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Iyaebe:
I'll choose an unfaithful monogamist, I know how I'll handle him.

Kill him after 6 months right?

Hayee:
I will choose an unfaithful monogamist
But he should not expect me to be faithful Sha, I might be and I might not be
Instead of praying for you to change I will be praying for you to be blinded by your sidechicks so that I can have at least three side cocks no stress abeg
Women also want to relas and be taken kiaruf

Onishina.

Shina dey your body.

Toks2008:
Onishina.

Shina dey your body.

Na your body?

What do you mean by a faithful polygamist,? Are you guys thinking at all? Where is the faithfulness in polygamy..abi u think it's just to get second wife....stupid write up

Kinterez:
What do you mean by a faithful polygamist,? Are you guys thinking at all? Where is the faithfulness in polygamy..abi u think it's just to get second wife....stupid write up

Olodo.

Try to comprehend first before making comments.

It is a rhetorical thread.

Lalasticlala, with this i am so done on this matter.

A word they say is enough for the discerning mind.

Toks2008:
Olodo.

Try to comprehend first before making comments.

It is a rhetorical thread.

Mugu what's rhetorical about a faithful polygamist..wait till when u guys get to 50 wives then u check whats faithful there..ewu..u think like a cow

I don't know what this Toks2008 guy is always feeling like A relationship counselor or what exactly?

Tbh, anybody relying on the gibberish you write here in making relationship decisions will only end up getting burnt severely!

What an excuse for a relationship counselor!!

Kinterez:
Mugu what's rhetorical about a faithful polygamist..wait till when u guys get to 50 wives then u check whats faithful there..ewu..u think like a cow

I know sey English hard for many people.

Go and look up the meaning of rethorics so you can understand my point.

You are not only thinking like a cow.

YOU ARE INDEED A COW.

Jman06:
I don't know what this Toks2008 guy is always feeling like A relationship counselor or what exactly?

Tbh, anybody relying on the gibberish you write here in making relationship decisions will only end up getting burnt severely!

What an excuse for a relationship counselor!!

Another olodo making a mockery of himself.

If what I wrote does not make sense to you then it is obvious that your IQ is unapologetically low.

The problem with many of you is that you always rush to comment without Comprehending perhaps you guys just lack the ability to comprehend.

Many people will just want to counter a thread and end up paraphrasing the same write up.

Calm your brain down. Stop making comments based on titles but always try to read the contents before making disgraceful comments that portrays you as dumb.

Righteousness2:
There is nothing like a faithful polygamy.
What you call Polygamy is Adultery. It is a named coined to modify Adultery.
Adultery is an act of Cheating. It is against GOD'S Marriage Plan for humanity.

If you Value your soul in Eternity, do not allow anyone Deceive you with grammars.

If you are a man that has more than one wife. If you value your soul in Eternity, you need to settle the other women , send them to their father's house and stick to your 1st wife. Only Death Permits one to get another wife. Same goes for the women.

It is Better to obey GOD and HIS Word than follow the rudiments of men .

But if you don't value your soul in Eternity, feel free to do whatever u wanna do.

I respect your opinion but I disagree.


And very much so. Should I create a thread on religion section so we could debate the righteousness of polygamy based on biblical principles in a civil way? Should I? Me and you only in a civil manner.

Iyaebe:
I'll choose an unfaithful monogamist, I know how I'll handle him.

How do you handle an unfaithful monogamist? Please share. I'll show my uncle's wife your post because she's tired sef. Her horseband is too randy.

Toks2008:
Olodo.

Try to comprehend first before making comments.

It is a rhetorical thread.

There's absolutely nothing rhetorical about this. There can be a faithful polygamist, or don't you think so?

