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Hello Nairalanders,

Is it ideal for a lady not to wash his Fiance or husband cloth? There by leaving the man to do the washing of his cloths himself .

Need Swift and mature response to this pls.

Thanks

You cant please vagina.

Bros, in today's society very few women will do that thing, especially the feminist among them who claim to be "career-oriented movers ". So as a man, you are to provide your own services , but do so with wisdom if not, you only destroy your home

It's not compulsory for her to do that but there's nothing wrong in helping a busy husband do his laundry.

Is not her job or responsibility.
If she does it, thank her. If she doesn't, do it yourself

Hashabiah:
Bros, in today's society very few women will do that thing, especially the feminist among them who claim to be "career-oriented movers ". So as a man, you are to provide your own services , but do so with wisdom if not, you only destroy your home

Hmmm...

Thanks for your opinion

Iyaebe:
It's not compulsory for her to do that but there's nothing wrong in helping a busy husband do his laundry.

But don't you think when a Man starts doing this or certain task . The lady or woman starts seeing it as the Man's duty there by abusing the privilege.

Iyaebe:
It's not compulsory for her to do that but there's nothing wrong in helping a busy husband do his laundry.

But don't you think when a Man starts doing this or certain task . The lady or woman starts seeing it as the Man's duty there by abusing the priviledge.

Oga go and buy washing machine biko. I know when vagina people are at fault and you see in this one, your entitlement mentality is horrible. How many times did your sisters wash you clothes that you want to turn someone's daughter to John Cena full of muscles all because she is washing your stained boxers.

slimjohn2k5:
Is not her job or responsibility.
If she does it, thank her. If she doesn't, do it yourself

Hmmm...

The way you place this, is wrong pls.

yungchap:
But don't you think when a Man starts doing this or certain task . The lady or woman starts seeing it as the Man's duty there by abusing the priviledge.

Change your mindset about marriage, no task at all is bound to a particular gender in marriage, if your partner is busy or incapacitated to do any task then you should be of help without been told hence the reason you are called helpmates.Love should superceed every other thing in marriage.

Nonexisting:
Oga go and buy washing machine biko. I know when vagina people are at fault and you see in this one, your entitlement mentality is horrible. How many times did your sisters wash you clothes that you want to turn someone's daughter to John Cena full of muscles all because she is washing your stained boxers.

Learn to read THOROUGHLY and know how to reply people comments . As it's not mandatory to reply.

I won't go beyond this .

Thank you

yungchap:
Hello Nairalanders,

Is it ideal for a lady not to wash his Fiance or husband cloth? There by leaving the man to do the washing of his cloths himself .

Need Swift and mature response to this pls.

Thanks

Well let me quickly say this, everything is all about choice and mindset. This two play a very important role in anything that happens In a relationship.

I have met decent homely ladies who took it upon themselves as a choice to wash cloths for me. I have also wash for a lady, my choice by the way.

But never make it a right, that's where you will get it wrong. Married couples today don't wash for each other, and a two days relationship will decide they want to wash for one another or even the lady doing the washing for the man..

When you understand the concept of choice and mindset, it will save you alot of disappointment and unnecessary anger.

yungchap:
Hello Nairalanders,

Is it ideal for a lady not to wash his Fiance or husband cloth? There by leaving the man to do the washing of his cloths himself .

Need Swift and mature response to this pls.

Thanks

What is the context? Is she a working woman? Do you live together? Do you fund the home?

Iyaebe:
Change your mindset about marriage, no task at all is bound to a particular gender in marriage, if your partner is busy or incapacitated to do any task then you should be of help without been told hence the reason you are called helpmates.Love should superceed every other thing in marriage.

Thanks for your Contribution

Mrsoft3:
Well let me quickly say this, everything is all about choice and mindset. This two play a very important role in anything that happens In a relationship.

I have met decent homely ladies who took it upon themselves as a choice to wash cloths for me. I have also wash for a lady, my choice by the way.

But never make it a right, that's where you will get it wrong. Married couples today don't wash for each other, and a two days relationship will decide they want to wash for one another or even the lady doing the washing for the man..

When you understand the concept of choice and mindset, it will save you alot of disappointment and unnecessary anger.

Thanks alot for your view

yungchap:
Hello Nairalanders,

Is it ideal for a lady not to wash his Fiance or husband cloth? There by leaving the man to do the washing of his cloths himself .

Need Swift and mature response to this pls.

Thanks

it is not a by force thing! If iwant to iwil and when am nat in the mood iwont even look at your face!

take your wears to the drycleaner

Double0h7:
What is the context? Is she a working woman? Do you live together? Do you fund the home?

She's working..

The union is presently at Relationship level .

Hence the man asked this question from the lady which conceived this topic

yungchap:
But don't you think when a Man starts doing this or certain task . The lady or woman starts seeing it as the Man's duty there by abusing the privilege.

Privilege to wash your own clothes? Sorry, but are you MAD? The work and money she's making alongside you, is it HER duty?? What is a man's duty? Abusing which privilege? The woman that is working to bring in money, too, is she supposed to be doing that? Abi you, you won't abuse that privilege and become a lazy man that doesn't provide??

You fit help am wash her own clothes abi you dey wash her clothes for her? If that's is not manly to do, is it womanly for her too to be working?

This post is just annoying. And na one unassuming girl go marry this one oh. I am really pitying her. Spits.