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Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Temptee101(m): 10:03am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Akwaibomdude: 1000000000000 Likes! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by HonestFriend: 10:03am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mercychen: Full stop... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by mega13(m): 10:04am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen:my beloved, my advice for you is to keep calm and be prayerful, most importantly, relocate from your present residential address to a place quite distance away from where supposedly unfriendly in-law shouldn't assessed your location easily. Moreover, I advised that the love or Bond you shared with your dearest wife should be on the increase though it will be difficult for her to let go of a family member whom has accommodated for good eighteen years. more grace my brother!. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Olayetan(m): 10:04am On Dec 13, 2021 |
She's not ready to settle down, her priority now should be building her own home but it looks like the aunty has caged her mentally and she can't free herself. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by FKMagazine(m): 10:05am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: It is well with u...I feel ur pain. Unfortunately, you married from the wrong side and it's hunting u now. My advice, Take a one or 2week holiday to seek the face of God. Marriage is to be enjoyed, not to be endured. And God is the establisher of marriage-union, so, he's the only one who has the solution to that puzzle... Through prayers & supplications, ask Him specifically & diligently what you want Him to solve in your marriage, and trust me, he will answer you. Shalom! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by ipobarethieves: 10:06am On Dec 13, 2021 |
since ur wife refused to grow up/still see herself As madam girl.@OP,leave dat slow girl u kal wife b4 Dey gang up kee U.My eye don see much |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by KennethEnyi(m): 10:07am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ehn let her destroy it na mumu |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Montaque(m): 10:09am On Dec 13, 2021 |
I will forgive you for ignoring this red flag early in the courtship. Any party in a marriage that gives less regard to his/her biological mother/father is a red flag. When you see it, try to correct it and if it doesn't work, leave. Your wife loves another woman more than her mum and you think she will love you more than her Aunty? Solution. Relocation. Do that as soon as your saving can carry you. If you have the means, go live in a gated estate where people come in with permission. There is a reason people live in those kind of places. Another solution. When next your wife makes trouble because of her aunty, allow her to choose between you or her aunty. At least let her go live with them and leave you alone. At best, shift your attention to her real mum. Bring her along to start holidays with you. Ignore your wife and her aunty. Extreme measures: Dont beat your wife, but show her constantly that you are capable of beating her if she messes up. There should be a limit to this nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Tosbox01(m): 10:10am On Dec 13, 2021 |
SmellySperm: Usually, it's very difficult to control a tough woman. It's either he tolerate their will be trouble. Am a living example. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by 4ckyou: 10:11am On Dec 13, 2021 |
simple solution is to relocate to a place where her aunt can't easily access, simple |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by 4ckyou: 10:11am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Tosbox01: tolerating it means he will die of high blood pressure one day |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by aktolly54(m): 10:11am On Dec 13, 2021 |
@op. Maybe you should calculate how much they spend on your wife for 18yrs and pay them back with interest. On a serious note, they expect you to pay homage to them for training your wife for 18yrs since biological mother is just there but na them gangan be mother who don't let shi.t goes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Tosbox01(m): 10:12am On Dec 13, 2021 |
[quote author=Tosbox01 post=108455249] Usually, it's very difficult to control a tough woman. It's either he tolerate her or their will be trouble. My experience though. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by EmmaxKeys: 10:12am On Dec 13, 2021 |
akinade28: You totally said rubbish. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by cotzywitzy(m): 10:12am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: You wife’s aunt na manipulative witch. She’s got you wife under lock and I guess what she have over your wife is she must not be far away from here. You had better pray and take swift action 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by sharone21(f): 10:13am On Dec 13, 2021 |
akinade28: I fully understand where you are coming from because Nairaland men write a lot of rubbish but sometimes u still see some that will say the truth in the midst of their nonsense write ups. I wonder why someone would train a person as the aunt claims and would not wish for the happiness of that person....Abi if her 'child' is a bigger, better and blessed person due to peace of mind etc won't she be remembered? Even the mother that actually carried her for 9 months didn't do any wahala na aunty all because she trained someone, even cursing and wishing their marriage will fail, is this not witchcraft? The Op and wife ought to be decisive and take steps in that direction. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Bizibi(m): 10:13am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Always observe red flag in courtship.... |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by eltkins(m): 10:14am On Dec 13, 2021 |
