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Figger:
this your input no sharp at all, that girl is already collecting d1ck, best thing is for the guy to free her and focus more on alleviating his present financial predicament. Money is the only language ladies understands, so telling the guy to bring her out when he's not capable would only make his condition worst.

Oga,
All collected Dick. Eni dis Virgin, ko lose Wedding.

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

Try and find out a prove if they are already dating before you lose her

It might not be the way people are talking here the story lies...Please do yourself a favour by doing a sensible findings about it before concluding guy...

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

My brother this is woman and money issue they're like 5 and 6
My advice is jxt dey love with eyes try dey comot mind small small to avoid breakfast only bit of dem are loyal wen it's money issue

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

And again,some people are judging base on one or two experienced they have seen or heard about girls of today..
My guy,don't follow majority of what they are saying now,try to see what is really going on there...
Girls like that face many challenges about life especially when there is nobody to assist them financially,materially and others...
If you leave her because of what people here are saying guy,you may be the reason for her to engage in an illegal acts and can also affect your own future..Try to stay by her if truly you love her and let her see you as the only companion she has...T

If she doesn't love him, then she will no longer be in contact with him because he has nothing to offer her. Let's be considerate, this lady does not have any means of livelihood, she might just be staying with that family in order to survive. I can assure you that if she is a decent lady she will not do anything indecent even though she is poor. If he truly loves her he should go and make money and come back for her. If he is not able to work hard and become independent then he should allow her look for a better guy. I pray God bless him and provide for him so that he can be capable of marrying his gf.

Belafonte:
She's playing the emotional card on you because she's keeping you on ice as mumu husband that she can tell anything and he will believe, also she will manipulate the hell out of you because she knows you love her.

Like others have said, broom her fast. I can't imagine that she will find it easier than the guy's mum to convince him to part with cash. Na Yankee she go learn her own persuasion skills? Oga, no go jonze, you cannot lay claim to community goat without becoming embarrassed in the end

A free man is a man who has no commitment with any woman all in the name of serious relationship.

Y'all niggas will keep crying on nairaland's front page since una no want get brain.

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

HER MOTHER USED TO TEASE HER THAT SHE KNEW HOW TO COLLECT MONEY FROM HER SON.

The above statement in logical sense of it indicates something is going on between your girl and the said guy. The only girl that know how to collect money from a man is the one warming his bed.

AutoChick4U:
Wicked soul. A time when she needs a friend and shoulders to Lean on, you advising him to move?

And you are the devil himself.

D already fvckin

Please have money before you go into a relationship

Muzikluva:
You can imagine the guy oh! Coming to seek advise from those who barely know him or the girl sef. She stayed with him all through yet he wants to throw it all away. Instead of him looking at ways to take her out of there, he is seeking validation to dump her and shouting “thank you” all over the thread like a robot!

Na your type Dey carry woman matters for head like say na your destiny.
So you didn’t see the part he said he is not financially capable of taking care of her? So instead of focusing on how to help himself, na to carry her matters add abi?. Bro the earlier you realize that life is about making meaningful relationships, the better for you

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cutecommend:
May God provide money for you to marry her quickly, because eeeeeeeeeeh!!!

Her Toto go suffer

No be say the boy dey trouble her ooo, him to want taste the veejay, not more not less

Malory:
They have been doing it already. Forget long story

Honestly, that’s the sad truth.
I really will not blame the girl sha, financial incapacitation makes women vulnerable. The girl needs to date someone who can be there financially and also provide shelter so it’s inevitable the family friend son will sleep with her and she will leave the bf eventually

Malory:
Can you imagine. If she truly loves you more than the guy nothing will make her remove your photos from the background. As for you saying you don't want to look like a heartbreaker, Don't let her blackmail you emotionally. Women are good at manipulating men. They will be the cause of a problem but will turn around and start crying and playing the victim. Toughen up

That one pain you, women will even be cheating and be accussing their bf or husband of cheating because they weren’t caught lolss

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

Three questions for you before I proceed.

1. Do you stay with ur parents ?
3. Does your hustle generate monthly income?

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

Three questions for you before I proceed.

1. Do you stay with ur parents ?
2. Does your hustle generate monthly income?
3. When last did u see her and where?

needsansa:
I'll cut the long story short.

I met this girl sometimes in 2018. She was living with her aunt who was not being nice, and early 2020 she returned to her mom. Im fact it was so terrible that and she survived several abuses from her aunt's husband, which she told me. I was actually the main force behind her eventual liberation and relocation to her mom. We've been together all through.

