raumdeuter:


Beauty of the polling booth

In an election You can vote anyone and it doesn't have to make sense

There was a year people were doing best poster on Nairaland and someone mentioned musiwa aka becomerich (if you know him) it was funny and you know Musiwa ended up winning.

Musiwa Musiwa!
Damn! ����

Havertz10:
Lol how old are you? Look at the kind of nonsense that you are thinking like an insecure person that prefers to pivot responsibilities instead of owning his mistakes

No wahala, since you want to dive into this topic , lets dissect it


Cheating particularly in relationship isn’t an unexplainable phenomenon, its actually very simple to understand and predict, people refuse to accept this because they don’t want to believe that they aren’t enough for someone, show me a picture of any couple with small context and i will point openings for any interested man, we men are messing up big time, if we dont wake up quick to our emotional lackings in particularly , women will take most of us for a ride, some women have perfected cheating that you wouldn't ever find out

No matter how perfect a guy assumes that he is, there is a possibility that he isnt enough for someone, we men like to claim that there is always a man tired of a fine girl, its swings both ways brother


In the past our forefathers used traditional threats to scare women into being faithful, instead of them to wonder why does a woman cheat and find ways to mitigate it, they simply assumed that its inherent in them like men but that is far from the truth, men cheat because its a socially accepted habit and because there is no stigma attached to it, women on the other hand have to face such stigmas and social rejection, plus the added claims of spiritual implications and that kept most grounded

Fast forward to today and its a different story, women are cheating rampantly and its not a case of the woman being a bad person, its a case of the man simply not being good enough, similar to how a woman isnt enough for us men but unlike men that do it for social bragging, women do it because they seek happiness

Social dynamics is the main issue, men like girls that are above their class or share similar class with them, If you have ever dated a girl that felt like she was fortunate to have you, you will understand what I mean, if you show her small love, she will threat you like a god and worship, you are more than enough for her but try that with a girl that is of the same social class as you and her demands and expectation are higher and requires more effort, if you don’t meet up with her demands she will have openings for another man to fill, most men assume that all women want is money and when you give them money they will be fine but its only a woman that hasnt seen money before that can be controlled like that, try that with a woman that grew up with money and she will quickly find someone to fill the gaps that you have left ajar in her life, even the one that didnt grow up with financial security when that is attained, their demands shift, thats what nfl players and rich men dont see, for women its more than sex and money, Love is a baby, it needs constant attention and care to grow, its shameful that women understand love more than us men

you have be an active participant in her life particularly if you are of similar social footing, you have to constantly adjust to keep each other happy and intuned, most women have what they want in a man but age, conditions and timing can force them to manage whatever they get and if that man also married her for the aesthetics not love, he will not participate in that marriage, leaving an opening for another man that is attentive to her real needs to fill


its not a matter of net worth, sex or looks, if the social dynamics in your relationship aren't optimized, she will cheat on you and you will never know, if she doesn't, she hasn't met anyone worth the act yet or she is still under the control of traditional social structures in nigeria but with the rise of educated women in nigeria, men will go from predators to prey in a few generations

no matter how much a woman loves you, she can have crush on other men, its how valuable she finds you that limits her, dont blame women, we men need to do more to be social gods that our ego demands

Your comment is a web of contradictions.

You opined even the most perfect guy can be cheated on and then goes on to say men are messing up cos they are slumbering when it comes to emotional lacking.

There’s nothing anyone can do about infidelity. Even the best relationship coaches have been in 5-6 different marriages and majority of them is because of infidelity.

Human beings are way too complex to be put in a box that what you do is somehow the reason for your marital dysfunction. There are many useless irresponsible men with the most loyal partners and there are also tonnes of perfect husbands with whorës as wives.

There’s no one size fits all and psychologists have done a terrible job for centuries looking for easy answers. I call it the streetlight effect. An alcoholic searches for his missing keys not where he dropped them but where the light is. Human beings have a tendency to look for the truth in the places where it is easiest to search rather than the places where it’s likely to be.

And this is why when a woman cheats, the first thing everyone says is - the husband must have denied her some attention, some sęx or he doesn’t take care of her whereas this woman is just risk averse and her infidelity has nothing to do with the way she’s treated, she just wants to eat her cake and have it.

Oasis007:
New Era

This man's job is harder than it seems...
I have first experience of trying to steer a change in mentality of a group already used to mediocrity

SHIT'S HARD!!

maik99:


This man's job is harder than it seems...
I have first experience of trying to steer a change in mentality of a group already used to mediocrity

SHIT'S HARD!!

You are capping nonsense. You are already making flimsy excuses.

Mourinho alert

Herrera and Lukaku alert has dried up for a long time now

Trevor012:
Mourinho alert

Make e just retire or go coach country his time has passed.

If only it was possible to dig out all the foolish and nonsense post from United fans here towards Sir ole when Lukaku was banging in goals early in the season. One fool even said he will score 25league goals . End of season you will hear from us

kokanepyramid:

Make e just retire or go coach country his time has passed.

He can replace Arteta

Lana1:
He can replace Arteta

Izz like You want thunder to strike the fingers that typed this post

Illimitable:
Rangnick has to buy Haaland.

He discovered him, he should have some clout or influence over Haaland’s next club.

