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Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Nobody: 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
If your womb is okay, why have a surrogate? Hmm stop all this explanation we dont need no lecture. See cv, geez, why cant thy womb hold a child? |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Farfalla(f): 12:37pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Acidosis: She says she's 39. I'll work with that. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Lagosfinder(m): 12:44pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
TheOgaBoss: You seem not to get it She shouldn't have disclose it The society we are isn't friendly, when this would be used against the child, she and her supporters won't be there |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:04pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
When you label a complete human as 'surrogate baby' you create the impression that a child produced from a surrogacy procedure is somehow less than and I'm sure you know that's 100% false and wrong! People are wired differently. Sometimes, one experience is enough to scar or make a lasting impression on a person for life and will mostly form a basis for decisions taken later in life and it is perfectly valid. When you categorically state that her reasons for opting for a surrogate to have a child are 'flimsy and selfish' I wonder whether you are an acclaimed expert on the subject including valid reasons for choices made! Are you in her life? Do you know how her mind operates? Do you know what personal/family experiences she might have had or seen? Even the few public 'fighting marriages' with kids caught in the cross-fire might be enough for her to take her decision. She mustn't explain it all to the public and even more importantly, she owes no explanation or validation from you or any one out there. She is a Nollywood star who has taken a personal life decision at 39 and that should be enough for everyone. Crystalom3: |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Ladycewhy(f): 1:09pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
I can understand the shock and pain this surrogacy must be giving to misogynists hiding under "this is Africa".They are shaken to their very core , a modern woman makes a smart move to be happy unfortunately it doesn't feel good to what their ancestors had taught them so it's not right heck some even see it as evil. This is a woman who has been married before ,had series of miscarriages ,but that part is oblivious to them, they just want to sit and spew their ancestor's mentality in 2021( going to 2022). Una go get heart ache tire ,she still has many frozen eggs. Women who have the funds should be smart like Ini. Even at 70 she can still bring out her eggs and make babies.Now thats what being a modern woman entails, being happy even if it means breaking all norms set by people from 1900 bc. 2 Likes |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:13pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
And why not a donor? Since she'd decided or is not able to personally carry the pregnancy for whatever reason, will you compel the surrogate to have sex with some stranger and what happens to Ini's eggs extracted and prepared for the purpose? As far as fertilization is expected to take place outside the female body, it must be a donor whether known to her or not and she is not under any obligation to disclose his identity! jaxxy: 1 Like |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:17pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
You know she didn't just have the baby. It's just that some gossips somehow sniffed and decided to bring it to the public, insinuating that the child is for a married man, enough to even wreck his own marriage! Perhaps she felt the need to make a few clarifications so the hungry wolves baying for blood would be appeased but it's clearly not enough. As far as they cannot envision priick, pvssy and 9-month belle on Ini in the picture, everything is wrong! Tueh! Aunty Surrogacy? Is that the new 'insult' in addition to 'ashawo and gold-digger'? Na wa! Damian10: |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Crystalom3(m): 1:23pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu:lolz I see your point but my calling a child a surrogate baby is not derogatory or meant to be demeaning. When you have black and white, you don't call the black white in order to bring it to par with the white, you call it black to help differentiate and make your point. My calling the child a surrogate baby is only in that aspect and not in any of the way you are seeking to narrate it. Secondly, I'm not an expert in anything and I don't need to be an expert when I see selfishness. Do you need to be an expert to warn AS and AS couple who chooses to marry and give birth? Do you need to be an expert to tell them that regardless of their reasons, that one of their child will suffer and live a life if misery because of their actions? Of course they have their reasons for wanting to give birth, but that reason will not prevent the consequences. As a loving parent, your first goal is to clear the way and make your child as safe and comfortable as possible. That's why people say 'they need a conducive and safe environments' for their kids. Her choice of choosing surrogacy is not bad for her. She gets all her desires met. She will be happy and that's beautiful. But What about the child, do you care about her own happiness? No matter how we try to polish it, she will still grow in a society that's hostile to her. As a parent, wouldn't you rather have prevented that? Ini can weather the storm of 'what people will say' but why what about the child? And if peradventure, the child is strong and can weather the storm, it still begs to ask the question, why even put the child through it in the first place? Personally, I don't give a cent about Ini Edo, my thoughts and speculations are only about the child and the effects this could have on her. And yes, if Ini Edo shared her news online, she shouldn't expect people not to comment about it whether good or bad. You can't go and talk your business in the market square and turn around and say people are mocking you. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by jaxxy(m): 1:25pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu: Why is she having a baby with a man she cannot couplate with?? |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Crystalom3(m): 1:27pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
