BLACK PEOPLE problems are MARRIAGE, FOOD, RELIGION and SEX.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

I hoped another man no dey fire am from back because, in marriage na man dey tire for sex not the other way round.

Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

Na this make make discard my last girlfriend.


The truth is i was willing to settle with her,i made her know too.But constant denying of sex made me to start distancing myself for her,Because i was wondering what will happen if we got married and this Continue,how will i cope with my wife denying me sex.






So tell us,when you two were dating did she deny you sex?



I'm asking because that my girl still want me but my only fear is that side.

luminouz:

Ewwwwwww....

You will earn a "give your life to Christ" look from her

oga lummy, you’re yet to send me invitation card

Preshieben:
I am on it already

Depending on his location.

just hope ua kidding_ right?
Do not do married men

zimdante:


Yea damn right awaken the hoe in her

Right!

Every being has got their hoe side.

Ndidi2:
quote me
U will regret ever cheating on that woman except she had slept with someone 'shusband
Cheating nearly destroyed and kill me .
I HV not recovered emotionally after finding out my loving husband is sleeping around.

I hate men that cheat on their wives for whatever reason.
Is heartbreaking finding out that the man u love could be opening his body for olosho in the name of side chick.

No good girl will ever have something doing with someone'shusband.

Most of you women push men out. When a woman starts denying her husband, she is tempting the man to go out.

ufotty2001:
Even my girlfriend always complain that she is tired after 2 rounds.. I want to break-up

Married people are complaining,who put you there??

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Oshey mos mos agba gba Firi yoh yoh baba O
We don miss you aje . all the mods wen dey this NL na God go punishment all of them welcome back boss

Boss 70% is an understatement
90% do but don’t Speak out, that’s most result to side chics to satisfy their sexual needs

Zao19:
More than 70% of married men face this type of problem including my self, if u are yet to married pls stop talking rubbish, u are yet to experience such.

Me sef Dey this table I swear down �

BIGDADDY000:
That makes two of us my brother,

our case is synonymous, i only don't masturbate

but am really fed up of this denial of sex in my own matrimonial home.

Sex starvation? What a very poor English.

Omo no be lie. I was once in that kind situation but the truth of the matter is you not making enough money. You probably going through a few financial difficulties which she is aware of and due to that she loses interest now and then but she dey really give you once in a while but as a man you need it on a regular. Do you have kids? Download nice movies and watch together on bed by weekends. Talk to her and let her know everything will work out fine cos God is not done with you yet. Give her money for no good reason just do anything you like with it... Stop masturbating cause when she does give you Bleep,you won't even last long cuz your body is used to masturbating! You turn one minute man! Before I married my wife we bleeped everyday like anytime we see each other na Bleep but when marriage is involved you find out that sex isn't the Koko anymore. Been married for 10years now and this stage you are now we don pass through am. Don't love her less because of sex

babablogger:
Two wives is the best, That's all i'll say

You are absolutely right especially if the man has the means to adequately cater for his family

Preshieben:
Ehn

What kind of deliverance?

Prick deliverance.

MufasaLion:
Marriage and it's different problem. It seems your wife doesn't have sexual drive tgat matches yours. I believe you should have known that before marriage, but you seem to be blinded by love to neglect thst part.

You can only hope she changes which is not likely, or you go get a side piece which means you getting into adultery and that's wrong in a marriage.

I wish you well.

Gaggii:


She was not like that before marriage

Chameleon tactics. When they've gotten what they wanted (marriage/children) they now have leverage whereas the man has all the leverage before marriage. Their true character/behavior is often overlooked due to 'sex, looks or love' and later it appears like they've suddenly "changed".
That's why a keen eye and patience is necessary when vetting a woman because even if they're pretending there'll still be glimpses of their real character every now and then.

femi4:
you have to discuss with her

2. Prepare her for the night during the day. Don't just jump on her for sex

3. Assist her in doing some house chores, little things like that impress them and make them less tired

4. Be sexual appealing, have your bath and smell nice before going to bed.

All things being equal, without any external forces, you guys sexual life will improve

It’s so easy to say! When you are in it you will know better!
All these ...

