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No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by WackyJ1(m): 12:26pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Any guy in that age group has nothing to gain from the relationship. Apart from sex. There is nothing else the guy gains. No one can drop any good reason why a guy in that age bracket should be in a relationship. There is nothing the girl does for you that you cannot do for yourself. There is no companionship the girl gives you that you cannot gain from female friends or FWBs without the stress. Instead, when you're in a relationship, you're her comforter. You're the one she brings her drama too. The relationship costs you money and there is the risk of her cheating on you. Open Challenge - who can say one tangible thing that a man gains from being in a relationship with a Nigerian babe. Note: "You will need someone to marry" is not a good reason. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Lee99: 12:28pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Dated a UK based naija girl when I was 22, best relationship I ever had, so OP not everyone must agree with your opinion that's why its called an OPINION 6 Likes |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by johnnypumpum(m): 12:36pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
my guy up had aid it all... |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by johnnypumpum(m): 12:37pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
my guy up had said it all... 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by KingEverest: 12:46pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
thats not true,there are lots of good tins one can gain apart from sex,you just need to find the right person. i think companionship is one of those good tins 2 Likes |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Great2021(m): 12:47pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:that's right |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by temitope27(m): 12:55pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:so what do you gain? That's the question 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Lee99: 1:01pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
temitope27:A lot. Exposure I became open minded Financially bouyant too She brought out a side of me I didn't know I had She was everything and more Too bad we couldn't make it to marriage cos I was too young at the time.... BTW she was older with 6 years so do the math. 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Truvelisback(m): 1:04pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:U just said a U.K based Naija girl. Op, is talking abt typical Naija girls. |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by temitope27(m): 1:05pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:I think you gain because she's mature, cos she's already 28 when u started dating |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Lee99: 1:09pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Truvelisback:I believe the thread says guys between 20-28 gain nothing from being in relationships, it doesn't specify if it's nigerian based or diaspora 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by WackyJ1(m): 9:45am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Lee99:You're one guy with one story. Plus your babe was UK based & 6 years older. You case is an outlier. 2 Likes |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by fourboys: 9:49am On Nov 27, 2021 |
This op was typing this with inspiration of Holy Spirit..... Generally men don't gain anything from dating |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by AutoChick4U(f): 10:27am On Nov 27, 2021 |
fourboys:So why bother if there's no gain? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by davealvaro: 12:35pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
OP you have said it all i swear if nor be konji i for nor da talk to any girl self na dis my relationship make me open eye say guys are suffering in silence in relationship,to end am now na wahala...we gain nothing... my boss once told me, if not for child he wouldn't have married. 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by WackyJ1(m): 1:14pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Because they do it for sex. Some do it for companionship. Some do it because they want to be ready to get married in the future. But none of those reasons are tangible things they gain from a relationship. |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by WackyJ1(m): 1:17pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
davealvaro: My guys are suffering in relationships because they no get self-respect. They don internalise the idea say to tolerate rubbish from woman na sign say dem dey mature. Your boss know wetin im dey talk about, the things wey e don see for marriage combined with the fine girls wey dey throw themselves on am outside, dey make am reason somethings. 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Lilsameey: 2:30pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Make I learn, am still young.
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Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by AutoChick4U(f): 2:59pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
WackyJ1:Its everything. Na ojukokoro thats making everyone money conscious 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by saintvc(m): 3:11pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Date a lady older than you. You will mature faster |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Lee99: You Sha didn't answer his question ... And I think OP was referring to a typical based Niaja babe... |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Toochildish666: 4:31pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Guys do gain alat in a relationship d puzzle dey bleeped an sucked every day wat wil u call dat? Is dat not gain? Huh some prefer fucking dan having money |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Obineri55(m): 4:38pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
I know a 28 years old guy that's legally married with two kids,own his own business and doing VERY WELL. PS. He has his own building on the island. 1 Like |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by InfinityFabric: 5:36pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Lee99:You're talking in past tense. OP: 1 |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
InfinityFabric:Must he have a sad story to tell? Those commenting... typical misery loves company crew... |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by BegAt40: 6:10pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Boogyman557:You this kid! Try to cool down and learn how sensible people speak on public forums and stop disgracing your family members. The lowlife you're trying to imitate is currently in EFCC custody. And if you're not careful, you may be in similar situation very soon for unlawful possession of firearms. |
Re: No Guy Aged 20 -28 Gains Anything From Being In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
When their mates are hustling to buy Fendi, they'll be battling with STD, which brings frustration into the situation and worsen the condition of his emotion leaving him no option that to face depression. Rhymes kill me here |
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