Mino Riaola is Haaland agent......

kokanepyramid:

Make e just retire or go coach country his time has passed.

Cameroon national team fits him

Chelsea 2-3 Westham
Barcelona 0-1 Real Betis


Una no dey see God?

Illimitable has been so wrong on Mourinho.

Oboi.... dem need to drag these Lens players to lab go test them for drugs oh

Iz like these PSG boys no like Poch

Poch should watch Messi's clips at Barca

He loves receiving the ball in the hole with his back to goal.

He stood there and waited many times but dem no give am ball.

They don't understand his movements yet hence the many misplaced passes.

I'm settling down to watch PSG's game for the first time for 90 mins


What I learnt:

Ligue 1 is quite physical with energetic blacks

PSG players want Poch gone

LostMyZeal:
Oboi.... dem need to drag these Lens players to lab go test them for drugs oh

Iz like these PSG boys no like Poch

Poch should watch Messi's clips at Barca

He loves receiving the ball in the hole with his back to goal.

He stood there and waited many times but dem no give am ball.

They don't understand his movements yet hence the many misplaced passes.

I'm settling down to watch PSG's game for the first time for 90 mins


What I learnt:

Ligue 1 is quite physical with energetic blacks

PSG players want Poch gone

Did you check the League Table before littering here with fresh dogshit?

PSG is leading second place Club on the Log by fuckin 13pts. They want Poch gone, yet leading with that kinda margin?

They'll wrap up the league by mid-Feb. Poch is Argetine, same as Messi and Di Maria. Neymar and Messi are close friends. Mbappe is definitely leaving at end of season, and he doesn't wanna leave empty handed.

Once Mbappe is gone, Messi gonna be playing false 9, flanks by Neymar on the left and Di Maria on the right. Poch ain't leaving anytime soon, neither is he gonna be sacked.

Ralf thought na only Wheel Ole damage. Baba Eyes don clear after he try to start the Bus..... e be like O boy! The Engine sef don pack off. Tyres don flat, Rims don bend. Absorbers don leak, Engine Sits and so on don kalas.

Baba begin dey sing Dorime...... LMFAO!

Even without hard training na only Fernandez no dey get injury.

Squad rotation is key to prevent accumulation of injuries.

Players like VDB, Telles, Dalot, Lingard, Bailly, Greenwood, Amad, Elanga, Mejbri, Martial will have to get significant minutes to reduce to load on the starting 11.

The trick is to rotate intelligently and not weaken the team in too many places at the same time.

afrodoc2:
Squad rotation is key to prevent accumulation of injuries.

Players like VDB, Telles, Dalot, Lingard, Bailly, Greenwood, Amad, Elanga, Mejbri, Martial will have to get significant minutes to reduce to load on the starting 11.

The trick is to rotate intelligently and not weaken the team in too many places at the same time.

Doc, there are enough players for rotation in the attacking department. But few players for midfield and defense. How e go be?

Searchingvictor:



Doc, there are enough players for rotation in the attacking department. But few players for midfield and defense. How e go be?

RB: AWB, Dalot. If that is not enough we can recall Laird in Jan
LB: Shaw, Telles. If push comes to shove Alvaro Fernandes can get a few minutes as well

CB: Maguire, Varane, Lindelof, Bailly. Dr Jones is back as well. We can recall Tuanzebe or give Mengi a few minutes.

9-12 defenders should be enough.


1) Fred
McTominay
Bruno

2) VDB
Matic
Pogba

3)
Mejbri
Lingard

We need a CDM but then again that is not news.

Oasis007:
Rangnick: "I am more than optimistic, but I also have to be realistic. Five weeks ago, our team lost 5-0 against Liverpool — and it could have been a lot more if we are honest.

"Against City it was 2-0 — but it could also have been more. It was important to win the point at Chelsea but the performance? I don't know. They had 24 shots on goal and we had three."

Ole Gollum in the mud as usual..

Oasis007:
Rangnick: "I have to take them [Manchester United players] and accept where they currently are. They are experienced and smart enough to know that. I cannot turn the players we have into the pressing monsters I want them to be within two, three or four weeks.

"The same happened to Jürgen [Klopp] when he came in the middle of the season and they finished eighth or ninth. Liverpool had a lot of injuries in that time - muscle injuries - because they were not used to that kind of training."

Baba is now clearly seeing how much Ole Gollum destroyed the team. Chaii

afrodoc2:
Squad rotation is key to prevent accumulation of injuries.

Players like VDB, Telles, Dalot, Lingard, Bailly, Greenwood, Amad, Elanga, Mejbri, Martial will have to get significant minutes to reduce to load on the starting 11.

The trick is to rotate intelligently and not weaken the team in too many places at the same time.

In a high press system, it takes a lot of time for bodies to acclimatize...Klopp was having injury issues his 3rd year with Liverpool because of training knocks...The injuries will come so thick and fast if Ragnick wants to play the way he did at Leipzig...Boys Wei no d tire...
In a way, it has it's advantages, Salah had enough energy to do a lung bursting run in the 94th minute which resulted in our goal despite running and Pressing throughout including a derby a few days earlier...

Something tells me most of these players won't be with Man United 3 years from now if Ragnick gets confirmed for more than 6 months...