my KALA 4 here.. WAITING DE WORRY U. WTF MAN

Frank2021:
Do u know what am going through in my relationship now
I love her so so much and committed to her but she treats me like a fool
She shout at me
And always rebuke in public people thought we are married
I senior her but she is taking control over me
She suddenly stop allowing me to touch her
If I touch her she gets angry
Today I went to her chat and saw a guy she save with obim
I was so heartbroken
I saw how she expressed her feelings to him
Something she never say to me

Mumu boy

DaddyRochie1642:
You are WEAK thats why she's doing you anyhow. Weak men Disgust females.

Op this is the answer you're looking for.
To her, you're worthless. I will never ever beg a female to love me. if the love you have for me dies, go! cos if I move mountains just to make you stay with me, I'm only shooting myself in the kidney cos you go still CHEAT.

Don't be a weak idiot; look her straight in the eyes and tell her to leave.

You need to be more concerned about your income and how to augment it.
You really need to give all this attention to your career/business growth.

From this write up, you typed like someone who is scared of losing somebody that was never yours.

I tell you OP, when you begin to see this money, when you begin to get advances from random girls, you'd come back to this post and then slap yourself.

Frank2021:
Do u know what am going through in my relationship now
I love her so so much and committed to her but she treats me like a fool
She shout at me
And always rebuke in public people thought we are married
I senior her but she is taking control over me
She suddenly stop allowing me to touch her
If I touch her she gets angry
Today I went to her chat and saw a guy she save with obim
I was so heartbroken
I saw how she expressed her feelings to him
Something she never say to me

You need a redpilling slap to reset ur thinking faculty

NnamdiN:
You're the weak one and she wants you to breakup with her.
Do it fast for your sanity. She gone bro

Simps never have the courage to initiate break up...

This is something that will always await any man who thinks and takes his woman high above his sanity and peace of mind . No matter how loyal you may be to a woman,the moment she has set her to purpose of leaving you, there's nothing you can do that'll make her have a change of mind

If you think the Op is a SIMP hit like.
I think he is the most STUPID man on earth...........like.

nijaomegacode:
If you think the Op is a SIMP hit like.
I think he is the most STUPID man on earth...........like.

what are you using the like for?I'm nt going to like!

Op, you are a SIMPle man

Na only highness be love once your body don normal you go no so that thing called love na scam

Wah da fu*k am I reading

Thanks

chatinent:
No, tell me.

Eh hen?

Ok?

In public?
Ok?

Ok?

Oh, chai.

As per a wife or a girlfriend? Thought you said she is a girlfriend?

Oh chai.

Oh, so touching, nna m.

My brother,
First of all, with due respect, how old is your stupidity?
How can you still call this love? Is the handwriting not clear you are obsessed with her kayamata•lly?

The first mistake you made was copulating with her! Second, you let your manly guard down. You forgot to tell us you do the dishes, clean the house, jog to the market, shiver while she barks at you, and kiss ass just to make her happy! She panel beats you to coma too..tell us lemme just die for you. Shame leave you dey catch me.

Relationship I would have ended just by her merely thinking to control me! Happiness gbakwa oku.
You killed your esteem!
Soon, she will be bringing your deputies to the house while you make them noodles.

I don't want to call you a simp because it will lose its value and not pass the strong message as an English word. Aturu ohia sends a noble message.


All my statements above are with due respect but will you zuzuru set your boundaries with her or ichoro ka aka metugi na ahu?!

How do I remove her from my life am 30 years old

MadamVanessa:



Even though i am a lady, but believe me, you're a very foolish man. You're a true definition of what Nairaland guys called "SIMP".

You love are so much and you make it so obvious that you can't stay without her hence her using you like 10 and 11 spanner.