[quote author=Akwaibomdude post=108444123]If you try moving away from them(the aunty)and your wife doesn't agree...tell her to go and marry them Well said |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by HonestFriend: 10:14am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Babamide: I disagree with u bro... The Bible made it clear that a man will leave is mother n father n cleave to his wife.. Op's problem is his wife, she has refuse to grow up.. This couples re still young dey need time together in marriage not some kind of interference from parents n family members.. Shey op no get mum n dad ni.. That his wife n her aunt needs to grow up.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Lenient001: 10:16am On Dec 13, 2021 |
There's two things these so called aunty wanna do to your marriage. And that is.. Is either she dismantle it or keeps u succumbing to her will. And as a husband they can both ruin your life (by enchanting u) at any fucking time they fucking desire if they observed u changing to what u weren't. What u must do. 1. You must be prayerful 2. You must be careful 3. Find any means to change your wife because u can't change her aunty. And if God endowed u the power to do change your wife.. That means u've overcame your ordeals. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by 15ssDRIVE(m): 10:16am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Once you don finished with Marriage, she is now yours, a part of you. Reason with her … |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Tosbox01(m): 10:16am On Dec 13, 2021 |
4ckyou: See, I had to leave the mother of my child because she was too tough to live with. If we were married, I will just accept my faith. The man might injure or kill the woman if he truly wants to exercise his lordship. At that point, one needs wisdom. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by aktolly54(m): 10:16am On Dec 13, 2021 |
EmmaxKeys:you dey mad, how does it he said rubbis.h ? There is element of truth in what he said so we have to think both sides though evil aunt shouldn't have react like that because her own its too much |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by highoctane: 10:18am On Dec 13, 2021 |
The root cause of aunt this aunt that, was you married your aunt niece, your wife, instead of one of her daughters. There are coded ways of ending this kind of irksomeness. Set up a peace party. Then after the merriment state a firm reason why you held the party. 1: address the issue of your wife aunt and her children undue interference in your marriage. 2: that your marriage with your wife is at a thin line of breaking apart because of their action., 3: not that you are rejecting them as one of your in-laws, but on no account should they visit or call you without sending a text message, before you could finish some of them who are wise will start to leave, then create enemity between your wife and her aunt, that her hatred for you was as a result of not marrying one of her daughters name one of them, and her insistence of discouraging you not to marry your wife, then draw a thick red line of total disconnect from your wife aunt who is your in-law, by calling your wife forward to choose between you and her. Lesson learned from the 'The godfather' |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by pedrilo: 10:18am On Dec 13, 2021 |
family people will not stop interfering into married people' homes rubbish |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by omanzo02: 10:19am On Dec 13, 2021 |
uyimen: Dump her and she will realise you mean business. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by West2019(m): 10:19am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mercychen:your brain dey work 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Arsenate(m): 10:23am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Bitter, older women with failed relationships with men have a strong desire to see younger ladies tow the same path as them. Misery loves company. They dish out destructive advice under the guise of looking out for their (the younger ladies') interest. I see it play out all the time, even more so here on nairaland. Extremely sad that young girls can't see this until it's rather late. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by Montaque(m): 10:24am On Dec 13, 2021 |
akinade28: A man can never be in the same shoes with a woman. You don't marry the man, the man marries you. So why should the advise be the same. And if you are angry that we would have given a different advise if it's a woman, there is nothing you can do about it. Nature made it so. Women of these days trying to direct the affairs of their family while in their husbands house. Stay single, no. Stay married, no. |
Re: My Wife's Aunty Wants To Destroy My Marriage! by sharone21(f): 10:29am On Dec 13, 2021 |
izubext007: But there are some cases that it doesn't work like magic infact the opposite... Anyway, prayers + counselling are always needed. I wonder the age of the wife? No aunty can tell a full grown/blown adult lady this. |
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