Firefox01:
Lol. Your wife is sharing your pussy with other "capable" men. Wait..... This is not even sharing, she doesn't even allow you to Bleep her. She has given your pussy to other men while still posing as your wife. I really feel for you man. [/b]Only God knows if your child is even yours [b]

See how this one use all him mouth talk

geosegun:


Women urge for sex/libido decreases gradually after marriage due to increase in responsibilities/stress, especially when kids are involved and boredom due to monotonous sex styles.

This happen to most married women. No amount of talk can change the situation. Only actions, such relieving her of stress and some responsibilities, taking her on holiday away from kids, and primarily spicing up your sex life with different styles that will make her ask for more. Also, ensure you take care of your hygiene. It may be a turn off.

NB: There are beautiful places to go locally that won't cost you much. It is not important that you fly out of the country.

Aside those..? It can only get worse. Unless you have the gut for a 2nd wife or side chick, which I am not advising, atleast for now. This is a common challenge in African marriages, especially as years of marital life increases. You wonder why most married men are promiscuous?

Note: Never ever take advise from those that were never married. They obviously cant give what they don't have...

What if she doesn’t like other sex styles what can be done about that

You all should stop blaming your wives. She's not the reason you all couldn't control yourselves before marriage. If you're the type of guy that avoided pre-marital sex or sex with too many random women, living with your wife for months without sex during pregnancy or child birth wouldn't be an issue. 1 month after child birth, and some of you're thinking about side chicks. Is sex the only thing you all did with your lives as bachelors?? Just one month oo!

Some of you slept with at least 6 girls per month before marriage. Now as a married man, you want your wife to take over and do the work of 6 ol.osho while also attending to house chores and corporate responsibilities. More often than not, you guys are the problems in your marriage. By the way, this thread is disg.usting.

Is your wife stressed? Physically or emotionally? Because stress can affect her libido.

Whether you have "small change" or not, don't cheat on your wife. If you can't cope anymore, divorce her and let her go.

One thing you don't know about adultery is that it opens the door to a cycle of sin. You cheat on your wife, your children may decide to do far worse than you, and their children after them. Don't open the door for the enemy.

ahnie:
What of me that hasn't had sex close to a year?

Let me end that streak for you

so we plenty

If you're financially capable, polygamy is the way.

Jfkitchen123:

It’s so easy to say! When you are in it you will know better!
All these ...

If you expect your wife to be and do all these, the least you can do is to help out in whichever way, except its not a wife you married, but a house maid.

Shalommy:
Chaaiii... Men with sex. Is sex food or money? Man, go out and hussle hard then you'll realise that sex is nothing and you can stay a month or more with no feeling of it.

If he has sex with another woman, hope you won't be vexed.

Same here my brother. Just take it as your cross and take your mind from worries on the issue focus on her good sides because any other options is not the better or the best

Preshieben:
let me be ya side chick..
I make my own money,so keep yours
I just like it with people's husband

hmmmm

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why won't she be tired when you stress the life out of her?

Children supervision - na she.

Cleaning and chores - na she.

Cooking - na she.

And she still has to go out there to make money else you tag her a liability. Now, tell me, why won't she complain of exhaustion?

Men, please, learn to alleviate stress off your wives. Stress kills. Kills health, libido and in the long term, puts a strain on your sexual/intimate lives.

Women nowadays have to work harder than their mothers because we have to bring something to the table.
Yet these men expect you to do all that and still be in the mood for sex.

supereagle:


Most of you women push men out. When a woman starts denying her husband, she is tempting the man to go out.

not all
Cheating nearly destroyed me
I nearly died bc l had an ectopic pregnancy for my 3rd baby of infection.
It was bad.
Husband has been sleeping with oloshos called sidechick without protection for years
Can u imagine that?
If l tell u details of the cheating u will be shocked how far and low a man can go to sleep with people's daughter.

How can a reasonable and responsible man stoop low to be allowing a random woman toying with his manhood?

If what you are doing is good y hiding it?
Let ur wife know u HV a side chick and c how ur life will be.

I have prayer for any woman that has slept with my husband.