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mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Lol.. mosdii never disappoints ..

Ebubechuwku:
The fact that someone is bad, doesn't mean we don't have good ones.. first try to heal from that heart break first and during that process don't date anybody cos at any slightest provocation u will be hurting the new girl... so work on yourself first and love .

You will still meet better girls..

Noted
Thank you

Magnoliaa:
But how people get mind dey do this kain thing sef?? Nawa ooooo. Both man and woman.

You go dey date person, next thing, dem don serve you invitation card to your boo's or bae's wedding.

The hustle for marriage sha.

I tire ooo
They don't have conscience, selfish and desperate set of people

Irijosa777:
She earned more than me I agreed but don't forget I also gave her money for take care of herself, don't forget I also borrow her money to support her business.
Is not about the money guy, she is finally independent same goes with me. I can bet you that the person that she is currently engaged to doesn't earn more than me.

Okay, maybe the guy the nack am and he don give am belle. Just suck it up and move on.

Irijosa777:
Greetings to everyone of you.
I started dating this girl around August this year, she was the first person I dated. We have know ourselves for long before we started the relationship. Few weeks into the relationship I started talking about the future including marriage, she is financially okay and she earned more than me but that doesn't stop me from giving her money to take care of herself.
Because I wanted us to be balance in all areas, I persuaded her to open her own business, she was not willing at first but I keep on persuading her before she accepted, less then one month into the relationship she opened her own business. She was very happy, in fact she almost worship me, I even borrowed her money to support her business. On my part I started expending my agriculture business and she also help me to buy a residential land here in Benin City. All I wanted was a great future for both of us so therefore I wanted us to used this/next year to plan very well at most.
I was very sincere with her, sincere to the core. I never cheated on her even when I have all the opportunity, I gave her all the attention she wanted. Go to her house to spend the weekend with her on her request almost every week.
When I brought up the issue of marriage, she said next year (2022), but I'm not ready for next year so I told her 2023 (after the election preciously) and I promise to do her formal introduction as tradition demand anytime she want but she said 2023 is too far, she is 28 I'm 32. Then I tried so as both of us can reason with each other...
Prior to the day of my conversation, I told her I'm expecting my family, that I would have loved to introduce her to them as my girlfriend but since she said she can't wait till 2023, there would be no need for me to introduce her to my family and friends as my girlfriend/future wife, she said "no oo"! that I should introduce her to them as my girlfriend/future wife.
On the day of my convocation, when she came, again I told her if I should proceed with the introduction, she said I should go ahead. For the first time I introduced a lady to my family and friends as my girlfriend/future wife and my family were happy to meet her include my Mom.
Because of the nuture of her work she beg to take her leave which I granted. When my boss came, she was amazed when they told her that my girlfriend came because I have never told her anything about girlfriend before she then said she is going to host her for a outing the following Sunday, my girlfriend was very happy about it when I told her and she accepted my boss request.
But to my greatest surprised, my girlfriend got engaged on that same day by her colleague at work. I saw it in her WhatsApp status.
I find it difficult to believe it, I thought it was a joke so I texted her in WhatsApp she didn't respond, I called and called and called she didn't pick my call... Even till now she has not returned my calls/text
I couldn't believe my eyes. I don't deserve this kind of treatment I said to myself.
I have a friend working in her office, she called me and asked me what is going on because she saw the engagement stuff in their WhatsApp group, then she told me that my girlfriend is being desperate and wicked, she told me how the same boy asked her out promising get that he is going to marry her but she turned it down then he moved to my girlfriend and she accepted.
This thing happened about two weeks ago but I'm yet to recovered from the shock.
Gosh!

Na script!

Me don CHOP my own BREAKFAST @ 20 , anything wey Dem serve me now na LUNCH....
KOKAN AYE....
BREAKFAST go reach EVERYBODY, d PRAYER be say make d BREAKFAST NO CHOKE

ABANGWABOI:

Dude you are a SIMPle guy.. Pls continue begging her.. put your life on hold till she agrees.. You know women are angels.. So keep chasing the angel..
If she didn't bulge then try selling your land and other valuable properties and give her the proceeds..
Have you built a house for her parents yet ?? You should try doing that.. it would help you win her love..
Continue fighting for her love, remember she is the air that you breathe.. if you give up on her na you Bleep up oo..

Cheers SIMPle boy..

OP please take this advice.

Datboredberry:
It's gonna be okay...

You didn't do anything wrong... I don't believe in karma but if she has a conscience, she would feel guilty...

Just delete every contact of hers... Block her social media accounts... Cut her off completely... She ain't worth it...

Good food... Music... And even a few tears... You would heal.