Toks2008:
This rhetorical and satirical thread was created to pass a vivid message to some ladies who just love to live in delusion and wishful imagination of being in a monogamous marriage because in reality, 8 out of every 10 men belong to one of the two. The only difference is that one is sincere and the other prefers to pretend which is exactly what most ladies want.. .PRETENSE AND LIES

I have observed how quickly some Ladies condemn the idea of polygamy forgetting the fact that in most cases, a man wey no marry more than one wife go still get side chic which is another wife in disguise and even more wifely than the one at home who thinks she is the only wife So abeg what is the point in condemning polygamy when you are not even sure you are the main woman in the life of your ''monogamous'' husband?

What is the pioint?

Ladies should please stop stereotyping polygamy or look down on any lady who chooses to marry a polygamist because in my opinion, whether you marry a non hypocritical and open polygamist or you marry a Monogamous man on paper, laslas the same fate awaits you and it will even be worse in the case of the pretentious monogamist cos it will come as a big shock

My candid advice for any lady reading this is to stop dealing with fantasies, what they watch on Tv, to stop dwelling in their imagination of how they want it to be but to wake up to the reality of how things are...You don't have to like it and you can continue to be a watch dog of your husband but you will never ever be able to wish away the reality and when it hits you, there will be two options to deal with. LEAVE THE MARRIAGE FOR THE OTHER WOMAN TO TAKE OVER OR REMAIN IN THE MARRIAGE AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE AND THAT OF THE KIDS.

I will off my mic at this point.

Nice satire i must say.

But bro please understand that ladies love lies, they dream, eat, sleep and build their world on lies.

You see that unfaithful monogamist will be the choice of most women because they just want to believe they are the only wife and that thought alone is ok by them when we all know that there are many monogamous men that are far worse than polygamists.

how many stories have we read of ladies finding out after the death of their husband that they are not the only wife?

Toks2008:
Another olodo making a mockery of himself.

If what I wrote does not make sense to you then it is obvious that your IQ is unapologetically low.

The problem with many of you is that you always rush to comment without Comprehending perhaps you guys just lack the ability to comprehend.

Many people will just want to counter a thread and end up paraphrasing the same write up.

Calm your brain down. Stop making comments based on titles but always try to read the contents before making disgraceful comments that portrays you as dumb.

My friend go and sit your smelly asz down somewhere! We didn't start reading your gibberish today!

Better go and look for another vocation because you're pathetically poor at relationship counseling.

Iyaebe:
I'll choose an unfaithful monogamist, I know how I'll handle him.

This is another lie many ladies tell themselves. How do you handle an unfaithful monogamist? Kill him, make him impotent.

The only way to handle an unfaithful polygamist is to ignore or leave the marriage if you cant but is that a guarantee that you will see a faithful man? As the OP wrote, men are either open polygamist or coded polygamist so whichever one a lady chooses does not really matter.

otherway:
This is another lie many ladies tell themselves. How do you handle an unfaithful monogamist? Kill him, make him impotent.

The only way to handle an unfaithful polygamist is to ignore or leave the marriage if you cant but is that a guarantee that you will see a faithful man? As the OP wrote, men are either open polygamist or coded polygamist so whichever one a lady chooses does not really matter.

Speak for yourself or you think say some women that ties their wrapper to the right instead of the normal left no know what they are doing.abegii

Jman06:
My friend go and sit your smelly asz down somewhere! We didn't start reading your gibberish today!

Better go and for another vocation because you're pathetically poor at relationship counseling.

See bro.. As a rule I usually ignore trolls like you. I don't stain my intellect rambling.

Can you see the recent comments? Those are the type of people I give attention to.

It is not about disagreeing with the thread but the manner and emptiness of your post is so appalling.

Let me ignore you and focus on people with standard IQ.

otherway:
Nice satire i must say.

But bro please understand that ladies love lies, they dream, eat, sleep and build their world on lies.

You see that unfaithful monogamist will be the choice of most women because they just want to believe they are the only wife and that thought alone is ok by them when we all know that there are many monogamous men that are far worse than polygamists.

how many stories have we read of ladies finding out after the death of their husband that they are not the only wife?

My mum told me exactly the same that ladies love lies and I just wonder.

