Acidosis:


Ini Edo in her late 30s? Nollywood age?

TheOgaBoss:
what about orphans who grew without either parents, don't they still do well?

Crystalom3:
Her reasons for wanting surrogate baby is so flimsy and selfish.

She talks as if it's every marriage that are fighting on public forum.

Besides, does she take her daughters feeling into the equation? It's all about herself in this case

jaxxy:


Why even a donor?

Damian10:
You put your life wide open on air and then complaining when tongues be wagging. Leave your life off social space and worry not about peoples opinion aunty surrogacy

cafolu:
When you label a complete human as 'surrogate baby' you create the impression that a child produced from a surrogacy procedure is less human and I'm sure you know that's 100% false and wrong! People are wired differently. Sometimes, one experience is enough to scar or make a lasting impression on a person for life and will mostly form a basis for decisions taken later in life and it is perfectly valid. When you categorically state that her reasons for opting for a surrogate to have a child are 'flimsy and selfish' I wonder whether you are an acclaimed expert on the subject including valid reasons for choices made!

Are you in her life? Do you know how her mind operates? Do you know what personal/family experiences she might have had or seen? Even the few public 'fighting marriages' with kids caught in the cross-fire might be enough for her to take her decision. She mustn't explain it all to the public and even more importantly, she owes no explanation or validation from you or any one out there. She is a Nollywood star who has taken a personal life decision at 39 and that should be enough for everyone.

cafolu:
And why not a donor? Since she'd decided or is not able to personally carry the pregnancy for whatever reason, will you compel the surrogate to have sex with some stranger and what happens to Ini's eggs extracted and prepared for the purpose? As far as fertilization is expected to take place outside the female body, it must be a donor whether known to her or not and she is not under any obligation to disclose his identity!

jaxxy:


Why is she having a baby with a man she cannot couplate with??

jaxxy:


Why is she having a baby with a man she cannot couplate with??

Crystalom3:
our woke brethren will do social distancing with this question

cafolu:
Have you considered that she may be unable to carry a pregnancy to full term? Do you know if she has a medical condition? Since there are other options to have a child, must she copulate beyond pleasure? What is this obsession with sexual intercourse?

cafolu:
Have you considered that she may be unable to carry a pregnancy to full term? Do you know if she has a medical condition? Since there are other options to have a child, must she copulate beyond pleasure? What is this obsession with sexual intercourse?

Crystalom3:
lolz

I see your point but my calling a child a surrogate baby is not derogatory or meant to be demeaning.

When you have black and white, you don't call the black white in order to bring it to par with the white, you call it black to help differentiate and make your point.

My calling the child a surrogate baby is only in that aspect and not in any of the way you are seeking to narrate it.

Secondly, I'm not an expert in anything and I don't need to be an expert when I see selfishness.

Do you need to be an expert to warn AS and AS couple who chooses to marry and give birth? Do you need to be an expert to tell them that regardless of their reasons, that one of their child will suffer and live a life if misery because of their actions?

Of course they have their reasons for wanting to give birth, but that reason will not prevent the consequences.

As a loving parent, your first goal is to clear the way and make your child as safe and comfortable as possible. That's why people say 'they need a conducive and safe environments' for their kids.

Her choice of choosing surrogacy is not bad for her. She gets all her desires met. She will be happy and that's beautiful.

But What about the child, do you care about her own happiness? No matter how we try to polish it, she will still grow in a society that's hostile to her.

As a parent, wouldn't you rather have prevented that? Ini can weather the storm of 'what people will say' but why what about the child? And if peradventure, the child is strong and can weather the storm, it still begs to ask the question, why even put the child through it in the first place?

Personally, I don't give a cent about Ini Edo, my thoughts and speculations are only about the child and the effects this could have on her.

And yes, if Ini Edo shared her news online, she shouldn't expect people not to comment about it whether good or bad. You can't go and talk your business in the market square and turn around and say people are mocking you.

Crystalom3:
we know she had no medical condition because she clearly stated her reasons.

