Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married.

Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a runs girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today, then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce.

Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food.

If your people are asking when are you getting married? Tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own.

Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem.

Marry when you want marry, do not let anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.

U like marriage this OP..what is the reason for marriage for u sef?

Abi1985:
Na marry you marry, don't come and be disturbing those who are not married. Just because you marry today does not mean you are better than those who are not married. Please do not let your friend wedding oppress you, some married people are suffering and smiling. They will not tell you that the wife they marry na Jezebel associate or a run girl or the husband they marry is a womanizer or an abusive man. They will do one big wedding today , then 9 months or 3 years later they divorce. Personally I enjoy weddings because I can eat some correct food,
If your people are asking when are you getting married- tell them when you do not want marry a Jezebel or a wicked or selfish man. Because after the wedding, you are on your own. Na so they arrange one woman from village for me to marry, I just dey laugh and ignore. I enjoyed my bachelorhood, please let me enjoy my life. I do not want problem. Marry when you want marry, do not anyone pressure you to marry or who you will marry.

How old are u

It is an achievement only to women cos they are always at the receiving end that's why they are the ones pushing nd desperate for it.

Slmgirldippussy:




How old are u

Old enough to be married

BirtherOfKings:
U like marriage this OP..what is the reason for marriage for u sef?

To born pikin and to stay faithful and loyal to Madam

Wait make you reach 50 , every rope you see will look like a suicide instrument, you don't know what loneliness does to the human mind, try and live in iceland or Denmark for 5 years alone

godofuck231:
Wait make you reach 50 , every rope you see will look like a suicide instrument, you don't know what loneliness does to the human mind, try and live in iceland or Denmark for 5 years alone

Some married people commit suicide and even more lonely than single people. Even the bible talk say in Proverbs 21:9 Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife. I am not against marriage, just don't marry Mr Wicked or Mrs Jezebel. If you are married, stay humble
Example https://www.nairaland.com/7435800/ibrahim-yunusa-bature-detains-starves

Abi1985:

Some married people commit suicide and even more lonely than single people. Even the bible talk say in Proverbs 21:9 Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife. I am not against marriage, just don't marry Mr Wicked or Mrs Jezebel. If you are married, stay humble
Example https://www.nairaland.com/7435800/ibrahim-yunusa-bature-detains-starves

when you have love even your child looking into your eyes daily ,telling you "i love you" that alone will deter you from suicide

Marriage only favors the women reason why they don’t like rivals, immediately you marry the second wife like this you will see productivity in both of them.


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My people, every milestone is an achievement biko. Celebrate it.

No It’s not love is what matters and not marriage. Two people can marry without an ounce of love between them. Many people do it mostly for selfish reasons these days.

If anyone uses marriage to boast as an achievement in front of you just tell them to travel small and head north. There they will see girls of 15 years old getting married left-right and center to people they do not even know. 80 year old men with over 10 lawfully wedded wives living from hand to mouth and still eyeing one small girl to add to his harem.

Or what about the south where you’d experience a high rate of divorce and wanton infidelity. Small girls birthing bastards and still waiting for one man to come from nowhere to put a ring on it men leaving their wives alone at home and sleeping in brothels.

Who push this trash to fp, we have better things to worry about, person wey no use his head them go use am for him.

Abeg next jhare

Owo ni koko !!!

Why won't i!

Ok

For Naija......na big achievement.

But, I had go question the insanity it bestows when I observed my jovial free-spirit brother suddenly within a few years has now gone very quiet, looks sad and unhappy.
He is always working and never resting,then he made a big mistake of telling his wife not to work......now all she does is sit down and eat food and now growing out of proportion after just two kids.
I have seen friends all of a sudden become withdrawn and timid just after marriage,people I know where very active.

In conclusion: I have come to the realization that marriage does not guarantee happiness or show that you are responsible,that is a societal judgemental construct that has got me thinking...... if I really need to get married or just have a kid or two instead without attachments?
Because I enjoy been by myself.

Marriage is beautiful when you marry the right partner.
I have been married for 16 years and still counting and I can attribute 85% of my successes to my supporting wife. No marriage is perfect but couple must be able to settle their differences with or without the help of external party

Marital prison

It's just by choice.
No one can pressure me into getting married.

I once watched the video of a man at the mall who went to get pampers for his lil child, on seeing the price tag at the sales shelf, the matured man burst into tears.
That was when it dawned on me that marriage na for men nor be for boys.

Forget the paparazzi of photoshoot and glamorous wedding o.
After wedding na marriage.
Respect to every married men and women out there, you guys are doing great.

Modified: if it were to be in the 70s 80s and early 90s I'd risked it, but you see these modern days, anything marriage dey fail my liver and kidney join self.

It’s an Achievement to Nigerian girls

Absolutely.
So is staying single.

For women it is......if not explain why most of their whatsapp status is about wedding or marriage

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This what I keep telling people just as no be everybody go make am na so no be everybody go marry some go force am nd end up where dem no know.....

Some people av even turn everything to competition....


The only thing that's certain on this earth is death...

For naija it's a great progress it you marry the right one

It's some people's dream come true but not a big deal to mostly real men.