My biggest issue with ladies is that I always tell them the truth but at the end they get so angry so I begin to wonder.

Iyaebe:
Speak for yourself or you think say some women that ties their wrapper to the right instead of the normal left no know what they are doing.abegii

Aunty calm down we no dey fight. I will like to really learn from you. Please how do you handle an unfaithful monogamist? you know we all learn everyday.

Toks2008:
See bro.. As a rule I usually ignore trolls like you. I don't stain my intellect rambling.

Can you see the recent comments? Those are the type of people I give attention to.

It is not about disagreeing with the thread but the manner and emptiness of your post is so appalling.

Let me ignore you and focus on people with standard IQ.

Like I said before, I didn't start reading your gibberish today and you've never made sense when it comes to relationship advice. You always let your d1ckk come in between whatever point you think you wanna make. Any discerning mind reading your trashy posts will readily pick up the fact that you're thinking and typing with your d1ckk whenever you write those so called "advice" to ladies! And your "advice" is always to the ladies! One wonders if you're that sex starved!

Every m0ron always think they have high IQ.

Toks2008:
This boy again.

Are you this petty or shallow minded equating polygamy with adultery.

I hope you have no plans of becoming a pastor

Na a whole Righteousness2 you dey call "boy"?

Toks2008:
This rhetorical and satirical thread was created to pass a vivid message to some ladies who just love to live in delusion and wishful imagination of being in a monogamous marriage because in reality, 8 out of every 10 men belong to one of the two. The only difference is that one is sincere and the other prefers to pretend which is exactly what most ladies want.. .PRETENSE AND LIES

I have observed how quickly some Ladies condemn the idea of polygamy forgetting the fact that in most cases, a man wey no marry more than one wife go still get side chic which is another wife in disguise and even more wifely than the one at home who thinks she is the only wife So abeg what is the point in condemning polygamy when you are not even sure you are the main woman in the life of your ''monogamous'' husband?

What is the pioint?

Ladies should please stop stereotyping polygamy or look down on any lady who chooses to marry a polygamist because in my opinion, whether you marry a non hypocritical and open polygamist or you marry a Monogamous man on paper, laslas the same fate awaits you and it will even be worse in the case of the pretentious monogamist cos it will come as a big shock

My candid advice for any lady reading this is to stop dealing with fantasies, what they watch on Tv, to stop dwelling in their imagination of how they want it to be but to wake up to the reality of how things are...You don't have to like it and you can continue to be a watch dog of your husband but you will never ever be able to wish away the reality and when it hits you, there will be two options to deal with. LEAVE THE MARRIAGE FOR THE OTHER WOMAN TO TAKE OVER OR REMAIN IN THE MARRIAGE AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE AND THAT OF THE KIDS.

I will off my mic at this point.

Am not judging, neither am I excusing your excuse...
It natural for human beings to indulge in selfish pleasure and find excuse to justify it.
But I blame the partners that are not okay with it and stay in a relationship why suffering and living a hellish life on earth.
If you as a man/woman is polygamist by nature (as a matter of fact now, "woke" women believe they can be poly too by nature), all I can ask or advice is to be honest with your partner(s). If you as an individual discover your partner is not an honest man/woman either poly or mono, either hypocrite or not.... Dumb his/her azz and move on, life is short, once and doesn't give a f**K or take pity on you. Life/nature gat no empathy, so put your fate/faith in your hands

Op short sightedness is that you are only viewing this as a man, woman are equal being with man, with equal rights. If a man can be allow to marry more than one wife, so can a woman too.

Righteousness2:
How would you know the word of GOD when you don't know HIM?
You are of your Father, the devil and that is what you can be an Expert in.

When you Decide to know JESUS Christ, HE will Purge , repair and refine you, and then you will know and Understand His Word.

Really??
Rather than hide behind the scriptures to be rude to people, why not simply ignore ...
Honestly bro...
This should be beneath you ...