Betrayal is the worse thing... Especially when you've built a world in your heart for you and the other person...

She wants to get married? Let her go... She lost you... She's the loser in the game...

Just focus on getting back on your feet...

And don't let this woman ruin your perception of orhers... ❤

PS... If you need some company... Get someone to chat and hangout with... Nothing sexual... Just some decent friends...

Thanks a lot for this advise
I'm very grateful
God bless you.

Ebubechuwku:
The fact that someone is bad, doesn't mean we don't have good ones.. first try to heal from that heart break first and during that process don't date anybody cos at any slightest provocation u will be hurting the new girl... so work on yourself first and love .

You will still meet better girls..

Lol, let him keep acting like a simp. Girls will keep using him, he may finally settle down with an over used hoe.

gift0123:
���This heartbreak go reach everybody last last..

That lady is not a good person at all, she is greedy, evil and wicked, mehn if you ever marry that lady she will turn out to be a torn to your fleshoo, so kuku dust yourself, get up and resume your normal life, then thank God for chasing such woman away from your life.

God really loves you my dear. Just know that you will meet another woman who will love you truly and you will look back and thank God for bringing you out of the hands of that woman.

Thanks a lot
I'm grateful

Datboredberry:
Americans and Europeans have the highest divorce rates... you aren't aware of the millions there who've committed suicide over a heartbreak?

Nothing about the Op's post indicates the the woman was poor...neither was she hungry... She even earns more than the Op... The reason she betrayed him is because of her desperation to get married... She did a shallow thing but this isn't a 'chop and run' case...

Yeah, give your 100% to a white woman who would put a bullet in your skull for cheating on her or so she can be free to run off with her lover... Genius...
Trash... Black men and white women have the most unstable relationships... 40 times likely to end in a divorce...

Unlike Black women and white men... The least likely to split up.

The reason whites are a bit better is their honestly... When they wanna let go, they tell you upfront.

As for commitment... They are the worse... Black women even try to keep their relationships/marriages afloat... White women would ditch you for any little reason...

Have you ever met a white person?

saw the energy you put in trying to catch some point i have dated Black, and White and i can tell you the difference in both okey to me whites are more better and i kid you not, yes we have white divorce issue but basically is not as heartbroken like blacks own and believe me i asked 60% of guys i have seen who are dating white the story is different dear, anyway Nigeria woman are something Else Okey

One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. Nasty.. I'm out of here

heniford2:
saw the energy you put in trying to catch some point i have dated Black, and White and i can tell you the difference in both okey to me whites are more better and i kid you not, yes we have white divorce issue but basically is not as heartbroken like blacks own and believe me i asked 60% of guys i have seen who are dating white the story is different dear, anyway Nigeria woman are something Else Okey

Same here... I've dated white girls too...

The difference... What's the reason?

The black community has its issues... Both the men and women...

The Nigerian men dating these saintly girls... Poverty alleviation scheme? Most are...


You agree that whites divorce quickly then say it's not as serious as the heartbreaks blacks cause themselves...

Is divorce pleasurable? It's the same thing as a heartbreak... Even worse, considering the fact that both parties are MARRIED.. not just lovers...

BigJoe19:
Lol, let him keep acting like a simp. Girls will keep using him, he may finally settle down with an over used hoe.

Lolzzzzz!
Funny guy
You nor dey tire?

Baba no dey carry babe matter for head abeg,pple wey water no dey touch their head

She has been searching for a husband and was ready to go with anyone that proposes.

You are not ready yet and she earns more money. Are you really interested in her happiness or what you stood to gain as a husband with your combined assets?

Ebubechuwku:
@ OP u don't beg people like that to come back, work on your self and let her be.. stop calling her... once you stop calling her and you start focusing on your life, you will start to forget her..

She is wicked, she is aware she behaved in a heartless way, she thinks she is smart, that guy that engaged her Is smarter than her and she will be serve her the other side of life better...

Don't listen to anybody calling you simp, because it can happen to anybody.. and please heal before you date someone else so as not to pass the aggression to someone else child o

I can always assure you, she is coming back to beg u for what you she did and may even plan to come back, but bro forgive her and don't be mumu in accepting her back cos dem go serve u breakfast again...

You are a man, anyhow e hit you, learn to move on...

Op take this advice very serious and u will be okay, don't listen to anyone calling u simp, most of them are kids here who still live with their parent and never spent #50 to but a cup of garri on their own before,

This can happen to anyone even the king of Alpha redpiller male will fall yakata for this kind wickedness

OP, on the flip side, you dodged a bullet. Would you prefer you married her and she turns to be a two timer?

ActuaRise696969:
She has been searching for a husband and was ready to go with anyone that proposes.

