felixzo1:
you are very polite, I like that about you.

Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....

AutoChick4U:
Next man you meet, keep it all to yourself. Tell no one.

Candycrushy:

I'm not that type btw
I dont announce my rlship publicly
Thanks anyway

Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....

AutoChick4U:
Pray about it, yours will definitely come.

Candycrushy:

I'm no longer in the same location with him so he wouldn't have any means to hurt me
Besides I tried having my relatives , friends and my siblings call him n chat with him...he blocked everyone...to show how serious he was..i was really scared...i can't say everything here...i couldn't go anywhere because of fear...after he was sacked, I felt a little guilt tho...but it's well

artimisfowler:

Ok I am very glad that you felt some form of guilt for what you did, there’s still humanity in there.
Well, like I said he acted foolishly, I guess you did what you thought was your last resort, I can’t judge you, our morning prayers should include not to meet people that are not in God’s plan for us. Meanwhile let’s connect

Candycrushy:
You dont know me dear We dont have to appear on Forbes list to prove we are rich ok My family and me, we are rich and comfortable Thank you

Yusufisraelj:
@Candycrushy

Most times in life when a repeated cycle has been established in our dealings, it's not far fetched to say an external influence is involved which is not visible.

You can be the nicest lady in the world, it won't change jack bkos what's on you controls what's around you.

Like someone said up there, people may not regard prayer as a big deal but it changes a lot. I'll advice you have a consistent time you pray everyday for at least 15 minutes, try this in two months and thank me for life.

Secondly you have to be introspective, what type of mindset, character and relationships do you keep around you, what are the value (morals) those people or mindset subscribe to, are they long term or short term, destructive or non destructive. Your company largely influences your outcomes big time.

Lastly most decent guys may not fancy certain lifestyle like hair dying while it is not wrong most times it sends a bad vibe, I'm telling you from a guys perspective I don't and never intend to condemn. I come in peace.

Candycrushy:

I be ogbanje normally

Candycrushy:
Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....

poik:


Thing with girls most times is, they always want what they cant have.

The normal, nice, shy guy that is actually ready to move the moon for you will not catch your eye. Its female wiring and it isn't much of your fault. The men who will set your hormones racing, sleep with you before you know it, and probably toss you away after a few escapades will always be top on your list because they appear more exciting, adventurous, masculine, and daring.
You may need to re-evaluate your priorities. Answer those DMs. Nobody is saying like what you like, but be sure of what is moving you to like someone.

Cut down on sex. It is a woman's place to determine the timetable of sex in a relationship. that way it will be easy to weed out the haves from the have nots.

Candycrushy:

Yeah...amen to that prayer
Thank you

Kimjongun:
You are evil, you will destroy any good soul that comes your way, that is why you have been meeting your kind. Imagine being proud of making someone lose their job.

Chai and some guys are still trying to date you here?

Justkatty:
When it comes to human as a whole, we tend to have both the good and bad not just in relationship......Back to your question.
1. How and where do you get to meet such guys? though some persons would say, even though you meet a guy in the church, he may turn out to be bad at the end but sincerely this is not just about the church but the individual.
2. How do you carry yourself or present yourself when you are together? You see guys, they can go any extent to prove that you're the chosen one, but any little crack, my dear dey go japa, even though not all.
3. Stop proving unnecessary point to show that you can't be wrong, someone like me I detest it
Calm down,erase your mistakes and take correction.
4. Talking about meeting the wrong guys, are you sure you're doing the right thing (things)? I think this question should be given to your heart and conscience to be answered.
Do your best in making your relationship work
Spice it up
Water it
Manure it
Do all these, if he doesn't appreciate your effort, don't worry you'll get to meet someone who does.
Obrigado
Forget my errors I never attain better qualification yet.

Babara1994:

Someone lost his job because of you and you're not sober. You're really selfish.

Skullano:


I'm 31 years old and a male.

You?.

Endeared:

I’m a bit above that age

Skullano:


Age is actually a number if you really understand life..

If you are in Anambra State precisely Onitsha then let's link up and be happy as humans.

YOLO.

Endeared:

I am in Awka

Skullano:


Awka is 30mins drive to and from Onitsha so it's no problem at all..

I won't mind getting your contact.

Candycrushy:

Oh.....
Thank youu