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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Raalsalghul: 7:00am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:


She was not like that before marriage

Lol, it's always the case, isn't it?

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by MVLOX(m): 7:02am On Dec 10, 2021
Omo dis na one serious problem currently in so many Homes ooo

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by AutoChick4U(f): 7:18am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:


She was not like that before marriage
Have u tried catching her hair, smacking d ass and whispering "you've been a very very bad girl"? Then go ahead and pinch those boobs and set her loose. Abi na only monotonous night bed missionary kini under always dey do? Boring

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by fattprince(m): 7:28am On Dec 10, 2021
Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin
Preshie is back. Or is it that I didn't come across your comments all this while?

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by AbujaCitiBlog: 7:39am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
If your wife was truly enjoying sex, she won't be complaining about being tired. Either you married a coded lesbian who doesn't have any emotional attachment to you or you need to up your skills in the bedroom. So which one is it? Observe carefully and learn.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Help2020: 7:49am On Dec 10, 2021
HarunaWest:
Side chick and masturbation..Unfortunately me I get small change...So i chop my life mehn...Time go reach, na she go dey beg you for straff.
I jealous una wen dey masturbate without side effect. Me I non fit try masturbate for a day again, except I wan suffer for days.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by chigomiced: 7:54am On Dec 10, 2021
Why is it that it is the man that is suppose to up his game in the bedroom...

The woman wey dey deny Op sex is being left Scott Free...

I think both of Dem needs another round of marriage counseling class...


If your husband no dey Bleep u well
You as a woman should up ur game and Bleep him like u want to be bleeped in the first place..

Show him how u want to be bleeped...

Enough of this mind games

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by chigomiced: 7:57am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping



Bring up issue of you wanting to take a second wife since ur needs are not being met...

Tell her the marriage is not fulfilling your needs

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Zao19: 8:08am On Dec 10, 2021
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Jidemoo: 8:15am On Dec 10, 2021
The matter wey dey on ground so...e heavy for mouth

But do you know that 70% of the men outchea have this issue ⬇️
https://www.nairaland.com/6850602
which constitutes to various saga in relationships and marriages nowadays

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Skillsnigeria: 8:17am On Dec 10, 2021
Hmmm
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Kingdemu: 8:17am On Dec 10, 2021
I've never for once been denied sex for the 4yrs I've been married.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by TheGift: 8:18am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Sorry bro. Maybe it’s time you let your Wife know these issues you have shared with us and ask Her to advise you on how to cope. Then take it from there.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by joshua203016: 8:18am On Dec 10, 2021
There is nothing like starvation of sex, the only starvation i know is food

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by luminouz(m): 8:18am On Dec 10, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Have u tried catching her hair, smacking d ass and whispering "you've been a very very bad girl"? Then go ahead and pinch those boobs and set her loose. Abi na only monotonous night bed missionary kini under always dey do? Boring
Ewwwwwww....

You will earn a "give your life to Christ" look from her

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Chummynoni(m): 8:18am On Dec 10, 2021
E be things
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Nobody: 8:19am On Dec 10, 2021
If your too rough .. it’s not fun try and watch 90s romance we grew up wanting that soft love not bangggggggggggg your supposed to moan not die from sex…

The art of making love is sensual not power expression

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by PENNYSWAP: 8:19am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

She is actually tired of fvcking same dick and she’s either cheating or a chronic masturbator .

My advise , get her a new man and get your self a new woman

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by BIGDADDY000(m): 8:19am On Dec 10, 2021
That makes two of us my brother,

our case is synonymous, i only don't masturbate

but am really fed up of this denial of sex in my own matrimonial home.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Zchi1052(m): 8:20am On Dec 10, 2021
Bro ....u dey reason well .it's due to financial aspects that many people don't get side chick
But also masturbation is sin... have a dialogue with ur wife... know she is the best time that fits her

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by luvyaself95(m): 8:20am On Dec 10, 2021
Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband grin
house destroyer grin

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by kachistone: 8:20am On Dec 10, 2021
Dear OP, kindly read this two books

1. Every Woman
2. Five Love Languages.

The advice in them will help your marriage.

Cheers!!!

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Ventura1: 8:20am On Dec 10, 2021
If one is starving, Is it bad to buy food from another source, when the main source that have it denied the availability?

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by MrTee28(m): 8:20am On Dec 10, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Lol! Mosdii is back.

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by alphaconde(m): 8:22am On Dec 10, 2021
na beer
Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by franchasng: 8:22am On Dec 10, 2021
Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping
If your wife starves you of sex, as a married man myself, I can boldly tell you that she is either not so attracted to you or she doesn't love you that much.


My own wife is hot, classy and too busy, yet she chases me around with it. I am even the one that tries to convince her that we dont need to make it a too frequent stuff so we both don't get tired of it with time, and to also give me time to concentrate on my numerous other engagements.



Any married man that his wife is starving of sex should know that three things are involved;

1) she is not so attracted to you the husband

2) she is falling out of love with you for some underlying reasons you need to find out.


3) she is seeing someone else or planning to

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by ufotty2001: 8:23am On Dec 10, 2021
Even my girlfriend always complain that she is tired after 2 rounds.. I want to break-up

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by Mrbenny001: 8:23am On Dec 10, 2021
Walai..one advantage of getting married... early morning sex is very cool men...op listen this advice.. and it seems you're not hitting her well
delzbaba:
Its because u are always trying to do it at night, try her early in the morning around 4 am

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by luvyaself95(m): 8:23am On Dec 10, 2021
okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well
Na wa oh people can advise sha grin

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Re: Dear Married Men, How Do You Cope With Sex Starvation by gonkin(m): 8:24am On Dec 10, 2021
I've been single for almost a year. When i was dating and my last girl travelled for a long i still never ever cheated. Its one of the few advantages of fiddling with sergeant sausage. You dont need someone else to quench ur urges. Its one of the reasons i know I'll be able to control myself always. Konji can make you think and commit stupid things. I hate masturbation but sometimes i think of the things i would have done if i didn't milk myself. Just be careful, masturbation can be addictive and also it delays ejaculation grin so its 25mins at least per round especially with an aparatus that got enlarged due to massaging. Dont know if its just me. I haven't had sex for a year and im still sane. Maybe that's why i dont lie about my feelings cuz konji can make u propose feelings for the wrong person.

Wouldnt advice the ice method.

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