Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? - Romance (4)

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Lordedifice1: 10:57pm On Nov 28, 2021

Sex is just an inner deep expression between two loved ones that's where we say what we want. Sex is not meant to be sleeping around with hoes up an dan. Now back to the topic as for me i know take sex hold my partner come on she's a human being not a sex machine,we discuss,we play,we advice each other,we plan.
We no dy bill each other.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by RPG2020(m): 10:59pm On Nov 28, 2021

Let her know she is on the list of baby mama's grin

After sex

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by calcal: 11:02pm On Nov 28, 2021

NL is a good place to pass away time.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by FaithBrain1994(m): 11:03pm On Nov 28, 2021

Where una dey see this relationship abeg undecided

Let me Sha learn the thread from my elders dem

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Michcole: 11:03pm On Nov 28, 2021

Lukepeter:
She cooks, do my laundry, clean my house and bring groceries at times, and I return the favour by giving her some hours in my time to blab about all her dreams and whatnot.

Wayo Guy �
The blab got me laffin

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Teleprompter(f): 11:09pm On Nov 28, 2021

Why don't i see anyone mentioning gossiping?

Back in the day, the gossip that we can't share with others, we share with each other. We play games, gist and go out a lot. We cooked and cleaned together as well and studied and travelled.

That was all back in the day though...

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by vickydevoka(m): 11:10pm On Nov 28, 2021

Datboredberry:
Everyone hears the word relationship and immediately thinking of sex... especially Nigerians

What else do you do with your partner?

Sex and money taxing

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by InoGetJoy: 11:13pm On Nov 28, 2021

Lukepeter:
She cooks, do my laundry, clean my house and bring groceries at times, and I return the favour by giving her some hours in my time to blab about all her dreams and whatnot.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....guy you no get joy

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by KLand(m): 11:13pm On Nov 28, 2021

If only unmarried ladies would know that giving sex to men who are not married to them is a sellout!

Only sex in marriage is safe!

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by gentlesmithugo(m): 11:13pm On Nov 28, 2021

Teleprompter:
Why don't i see anyone mentioning gossiping?

Back in the day, the gossip that we can't share with others, we share with each other. We play games, gist and go out a lot. We cooked and cleaned together as well and studied and travelled.

That was all back in the day though...

wetin come happen now

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by gentlesmithugo(m): 11:14pm On Nov 28, 2021

Amanda4life:
WE ARE NOT BEST FRIENDS IS EITHER WE ARE HAVING SEX OR WE ARE HAVING QUARRELS

why you come marry him na.this una marriage go dey very very boring.

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Caboceer: 11:16pm On Nov 28, 2021

Beebah2000:
More sex

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Double0h7(f): 11:16pm On Nov 28, 2021

Doubleoh7:
So we not only have the same moniker, we also live the same live?

I was so confused reading this mention! I thought I quoted myself grin

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Aditkd(f): 11:20pm On Nov 28, 2021

I and my partner. �. We talk a lot about esoteric books we have read and the ones we haven't we exchange books and also go out for more books to study.
We do have a healthy appetite for fine whisky's, red wine, tequila's and ports.
So some evening's we just drink and talk about books we have read, how the week went at our various works of life.
We give each other advice concerning investments, we gossip ehh chai, we are more like best pals than people in a relationship o jare. To me he is my BEST FRIEND and LOVER combined.
Our relationship is not solely built on sex, though we have a healthy sex life but it's more of intellectual. Thank you.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by razzydoo(m): 11:22pm On Nov 28, 2021

My baby, my valentine embarassed

. My medulla cheesy

. Words mean nada...

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by davidque: 11:22pm On Nov 28, 2021

Lukepeter:
She cooks, do my laundry, clean my house and bring groceries at times, and I return the favour by giving her some hours in my time to blab about all her dreams and whatnot.

What an unfortunate woman

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by zed7: 11:24pm On Nov 28, 2021*

Swinger60:
Alot.

I can spend all day with my hubby without getting bored, even when we were dating it was still same.

we tease each other. We have pillow fights. we play indoor games like ludo and even play cards betting with money. (when I see he is winning me, I start cheating) .

we also go out too. (I'm married to an oringo/flexing guy).

Ehen, there are some times we have fun on low key too without breaking bank. all we do is take an evening stroll, buy corn, stroll to his snooker place, I sit and munch my corn while watching him play snooker with his friends and listen and laugh to their jokes and jabs at each other.

see ehen.., in choosing a partner, choose a friend who you can be silly, unserious, shameless, witty, crazy and in their presence, e get Maka why..!!