Righteousness2:
This Man! Continue to Deceive yourself with Grammar! Very Soon, you will know what you have done to yourself. And the Blood of all those you have Deceived with be on your Head.

This buffoon

Hayee:
I will choose an unfaithful monogamist
But he should not expect me to be faithful Sha, I might be and I might not be
Instead of praying for you to change I will be praying for you to be blinded by your sidechicks so that I can have at least three side cocks no stress abeg
Women also want to relas and be taken kiaruf

The only reasonable comment I've seen so far...
I just wish everyone will just share their thoughts on a post and japa, rather than get so emotional that they start throwing tantrums ...

As for me o...
I better stay unmarried o ...
Cause if I choose one, somebody's will enter pot o

Favfables1:

The only reasonable comment I've seen so far...
I just wish everyone will just share their thoughts on a post and japa, rather than get so emotional that they start throwing tantrums ...

As for me o...
I better stay unmarried o ...
Cause if I choose one, somebody's will enter pot o

Adegbem01:
Am not judging, neither am I excusing your excuse...
It natural for human beings to indulge in selfish pleasure and find excuse to justify it.
But I blame the partners that are not okay with it and stay in a relationship why suffering and living a hellish life on earth.
If you as a man/woman is polygamist by nature (as a matter of fact now, "woke" women believe they can be poly too by nature), all I can ask or advice is to be honest with your partner(s). If you as an individual discover your partner is not an honest man/woman either poly or mono, either hypocrite or not.... Dumb his/her azz and move on, life is short, once and doesn't give a f**K or take pity on you. Life/nature gat no empathy, so put your fate/faith in your hands

Well this thread is not to advise but to point out to ladies to stop stereotyping or looking down on polygamy as a way of life, polygamist as a person and ladies who choose polygamy cos whether they are married to a man who claims to be monogamous but has at least one extra wife in the name of side chic or they are married to a polygamist it is the same.

Shey you get?

Favfables1:

The only reasonable comment I've seen so far...
I just wish everyone will just share their thoughts on a post and japa, rather than get so emotional that they start throwing tantrums ...

As for me o...
I better stay unmarried o ...
Cause if I choose one, somebody's will enter pot o

My sister Infact the thing dey weak me and it is a reflection of the persona of the people as well as their level of IQ.

You see a post, rather than focus on the subject, give your points and jappa as you put it, they will rather start mastrbating on the matter, throwing tantrums, attacking the writer and using vulgar words.

Sometimes I just ignore and sometimes I'm compelled to let them know they need help cos it is a clear sign that their mental health is in serious danger.

Adegbem01:
Op short sightedness is that you are only viewing this as a man, woman are equal being with man, with equal rights. If a man can be allow to marry more than one wife, so can a woman too.

Bro you need to get this straight... Nobody says a woman can not marry 1000husbands if she wants to...

There are countries practising polyandry and it is legal...

there are tribes in Nigeria that also allows polyandry. ... The Irigwe people of Nigeria practiced a woman having co-husbands until their council voted to outlaw it in 1968.

As long as it is legal in the family law of a country then it is allowed.

The Bible is silent about it in terms of it being a sin or not but we saw many cases of polygamy in the bible but that does not make polyandry a sin.

The clause is that it must be legal the country or under the authority you are else it remains forbidden.

Polygamy is legal in Nigeria under every other marriage law except court marriages so if you are a man who wedded under court marriage then you must obey the rules but then we all know how the cookie crumbles... Men still go the polygamous way regardless of the type of wedding they had.

Toks2008:
Well this thread is not to advise but to point out to ladies to stop stereotyping or looking down on polygamy as a way of life, polygamist as a person and ladies who choose polygamy cos whether they are married to a man who claims to be monogamous but has at least one extra wife in the name of side chic or they are married to a polygamist it is the same.

Shey you get?

I get you and I get the legal part you explained earlier, but all the same, it an equal right and honest is the key in all this sh*t

I still stand on my advice, cos your question is flawed