Then, mid this year, things went rough with her mom, and the poor woman returned to the village. Then she landed with this family friend of theirs(not related, but their mothers are old friends). This family lives a stone throw to her mom's place.

She's told me before she joined this family how their last son was troubling her for a date, but she has been refusing. Then mid this year she moves in with same family. It is a family of 3 boys. She would always be the one cooking for the family. Sometimes, she would have to cook and wash for the same boy and take food it to his house (which is a short distance from d family house). It did not stop there, anytime they are broke, the mother would send her to go and beg the same guy for money (teasing her that she has a way of collecting money from her son).

If I had d means I'd have also gotten an apartment so we could have more time together, but things neva set..I dey hustle nor be say I lazy, but soon sha God go perfect am.

I know what and what could have happened in all this drama but I want to gear from my agbas in the building - how should I go about this matter. Thank u.

Don't worry u can yab me

First of all, how old are you and the girl also.

DropsMic:
You na guy man.. No girl fit scam you

Na street level bro

instinct57vm:
Honestly, that’s the sad truth.
I really will not blame the girl sha, financial incapacitation makes women vulnerable. The girl needs to date someone who can be there financially and also provide shelter so it’s inevitable the family friend son will sleep with her and she will leave the bf eventually

You are right

Valuc:
u re not nice at all

For being real abi

Valuc:
walai the op no get sense... People who doesn't understand their struggle just said dump her and weyre is saying he has moved on.. that means himself don tell himself sey this two people dey run shits .. so why come here to ask for advice

Exactly! You get it.

Goodghoxt:
Na your type Dey carry woman matters for head like say na your destiny.
So you didn’t see the part he said he is not financially capable of taking care of her? So instead of focusing on how to help himself, na to carry her matters add abi?. Bro the earlier you realize that life is about making meaningful relationships, the better for you

Slowly and intentionally read what I wrote then read what you wrote over and over again.

Nairalanders are funny sha.

The OP is clearly a witch in this girl’s life. She has been squatting from place to place, including in circumstances that have led to her abuse. The OP is clearly poor as a church rat and is unable to accommodate his babe.

And you people are urging him to dump the girl so that it will pepper her. Someone that is clearly being held back by the OP.


Abeg leave her so she can be with someone who can support her better.

Goodghoxt:
Na your type Dey carry woman matters for head like say na your destiny.
So you didn’t see the part he said he is not financially capable of taking care of her? So instead of focusing on how to help himself, na to carry her matters add abi?. Bro the earlier you realize that life is about making meaningful relationships, the better for you

His girlfriend has been semi homeless since 2018. Three years ago. If In 3 years he hasn’t been able to hustle enough to get a small place of his own, then why is he bothering to be in a relationship?
His babe has been living with a family and cooking, cleaning and doing laundry for them. Basically working as a maid. And he’s here on Nairaland forming guy man.


Let him leave her and stop being a millstone around her neck

Go and fight

texazzpete:
Nairalanders are funny sha.

The OP is clearly a witch in this girl’s life. She has been squatting from place to place, including in circumstances that have led to her abuse. The OP is clearly poor as a church rat and is unable to accommodate his babe.

And you people are urging him to dump the girl so that it will pepper her. Someone that is clearly being held back by the OP.


Abeg leave her so she can be with someone who can support her better.



His girlfriend has been semi homeless since 2018. Three years ago. If In 3 years he hasn’t been able to hustle enough to get a small place of his own, then why is he bothering to be in a relationship?
His babe has been living with a family and cooking, cleaning and doing laundry for them. Basically working as a maid. And he’s here on Nairaland forming guy man.


Let him leave her and stop being a millstone around her neck

Someday, very soon, you will become a millstone on the neck of the people in your life! All that led to this saga will replicate in your life and you will be left to prove to the world that you can hustle .

Your girl don dey collect big rod already

Marry her and established her

needsansa:
Someday, very soon, you will become a millstone on the neck of the people in your life! All that led to this saga will replicate in your life and you will be left to prove to the world that you can hustle .

I’m sorry, my boy, but your e-curses are useless against me.
All that led to your saga can never replicate in my life because I’ve long passed that age and status.

But you…there will be no escaping the sheer, crushing poverty of both mind and spirit that made you create a new profile for this brainless topic.

Hope this helps.

Guy you have trust issues and how can you be taking advice from strangers online? Just say you don't love her anymore, simple!

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