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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Dindondin(m): 6:12pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
DSoj:Sugomu, supo arogomu, oponu ayerada omo fobojona! Mo ri e sugbon o ju omo lasan lo! |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Dindondin(m): 6:13pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
iamkelvincent:Did you see me quote religion or support irresponsible child bearers? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Adakintroy: 6:14pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ask you father if having you was worth it. After them una don enter this world na una de always ask mumu questions. You for de that side ask. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by andy4d2ofus(m): 6:17pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
One of the reason children are achievement unlike the western world where everything is planned for your old age is taken care of but no so in Nigeria your children is your future. If you like have children if you don't like don't . 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by okoroemeka(m): 6:18pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Supreme145:marriage to me is more like a game of Russian roulette,I have rich friends that are single but got broke after marriage,I also have poor friends that got rich after marriage, there's no defined textbook course on marriage, 4 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Sleeknigga: 6:22pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Vyolet:Whats wrong with getting your tubes tied,sameway menopause takes away your eggs but men have no menopause its unheard of and even religiously wrong, Maybe your planning to have bastard babies for your hubby |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ugotaya: 6:28pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Supreme145: Well OP, You have a very good points but life doesn't roll like and as you say every mallam to his kettle. Do you want to start bearing children in your old age ? or do you want to start training them when you can't go out to hustle again? well, Most men actually take up what's called responsilities and take their hustle to a great height once they get married and start to have children. See don't put yourself in a default mood just because you are afriad to make serious move. Children is an achievement when you train them well and they in turn succeed in life.Children will keep your legacy and your sweat will not go in vain. Tha ball is in your court. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by kaymandak(m): 6:28pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
To me it all depends on good planning, industrious partner and God. 1. Children are good heritage from God 2. Industrious woman and a discipline and hard-working man seldom suffer poverty 3. Parenting is another topic entirely which is not easy and almost a lifetime institution, better to start when you have the energy and zeal 4. Family issue is not all about money, there are rich homes with vagabonds and broken relationship 5. Responsibility saves you from frivolity 6. These neighbors you think are poor and always begging from you sometimes have better plans, you will just hear them one day saying uncle we are moving to our fairly completed two bedroom flat, while you keep on changing electronic and paints of a rented apartment. 7. Time waits for nobody, before you close and open your eyes, this post will be ten years ago. 8. It is so beautiful to grow up with your kids, not only when you are a millionaire, even that time you will be too busy. 9. I don't have much, but it is soothing watching my favourite club Chelsea with my boy. 10. May God help us all 9 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Raphcom: 6:31pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Nothing at all is easy for this life, at time I do reason the way people really take it as they do. Most found themselves in that out of pressure which they will not bother to know what they will pass through. Anyway na their own cup of tea Joo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by MorningStar233: 6:41pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Lightway: Jesus, why is it that when people have not experienced something they just underrated it? Imagine some women not getting it together through out the period of pregy, heartburn, headaches, fever, spitting, vomiting, lack of appetite, weakness of the body, having swollen legs and pains all over your body sometimes and finally labour paind 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kutunban: 6:43pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Your experience is relatable to mine, their demand is seriously overwhelming. Klass99: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Stanleyville(m): 6:56pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
![]() Just pray that Devil dosnt give you 'children of sorrow'. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by julyb(m): 6:59pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Even as a married man with 2 kids, l have learnt a lot from this thread. Life indeed is a mystery! My brother get more closer to God and never stop adding value to yourself and believe in your intrinsic worth not material things. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by PENNYSWAP: 7:10pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by softy(m): 7:10pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