Quite romantic, I guess this is a new couple. Wait till you are married for many years and. have kids Most married people do pass you before.

It eventually gets boring, not that one has fallen out of love but real life sets in. Putting food on the table and raising decent kids becomes number 1. Fun and games take the back seat. It's unfortunate but that's real life.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Nov 28, 2021

Ogbotobo77:
Men get into relationships for sexual access..if women didn't have Vjays men wouldn't deal with women....women control access to sex...so men in turn give commitment to gain access to sexual exclusivity...cos women don't treat sex as an equal value exchange... they've always leveraged sex since time immemorial for compliance, resources,commitment,attention etc

Not all men are in it just for sex. Some men value other things like companionship

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Ayula911: 11:36pm On Nov 28, 2021

Lukepeter:
She cooks, do my laundry, clean my house and bring groceries at times, and I return the favour by giving her some hours in my time to blab about all her dreams and whatnot.

Comic

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Adekunlebright(m): 11:36pm On Nov 28, 2021

[quote author=Datboredberry post=108031741]Everyone hears the word relationship and immediately thinking of sex... especially Nigerians undecided

We knack, over and over.
Then we chop nd knock again.
See en, if u no knack 9ja girls well, them no go take u serious.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Sniper101(m): 11:42pm On Nov 28, 2021

We just cuddle up in bed, sometimes, to watch some funny Vskit & TikTok videos together

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by bongo4real(m): 11:49pm On Nov 28, 2021

ReneeNuttall:
I wish for that too.Here in Benin,fun spots are very few and always crowded especially on weekends.

There are plenty fun places in Benin, depend on your area.

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by 360command: 11:50pm On Nov 28, 2021

Datboredberry:
Because they can't... Same applies to our men...

What do Nigerian men do or offer to the society?

Don't mention any achievement by the West... I'm talking about the Nigerian youths...

Most men are into rituals, fraud, getting married to old white women for green cards, kidnappers, traffickers, cocaine pushers...etc...

Most Nigerian women aren't doing anything? Sure...

But they are still a million times better than the men who invest their time and whatever intelligence they have to hurting others...and being nuisances...

Don't compare the output of those from a third world country to that from developed countries...

I could create a thread comparing European men and their contributions to the WORLD to African men... But I won't...

I am still trying to understand your post even though I still get what you mean. I do not know whom you hang out with but there is no way you can compare a man with a woman in terms of his hustle. Even the women in the Nigerian society might see a man not doing well and she will say "are you not a man" . This alone tells you a man in it natural form is a hustler compared to a woman..

Just stop bringing those ritualist, fraud etc like women don't indulge in crimes..

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by ayandee: 11:56pm On Nov 28, 2021

We take long walks, long drives, netflixing when kids are in bed or funny facebook/Instagram videos. We see movies at the cinéma once in a while.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by 360command: 12:01am On Nov 29, 2021

Datboredberry:
It takes two to tango... Be honest, Nigerian men and women have nothing to offer the other except for sex... Most of those mentioning it are men...

I agree! I created this thread as a test.... So many topics on this section bashing Nigerian women, I wanted to know if men had more to contribute too...

This generation is sex crazed! It's weird, sad and a bit pathetic...

The funny thing, you can ask this question without the relationship part... 'what do you have to offer to the society'...

I doubt if many would be proud to comment...

Nigeria is messed up... The system, the youths... everything...

Hmmm. Where are you? There is no country of the world don't talk about sex and how they want to sex a girl. Nigeria to me, hides sex .

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Rick9(m): 12:01am On Nov 29, 2021

I want to marry her
I want her to be my wife
I want her to be the mother of my children.
I want everything about her.

Sex is too small of a motivation for me.

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by Lucas4903: 12:05am On Nov 29, 2021

emmykk:
Singles will mention sex because that is where their focus is and because they felt once their partner leave sex will nolonger be available they will mention sex more.

But married couple will not just say sex .
Yes sex,chat,how to get more money, children well fair

Not all singles. More like the small boys on Nairaland and the men that still think like them. �

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Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by RexTramadol1: 12:19am On Nov 29, 2021

Walahi na so so fight

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by MightyHand(m): 12:30am On Nov 29, 2021

I'm praying to Almighty to give me my second half and a good friend as soon as possible...

Ready but haven't find my half, God of every day hear my plead

Re: Apart From Sex What Else Do You Do With Your Partner? by BigBashiru: 12:51am On Nov 29, 2021

Tapout:
Play video games. We don't fornicate btw

There's nothing like "fornication" we are human beings

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