jaxxy:our woke brethren will do social distancing with this question |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:30pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Have you considered that she may be unable to carry a pregnancy to full term? Do you know if she has a medical condition? Since there are other options to have a child, must she copulate beyond pleasure? What is this obsession with sexual intercourse? jaxxy: Crystalom3: 1 Like |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by jaxxy(m): 1:33pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu: Offcourse that’s possible and not wrong, even married couples do ivf. I’m only asking since she’s calling him a donor. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Crystalom3(m): 1:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu:we know she had no medical condition because she clearly stated her reasons. Stop asking boring questions |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:36pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
But read well. She has said the sperm donor is not a random person. She has only decided not to disclose and that person will most likely not be playing the role of father in the child's life. What is the selfishness there that you have been going on and on about? Must she tell us who the father of her baby is? The child will be just fine, people have been mocked and shunned even for their physical appearance that they may have no control over so I believe your umbrage should be at a society that is happily 'advanced' with the latest gadgets and electronic acquisitions but will not also evolve towards learning to accept people simply for being fellow human beings without more! Crystalom3: |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:37pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Crystalom3:Which brings us back to why you feel so entitled over her stated reasons which you qualified as selfish. How is it your concern? |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by cafolu: 1:39pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
He is a donor because for the procedure of surrogacy, sperm must be donated. There is no copulation required. jaxxy: |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Prime4life(m): 1:40pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
pepperdemzombie:bro i know the point you are coming from but she has already done it, and it can not be reversed, when it gets to that time she will release the name of the donor to her daughter which is her father. 1 Like |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by jaxxy(m): 1:48pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu: Ok thats fine. I wanted to know why a donor. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by jclassiq(m): 2:05pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Ms. Ini, you owe nobody an explanation but now that you have started to explain, then you may as well go all the way. Time to stop the half-truths and the incomplete informations and just tell us everything. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by irunoko(m): 2:43pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
pepperdemzombie:my post was in response to those criticizing ini |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by BeardedmeatR(m): 2:59pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
pepperdemzombie:You Sabi your own papa? Cos I'm sure you have four siblings but different fathers. 1 Like |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Acesexcell(m): 3:14pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Ernestforyou:Lol....if the girl requested to know her father in future, what would probably be her answer? |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by pepperdemzombie: 3:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Prime4life:No name anywhere, she gave out herself already. She said she doesn't want any man to lay claim of the child, hence a donor. It is the same thing with buying blood at blood bank, they sell from store. Ronaldo did same to birth his twins, he doesn't know the owner of the eggs, his father is lambasting him for it and he is alao regretting it. Ini deleted the comment and twist due to the backlash. The action s very wrong, she wants to show feminism. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by irunoko(m): 3:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Crystalom3:please read to understand not to respond.i said CCTV is present but checked when there's an issue.bye |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by pepperdemzombie: 3:57pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu:What is the Nationality of your foolishness? It is clearly written up there, that she deleted what she wrote before. She said she doesn't want any man to lay claim on the child, hence a donor. She deleted and twist after backlash. Why bring what is not people's business to public domain? Abeg, buy Refurbished Chinese sense |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by pepperdemzombie: 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
tollyboy5:They like to support rubbish that they will not advise members of their families to do. Ask them to ask their sisters to go for donors, they will not agree but derailing some fools. That's how Regina introduced them to Kayamanta. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by pepperdemzombie: 4:25pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
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Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by TheOgaBoss: 4:29pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Lagosfinder:yes I agree that this should have been a private matter for her but u know our celebrities always want to be in the spotlight, whether positively or negatively. |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by pepperdemzombie: 4:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
cafolu:How do you know the father of Linda's son? Were you there when they did it or he has come to claim? The boy's surname is Ikeji. Ini first said she used a donor cos she doesn't want anybody to lay claim on the child. She deleted and twist after backlash. I thought you people laughed at FFK's impotence yesterday. Precious said she never had sex with FFK for 6 years cos he is impotent. Who owns sperm for IVF? |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Lagosfinder(m): 5:37pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
TheOgaBoss: You are very correct Which unfortunately they don't know the mental health of the child is at risk in the future to come |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by tollyboy5(m): 5:58pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
pepperdemzombie:In the west there are children with father and father. What ever anyone choose for herself is no ones business |
Re: Ini Edo: My Daughter’s Donor Is Not A Random Person by Ogaboss44(m): 6:11pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Ddokie: She did it for all you busy body Nigerians to know how she got her child, before you guys would cook up another story. Who can blame her 1 Like |
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