kaymandak: Well done, may God continue to bless you and your son. The OP was just mixing issues together in her or his post. THESE REPONSES BELOW ARE FOR THE OP 1. To have a child is an achievement. This is so because it adds to your genealogy which started first through procreation. In Africa, having a child means leaving a path that could be traced to u when naming ur ancestors, tribe, village, and your origin. It is a form of secured identity of your next generation in line and in life. Also it is a form of relief at old age, even the Bible describe them as children who would stand at the gate and ask ur enemies questions. They are like arrows in the hand of a powerful man. 2. The numbers of children to have is another discussion entirely. This factor is affected by many issues such as fertility, financial stability, generational instance ( If u are the only child from your parents, ur own parents would love to have more grand kids), on health ground ( imagine a family who love to have 4 children and are well to do financially but was constrained by medical instances of cesarean sections or ectopic pregnancy), the country u are raising the family. 3. The points stated in Number 2 above could now bring us to all the issues u discussed in your original post. Nigeria Is a hell if u don't curtail the number of children u raise. This is even worse when people do not plan well before giving birth to the children. Child do not bring food from heaven. It is God who provides and nurtures both parent ad the children, BUT THE MAIN RESPONSIBITIES LIE ON THE PARENTS Caveat: if we reflect from where we are coming from, it will DO US GOOD IF WE CAN ALTER THINGS THAT WAS NOT POSSIBLE FOR OUR PARENTS TO CHANGE, through our new informed Decisions, henceforth. If u are married and the house is NOT FULL ALREADY, it is not too late to make amendment. If u are not married, pls open ur eyes. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Wannabenz: 7:10pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Me I am ready for marriage Oo. Any lady that can pay my groom price is welcome. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:13pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Dindondin:I am not here twisting your statement. ![]() Look, there are over 200 million people in Nigeria with over 75% of them living in perpetual poverty. Of those are recorded over 10 million children who are homeless, roaming the streets of the same country every single day. Suggesting that children are, in this same society, an achievement, is to do so by turning a blind eye to problems that are become a reality of life and living in Nigeria. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Omoluabi16(m): 7:13pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Absolutely. Yes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Supreme145(m): 7:14pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Decency2020:You lots can't argue intelligently with throwing insults, go into to world and multiply Methuselah. Big woman with big sense. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ActuaRise696969: 7:16pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Children are responsibilities not achievement. There is so much work involved with raising other people. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:18pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
MorningStar233:For Pete's sake, pregnancy has happened at least 1000, 000,000 times in your lifetime alone- assuming you are at least 20 years of age. And in the same lifetime, we have been forced to shed all the ridiculous conditions previously attached to it, realizing that anyone with a womb can pretty much have them, babies, so Ling as they chose to bear the burden. ![]() There is absolutely nothing special about the experience except the choice you made to go through it. ![]() |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by pikechukwu6(m): 7:23pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
It's Simply means, giving birth to the poster is completely wasted sperm ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:24pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Maxwell4404:From the same God who created some Eunuchs, made some to become Eunuchs in life and allowed some become Eunuchs for His sake - Matthew 19 vs 1 - 15? ![]() Learn to leave God and His name out of the foolishness that is man and his ego. ![]() |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by gnhpowerhouse: 7:26pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:26pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
dfrost:You need children to keep the ecosystem that is 75% poverty rate with over 10,000,000 abandoned children on the streets of Nigeria going? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Vyolet(f): 7:27pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Sleeknigga:...for the gender that can birth kids until 100years, that can get several women pregnant at the same time, tell me who needs sterility more. Chochochocho will be your end trust me. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by luvyaself95(m): 7:28pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
greenie77:that part shocked aje ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:29pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Spartachico007:10,000,000 of those wonderful gifts are abandoned and roaming the streets of Nigeria every day with no home in sight, so na God get hand for all that? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:32pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Arisenews2:So rather than a legacy to showcase your intelligence and contribution to advancement of humanity, what you leave behind is evidence that you copulation, something even animals do, while you were alive on this earth? ![]() |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Maxwell4404(m): 7:33pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
This has nothing to do with religion, it's the Fact we learn and study to know more, on Nairaland and anywhere else, My friend if you can't learn there are people who are willing to learn Kobojunkiee: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:33pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
paddyDIGITAL:Children are no achievements. If those same children were to die before you or end up spending life in jail, will you also claim them as your achievements? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:35pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Newyorkitis:So, those who skip #2 entirely, and still enjoy marriage are what? Unmarried? ![]() 2 Likes |
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