You are not ready yet and she earns more money. Are you really interested in her happiness or what you stood to gain as a husband with your combined assets?

I want her happiness of course.

Nicklaus619:
Op take this advice very serious and u will be okay, don't listen to anyone calling u simp, most of them are kids here who still live with their parent and never spent #50 to but a cup of garri on their own before,

This can happen to anyone even the king of Alpha redpiller male will fall yakata for this kind wickedness

Noted
Thanks for your advise

Datboredberry:
Same here... I've dated white girls too...

The difference... What's the reason?

The black community has its issues... Both the men and women...

The Nigerian men dating these saintly girls... Poverty alleviation scheme? Most are...


You agree that whites divorce quickly then say it's not as serious as the heartbreaks blacks cause themselves...

Is divorce pleasurable? It's the same thing as a heartbreak... Even worse, considering the fact that both parties are MARRIED.. not just lovers...

okey

Delete everything about her from your life.

I have this belief she'll come back, if you like accept her back. You hear?



Try to be mysterious a bit. No be every time you go dey form lovey dovey.

WTF?

This is cruelty. She pulled a fast one on you. It was never your fault. Brace up and focus on yourself.

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

Irijosa777:
I want her happiness of course.

Then bless her choice and be strong as a man. There are many fishes in this ocean of life. If she has chosen another and not you then she places that person above you in her priority which is marriage. She is successful and needed a man cos she can earn. For her any good working man is cool and she has found one.

Men are built of steel hearts. But the challenge is that today's men are no longer the hunters and warriors that our ancestors were.

Stop letting love weaken your heart. Remember Solomon and Sampson and David and understand you can not be as weak as them.

ActuaRise696969:
Then bless her choice and be strong as a man. There are many fishes in this ocean of life. If she has chosen another and not you then she places that person above you in her priority which is marriage. She is successful and needed a man cos she can earn. For her any good working man is cool and she has found one.

Men are built of steel hearts. But the challenge is that today's men are no longer the hunters and warriors that our ancestors were.

Stop letting love weaken your heart. Remember Solomon and Sampson and David and understand you can not be as weak as them.

Noted
Thank you

This is very sad bro, but you have to be strong.

First of all @ 28 with the pressure from family and other factors, what an average single Nigerian lady thinks of is marriage, if you are posting her, trust me she will only stay if there is no other option but if there is, bro na japa to the READY MAN o.

Secondly, she is a very deceptive and manipulative person, it is better she go, although Nigeria ladies are generally unstable but yours is worst.

Lastly, you just have to free your mind and let it go, I know it won't be easy, in fact it will be very hard but trust me that will be the best for you.

I wish you all the best in your endeavors.

olola4:
This is very sad bro, but you have to be strong.

First of all @ 28 with the pressure from family and other factors, what an average single Nigerian lady thinks of is marriage, if you are posting her, trust me she will only stay if there is no other option but if there is, bro na japa to the READY MAN o.

Secondly, she is a very deceptive and manipulative person, it is better she go, although Nigeria ladies are generally unstable but yours is worst.

Lastly, you just have to free your mind and let it go, I know it won't be easy, in fact it will be very hard but trust me that will be the best for you.

I wish you all the best in your endeavors.

Okay Sir
Thanks for your contribution

Irijosa777:
Noted
Thank you

Block and delete her number. Then wipe all pictorial memory of her from all your archives then go out there and get a beer and understand you just dodged a misfit.

You will someday find a more beautiful and compatible woman and you'd understand why this had to happen.

There are no coincidences in life. I have experienced enough to be surprised by Life. It's not about the woman it is all happening to demonstrate why life really is. It's building you up for the tough tomorrows

Op, take heart..... That 2023 wey u tell am say u won marry discouraged her.



She was just desperate for marriage

You're not going to recover anytime soon, maybe before the 2023 election. you loved and loved her very much, so much so that u didn't bother to check if she does love u d way u loved her. She played u, though she might regret it later. She wanted marriage at all cost cos she is getting older and time is kinda limited in women's clock. Don't blame her though, 2023 is too far for her.. people will come and tell u, u deserve a better person, well, me I don't know if u do.. just try and step up your game, bad don't fall in too deeply. First experience is always like dat. No kee yourself oh.

Swear for this wicked serpent

Some Girls can be wicked they can play with your emotions

You see the reason why some of them get married without kids for 5yrs

Accept your fate and move on, another guy was faster than you. Your girl had a job, instead of you to have planned with her on how to get married next year, you were telling her to invest her savings in a new business. As if that's not enough, you still told her you would marry her in 2023 , what happened to 2022. Just move on, you are the one that caused it.