Stop asking boring questions

jaxxy:


Offcourse that’s possible and not wrong, even married couples do ivf. I’m only asking since she’s calling him a donor.

pepperdemzombie:

You and your mama no know your papa abi? How can a sane person go online to tell people she used a random sperm donor to form her daughter without shame? Nothing wrong with surrogacy, a husband/boyfriend/lover is to be the donor. Who asked her before she talked?
Happy moherhood indeed Household wen dey boast of peace, na their bastard never grow. Later the confused one will be kneeling down about and crying in secret like Tonto begging fvck mates to stand as father.
Breeding bastards and naming them after their fathers, rubbish!

cafolu:
He is a donor because for the procedure of surrogacy, sperm must be donated. There is no copulation required.

pepperdemzombie:

Use your head, nothing wrong with surrogacy, your husband/boyfriend/lover will be the donor. Funke Akindele, Kim Kardashian etc did it.
Sperm donor is for couples who want to remain together but the man is not fertile, and they want children. This is done as a cover up and so that the donor will not lay claim or blackmail in future. Single women who have no partner also do it but it boomerang in the long run when it comes to Will and inheritance.
So, out of all the men in the East, no single man could collect money and cooperate?
She's even lucky it is normal bearing mother's maiden names over there. Tonto said same, see the public disgrace faced when burst.

pepperdemzombie:
Linda pikin_no papa
Precious children_no papa
Ini Edo pikin_no papa.
Shey ipob children no dey get papa ni?

Ernestforyou:
Keep on blowing grammar,you will understand the implications of the rubbish you did in the nearest future.Your child will always remind you,don’t worry!

Prime4life:
bro i know the point you are coming from but she has already done it, and it can not be reversed, when it gets to that time she will release the name of the donor to her daughter which is her father.

Crystalom3:
I think you are lying.

You ever wondered why CCTV though capable of audio recording don't utilize the audio feature?

It's because it's illegal to record conversation of people. It's called eavesdropping, an offense punishable under the law of any country.

Like I said, on the speculation side I think you may be lying. And no one watch cctv recording every time except an issue pops up.

If we start even analyzing the psychological aspects of kids knowing their talks and actions are being monitored 24/7, then that's a whole lot of other issues. Let's be realistic please.

And should we talk about the time line of your schooling and the evolution and acceptance of cctv in public spaces in Nigeria?

cafolu:
Even here she has clearly stated that the sperm donor is no random person, you are still 'offended'. Over what, I can't imagine! Who died and made you author of all things IVF and surrogacy and Ini Edo's choices? She is well within her rights to have no relationship with or never disclose the identity of the father of her child! Rest and let sense locate your location! See how you are even insulting and dragging Tonto Dike who was married to the father of her child and his identity is not hidden! What exactly is the colour of your problem?

tollyboy5:

Why you com dey vex

BeardedmeatR:
I no Sabi my own papa o! Cos my Olosho mama has 8 children with no fathers.

Lagosfinder:




You seem not to get it

She shouldn't have disclose it


The society we are isn't friendly, when this would be used against the child, she and her supporters won't be there

cafolu:
My mother, Try not to be too silly. There is no child without a mother and father. That one or the other parent isn't actively in the parenting picture for whatever reason/circumstance doesn't negate the existence of a father/mother. Father of Linda Ikeji's child is known; Ini has clearly mentioned that the sperm donor is no random person; even Precious whose kids are currently in their father's custody you say no papa. Is it a new strain of madness you are reacting to?

TheOgaBoss:
yes I agree that this should have been a private matter for her but u know our celebrities always want to be in the spotlight, whether positively or negatively.

pepperdemzombie:

They like to support rubbish that they will not advise members of their families to do. Ask them to ask their sisters to go for donors, they will not agree but derailing some fools. That's how Regina introduced them to Kayamanta.

Ddokie:


And why did she come on social media to announce to the whole world how she had a child?

If you don’t want people’s opinions on a controversial issue, don’t drop it at their doorstep. Once you do, you are inviting opinions, many of which you won’t like because they may be truths too hard for you to handle.

People who want to go against conventional human practices should learn to keep it to themselves. If they don’t, they should expect great resistance from those who believe that it is their responsibility to make sure the status quo remains.