Hey People, Its me Spade

I just want to ask this question
If you had a relationship with a guy you love so much only to find out he was an armed robber, what would you do??

Dump him or expose him even though he is dear to your heart

imma tell him to stop itif he really wants to be with me but if he don't then imma run away so he ain''t gon kill me for dumpin him

telling him to stop! ok

but if he refuses you are in danger oh

icee: Here we go again with worse case scenarios

I agree. What if your boy/girlfriend had done something you don't aprove of? Since we already are on the topic of illegal activities, what about trying to use a credit card that wasn't his/her own? Or stealing from a shop? Or film piracy (oh, I forgot that this is not considered illegal in Nigeria!  )? Or --- ? What if s/he said it was just a one time mistake and that s/he would never do it again? Would you trust his/her words?

If my guy was a cold-blooded and armed robber --- I would run! I don't want any people with arms, especially cold-blooded people, near me! Hey, and it doesn't need to be a robber. I also find Nigerian police/army people, casually holding their rifle as if it was the most natural thing in the world to possess one, scary!    ---  "Oya, why don't YOU talk to these men? Your pretty face probably will make 'em let you guys pass quick, quick!" - "No, Sa, I'd prefere to stay inside the car!" (I did not vocalize this, however, as the guy making the suggestion was also carrying a weapon!) And inside the car I remained silently until big brother had finished talking to those armed men in uniform whose job it seemed to be to stop vehicles in the middle of nowhere (somewhere on an express between Lagos and Benin). 

@ somegirl

That's some shit alright

@somegirl: who told music/film piracy is legalise in naija? Back 2 the topic; I will kip on advising her till she listens cos if i dumped her or( she dumbed him) he/she's lyf is in danger,and after a long tym advise and no changes,pls report him/her to the necesary authorities (NOT NECESARY THE LAW) then reduce your regular visit or care towards him/her. Hope your boy/grlfrnd is not a coldblooded criminal? If he is,i sugest you make use of my million dollar advise or else you re done for! NECO.

Report him to the police and dump him - Chikena,

@segun111, she/he just signed a death warrant! "report to the police" he/she wil hunt him/her down,too bad! NECO

If i get to know my guy is an armed robber i will simply call him and we talk it over @ least i will make sure i do dat twice,then if after all dis he doesnt change,Am calling it quits with him,cos i cant cope with a COLD-BLOODED ARMED ROBBER.HELL NOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

why would someone abhor and condole such? they guy gotta be exposed. more reasons why gurls need to know wat kinda bizness their men were into.

and then run as far as ma legs can take me.

finally, move on!

Necorius wrote : @segun111, she/he just signed a death warrant! "report to the police" he/she wil hunt him/her down,too bad! NECO

My reply is based on my location because in the States you have the rights and protection of the police and the FBI. As for naija I will dump him and move to a state that he won't find me period. Oh by the way, lately I will seek protection from the EFCC because they probably like to get glory from prosecution.

dont even think about talkin 2 him about it he might kill u dats so much of a big serect just go 2 da police tell him u did it coz u love him he shouldnt go around hurtin otha ppl

kike001:

don't even think about talkin 2 him about it he might kill u that is so much of a big serect just go 2 da police tell him u did it because u love him he shouldnt go around hurtin otha people 

tell him u did it for love--------------------cold blooded guy-------------man it is not that easy----he will kill u----personally i don't know i will leave him

@segun 111

actually man, the EFCC only deals with matters related to 419, money laundering, etc.
that's why its called EFCC(economic and financial crimes comission) in my opinion, I think one should report him to the police but the problem is, most of the Nigerian cops are corrupt and will probably let him go if he flashes some greens(money) on their faces. you should rather report him in a market square where they'll initiate their jungle justice and burn him to pieces.

hmm

advice would work if there is true love

iice:

Here we go again with worse case scenarios

But don't armed robbers have girlfriends, wives and family??

go shopping.

You are dating an accomplice of murderers.
Many widows have been created and many children have become orphans by the works of his hand and his partners.
Grievous cries have been made to Heaven in accusation of this man you are with.
Know that if you remain with him, all the curses he has accrued in his life of depraved evil will catch up with you too and you will [b]both [/b]suffer for it.

Posterity no dey look face. . .

Hopefully he doesn't know that u know. Covertly tip off the police. I also suggest you do so anonymously, as you can't really trust the police to not be with them.
Nothing is too strange in that jungle called naija.

We would be modern-day Bonnie and Clyde.

I would dump him and flee for my life. I can't date/marry a ritualist, armed robber, cocaine dealer & occultic man.

If it was when I was still in school and I found out he was a yahoo boy then I could take it as an experience and fun cos that time yahoo boys had not started using jazz it was just scam, hammer and trip your babe and you(paint the town red).

But now everything involves fetish things. I am too much of a scary cat to deal with all that spiritual drama.

Mrs, Chima:

We would be modern-day Bonnie and Clyde.

hahahaha

@Topic, run for my life offcourse. Never being blind in love, never will.

^^i would run too. . .after i go shopping. 

if im gonna run, i'd better at least cop some hot pairs of Nike Air Maxs