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ubunja:
Okay, what I'm going to say will have many variables and question marks and holes,, but I'm just putting it out there to give a general idea of things. It must not be taken as a complete, ironclad theory or set of principles.

Bro you're on point on this.

Never invest in a woman because you're just improving her SMV (sexual market value). Which will activate her hypergamy. Keep her where you found her and use your money in such a way that if she disconnects from you and goes, she'll find herself where you found her.

There's a huge difference between marrying a beautiful woman whose hair, nails and makeup are top notch AND marrying a plain woman then making her beautiful with good hair, nails and makeup. The first is you getting what you deserve or can afford. While the second is you INVESTING in a woman - Which is what men must avoid. You can use your money to maintain a slay queen. But if you find an average girl and turn her into a slay queen then you're investing in her. Which will backfire spectacularly, Because after you're done with her, her SMV will be higher than when she started, which means she's now considering you BELOW HER - nevermind you yourself improved her said SMV.

Investing in a woman includes things improving a woman's education, helping her start her own business (which will inevitably lead to her independence from you) etc. You must keep her dependent. Supply her needs and wants without putting her in a position where she can replace you. She must not own anything but be happy. (Hard but not impossible) . You must be her provider, not investor. You can very well give a woman a good life, a nice home, fun trips and good experiences without investing in her. But just showing her how much you love her.

Pïmps mastered this game ages ago. They keep all the money but make sure their women get the best of anything - the best accommodation, the best food and the best outfits. The women get everything they ask for - except for cold hard cash. That's always a no. These pïmps even do the shopping on behalf of their women to stay ahead of the game. Cause give a woman cash, no matter how little - she'll find a way to grow it. It's their gift. Pïmps prevent this and keep cash away from women.

This may seem unfair, cruel or extreme in this day and age; but women do play the same game with men as regards to sex. A Woman always keeps a man dependent and relying on her and her alone for sex. A man is not allowed to even masturbate. If a married man services himself you'll hear all the wailings from women shaming him and demanding to know if his wife is not enough for him!! He'll be Condemned for destroying his wife's self-esteem and confidence. He must always get his sex from the wife. If she's not in the mood, he must wait for her. Not go elsewhere. Not even to a prostitute.

Now, because women are masters of the game, they monopolized the sex and also monopolized men's money:
Did not our elders, fathers and uncles hand over their own hard-earned money to their women, the WOMEN who would then give the men money bit by bit on a daily basis as the needs arise, eg every morning he's given transport money and every weekend he's given beer money. This was the norm a few generations ago in many places. This is how cunning women have been. Pïmps merely give women a taste of their own medicine - with brilliant results. It needs be that men start looking closely at how those flesh peddlers mastered women.

But many men are intent on achieving women's growth. They'll take a woman from the bottom and keep pouring money into her growth until she outgrows him. Then she leaves. Men are out here educating their wives, getting their women plastic surgery, buying investments and the like. Which is foolish.
All that money and effort and even plastic surgery must have been for themselves. For the men. To keep their own SMV ever so high. And yes I said it, men must not shy away from plastic surgery. If you've something about your face that you don't like, save money and go get it fixed. Leave the scratches and scars, they add to your masculine beauty. But that nose, that eye, those ears - get them fixed if you ain't happy. Same goes for teeth: if yours are discolored, go whiten them. If they're crooked, consider investing in braces to straighten them. If a front tooth is missing, move heaven and earth to replace it. All this may sound all too shallow and even feminine... But it will pay dividends. Cause combine this with the body game (gym) and you're an Adonis. women will come. And you won't be invested in any of them because you invested, instead, in yourself.

Ovo200:
This guy is just a simp
He has been brainwashed by feminism.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 323, REDPILL 2021

1. Men, please date your work! I repeat, date your work! Date it, fvck it and improve it!

2. Because your work and its fruits is the only thing that will be there when she says "I can no longer do!"

It is this same mangina and his likes that will still scream "relationship/marriage is not by force, when your partner is tired and no longer interested, they have a choice of their own and can make decisions as matured adults".

3. Abandon your work and chase women; women will abandon you and chase men that have works.

4. There's no comparison between your work and her, it is your purpose and ambition first and foremost. You don't share time equally for her and your work. If she's not comfortable, let her go. That same woman you want to abandon your work for and schedule dates, trips, trysts, vacation for is that same woman that will tell you "can't you see your mate?" when you no longer have work to eat good fruits from.

5. You come first, then your work and purpose. She comes last! If she refuses her last position that's her own cup of tea. You can't be running helter skelter for a woman who don't even understand female anatomy not to talk of understanding how a relationship works.

6. What they want is fun and fvck. After work, during relaxation, you blast them the lamba! Then after, fall back to work!

Authority: focus on your work!

Junnior:
Please, which pdf reader is this?
I love the colour coding

CaveAdullam:
DAY 323, REDPILL 2021

1. Men, please date your work! I repeat, date your work! Date it, fvck it and improve it!

Authority: focus on your work!

CaveAdullam:
DAY 323, REDPILL 2021

1. Men, please date your work! I repeat, date your work! Date it, fvck it and improve it!

2. Because your work and its fruits is the only thing that will be there when she says "I can no longer do!"

It is this same mangina and his likes that will still scream "relationship/marriage is not by force, when your partner is tired and no longer interested, they have a choice of their own and can make decisions as matured adults".

3. Abandon your work and chase women; women will abandon you and chase men that have works.

4. There's no comparison between your work and her, it is your purpose and ambition first and foremost. You don't share time equally for her and your work. If she's not comfortable, let her go. That same woman you want to abandon your work for and schedule dates, trips, trysts, vacation for is that same woman that will tell you "can't you see your mate?" when you no longer have work to eat good fruits from.

5. You come first, then your work and purpose. She comes last! If she refuses her last position that's her own cup of tea. You can't be running helter skelter for a woman who don't even understand female anatomy not to talk of understanding how a relationship works.

6. What they want is fun and fvck. After work, during relaxation, you blast them the lamba! Then after, fall back to work!

Authority: focus on your work!

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6857077/advice-needed-wife-driving-me#107755650

richkal:
After reading this post, I give thanks to God for discovering THE RED PILL.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6857077/advice-needed-wife-driving-me#107755650

MJBOLT:

Fatality

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...



I was a youth relationship program in a church a while back...


The topic was how to deal with rejection from the opposite sex...


Alot of women were coming up saying they have been rejected and all that...


So the anchor asked the best way to deal with rejection..


Alot of guys were saying keeping trying till she gives it up or finally acknowledges your efforts...



I took the floor and squared them about how a person show always move on and stop knocking on a door that's closed already...



One lady stood up and said her boyfriend is a pastor but goes to church too much and has no time for her...


That she wants the guy to give more time to her...


I just fvcking lost it...


I literally screamed to get the Mike this time...


I told them that a man's purpose and work is what makes him a man...



And that a man should never leave his purpose for a woman..



If she can't take it, she can leave...


Girl was shocked...


Anchor went off his script....


And asked me for more details on time allocation to personal goals and women..


Pastor quickly send am note...


Say make we die the matter and make Dem no give me mike again...


As I took my seat...


One coded nigga like that dey give me thumbs up..


As for the girl that asked the question...



She started drawing closer to me dropping compliments here and there saying I look like I spend money everyday....



Las las.... She ask me to borrow her 5k...



I told her I don't borrow women money...


She still kept in touch...


Until we got to the sex part she wanted to play smart...


That was the end of the entire Convo...

adambeatz:
Ibeg to differ, this can only happen if after giving you kids, you've made her believe what you did that kept her on the edge has been neutralized.

Here's an experience of mine, i had a girl i dated sometime back, i gave her rules and regulations like madt and made sure even in my sleep i dare not bend or break them for anything. We dated a year plus and i always her know not to try and shit test me, the moment she decides to do that she should make sure her IQ is higher than mine and i never find out. One day after i hanged out with my younger bro to some bottle of drinks i came back home to meet her, it was that day the daughter of jezebel decided to have a heart to heart talk with me. I told her she would not like my response due to my mood but she carried on regardless. Among some questions she asked me was my view on divorce, i told her i don't feel ashamed about divorce and feel its perfectly normal to me,
should i decide to marry and my wife bleeps up in anyway to warrant my madness then I'd divorce on the spot and collect my kids no time wasted, as i also don't subscribe to court marriage but prefer making a will incase of any drama. She also asked who is the one person i can't do without and my reply was "myself" as there is no one living or dead that i can't do without.

Longstory cut short she relocated and the moment she started giving excuses in terms of communication, my brother i moved like mtn no time to waste.

I believe it is human nature to want to see finish and it cant be avoided so if you equip your mindset to always keep your spouse on her edge for the rest of her life the tendency to misbehave can be drastically reduced. Besides we men know all women love drama and its our duty as men to give them drama (keep her on edge) all the days of their life.

Isn't that what marriage is about?

Lightway:
All women are hoes. Nobody included your mother, so why are you angry?

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...



I was a youth relationship program in a church a while back...


The topic was how to deal with rejection from the opposite sex...


Alot of women were coming up saying they have been rejected and all that...


So the anchor asked the best way to deal with rejection..


Alot of guys were saying keeping trying till she gives it up or finally acknowledges your efforts...



I took the floor and squared them about how a person show always move on and stop knocking on a door that's closed already...



One lady stood up and said her boyfriend is a pastor but goes to church too much and has no time for her...


That she wants the guy to give more time to her...


I just fvcking lost it...


I literally screamed to get the Mike this time...


I told them that a man's purpose and work is what makes him a man...



And that a man should never leave his purpose for a woman..



If she can't take it, she can leave...


Girl was shocked...


Anchor went off his script....


And asked me for more details on time allocation to personal goals and women..


Pastor quickly send am note...


Say make we die the matter and make Dem no give me mike again...


As I took my seat...


One coded nigga like that dey give me thumbs up..


As for the girl that asked the question...



She started drawing closer to me dropping compliments here and there saying I look like I spend money everyday....



Las las.... She ask me to borrow her 5k...



I told her I don't borrow women money...


She still kept in touch...


Until we got to the sex part she wanted to play smart...


That was the end of the entire Convo...

SOZINN:
Why would you want your fellow man to get married in the first place? More than half of the men who support marriage in this thread and out there can't seem to give plausible reasons for men to get married. So what if a man advised you not to get married.

Why are you guys acting like that is a dreadful thing to say. Wetin dey for the marriage self?
Mtcheeeeew.

Iyaebe:
Anderson drop everything about redpill and I'll gift you two million naira and I can also help you with some connections which will help and take you to greater heights.I'm very serious and you know what to do if you wish to comply.You have now till Sunday to think over it.

PUSSYHOE:
He will prefer your pussy and fuck_ you like a LovePeddler!!!

Witlee1:

Tell that f**l up there to gift her dad that took care of her till date he needs it more

Iyaebe:
I'm not one and will never be.He knows what to do if hes inteterested you can speak sense into him,life isn't always bitter as he has chosen to believe.

PUSSYHOE:
Wait o you are not one? Do you fuck_ for free?

Dannnn:
To the redpill pretenders...,continue..
I trust women to deal decisively with you when the need arises.

richkal:
My babe decided to turn her attention to something else and I don't give a hoot.