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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ultimateprof: 7:36pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Its not an achievement to have children, but its an achievement to have animals. Anumpama! You think you are doing me? You're doing yourself! |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:37pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Maxwell4404:There is simply no fact to what you stated since even religion which you tried to delude with in your comment does not agree with your claim. What you have is the opinion of society that is ruled over by the foolishness not its majority, and nothing more. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:40pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Suspect33:Why can't people even think of these commonsense things? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:46pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ninisun:So, only if you bow as a slave to your parents are you an achievement, if you don't, you are not, this because the decision is your parent's to make? Interesting? So, the over 10,000,000 children abandoned and homeless on the streets of Nigeria every day are not achievements by your measure? Since they are abandoned and no one pretty much cares for them, we take it that means they did not meet the achievement cut-off for Nigerian parents? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:48pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Gmajor:Thank you oo! :-For many, even those with children, in happens in there very same lifetime. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:50pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ofolete:Na only hausa men get all the over 10,000,000 abandoned children wey dey Nigeria? What about you or are you engaged in some sort of competition with the hausa man, is that how you justify your own contribution to the problem that is Nigeria today? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:53pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
profndu:Stop being silly! The same God who created Adam, created some Eunuchs from birth, allowed some to become Eunuchs in this life and let some chose to become Eunuchs for His sake - Matthew 19 vs 1 - 15, making your claim that the only task God gave Adam was that he breed like rats and fill the earth with his kind a lie. Keep God's name out of your foolishness abeg! 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:54pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
LARRYOBRAIN:Blessings? We have over 10,000,000 of those so-called Blessings roaming the streets of Nigeria every given day with no home in sight. Are you somehow trying to implicate Nigeria in the mess that is the foolishness of Nigerians? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by BBBmall25: 7:56pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Foodqueen:Oh my queen! ur comment is dope. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:57pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Adakintroy:Why is the worth of you as an individual and a independent soup dependent on the opinion or your father or anyone else for that matter? Why are you unable to clearly reason these things out even at this age for Pete's sake? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 7:59pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
andy4d2ofus:Even roaches breed but they don't delude themselves that it is so they can be taken care of in their old age. Even with all the breeding,how better taken care of are Nigerians in their old age compared to those with plans? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Adakintroy: 7:59pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: I reasoned it out clearly and independently. But that's what I came up with. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:01pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Adakintroy:a person with ability to clearly reasons things first understands that that worth of one life is not dependent on another, or even the mere opinion of another. . |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Dindondin(m): 8:01pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:If you wanna debate about population control, that's a different thing. If you wanna talk about how religion, polygamy & plenty children bearing culture has swelled Nigeria's population, that's a different debate. On the north for example, you don't even see father's that ask for assistance to take care of their kids like those that just give birth to them via almajiri system. Will you cease their pen nis? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:04pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Dindondin:This is a question of population control but of whether the having having a child's life is to measured in terms of worth or not. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by anthropizzy(m): 8:10pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
JovialJune: God bless you for this. You are a wise lady. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Alamkir: 8:11pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Question ........ wey no get answer... |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Adakintroy: 8:11pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: Yeah right..like you socialize yourself by yourself. All you knew you thought yourself. Your parents orientation or society is not locked somewhere in you. How do you even know what your typing is your opinion?. Not something you picked up somewhere long forgotten? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by tradepunter: 8:12pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
To ladies a child is the only person that gives them undiluted love and the purest love.... Something a man won't really understand... Therefore every woman would want to experience this in their life time... Terming it an achievement is just stupidity in my opinion. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by franklingud(m): 8:17pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Children are a big achievement and huge success.. Money is not everything my bro |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by OgunkeelAllMod: 8:17pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:;DSpot on man! Been following your argument. Dead on point right there. People are so goddamned naive and ignorant! You can't feed yourself well, you wanna embark on a bringing kids that you'll probably feed even less well all in in the name of having.. I was a witness to one incidence like that in a friend house recently. A so called family man. Don't let me even go into detail, I was sad.. I had to part with something for the friend kids on my own Chai! This guy is rake thin and still siring kid Haba kilode gan gan Ehn! Na by force? 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by endowa(f): 8:22pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
No matter how you look at it. Having kids is achievement. If as a single person you have been hustling to make money and you haven't been able to make it to your satisfaction. It's better you get married and have children so that you don't fail at two things in life 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Hathor5(f): 8:24pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Lightway: Nausea Fatigue Difficulties sleeping with a huge belly Carrying the weight Back pains Shortness of breath The pain of delivery The post partum injuries and bleeding And much more 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Maxwell4404(m): 8:24pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Oga sir you have a problem a very big one at that Kobojunkiee: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by wizseller: 8:27pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
I tire oh.. hahaha OssyMalik: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 8:27pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Don't mind him, what if u are unable to get that money you looking for and end up dying with out a child, in the course of making the money u will need somebody else child input to succeed. Trumptech: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:29pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Adakintroy:So, a child who grows with no parents and has had to fend for self from a very young age, running around on the streets with other children, was socialized and taught by what parents? What orientation is locked into such a being when the society you speak of is the same one that cast this child into the wild of streets, deeming his existence of no real worth from a tender age? Abeg, make you dey use your head big time! Even I don't hold to values and ideas of my parents let alone that of society. Only an imbe-cile would chose to hold on to and repeat the mistakes of his parents and generations before just because... that is no way to live this life abeg! |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by seyz91(m): 8:32pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Nice thread and i love and so much admire your perspective and mentality, same as me too, i have always had and still have same mentality You a wise and smart person Supreme145: 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:32pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Hathor5:Ok, these are known and expected side-effects of pregnancy... and there have been over 1000,000,000 pregnancies recorded in your lifetime alone to prove these things. So why is it an achievement when you willingly submit yourself so you can fulfill your selfish desire again? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:33pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Maxwell4404:Again, There is simply no fact to what you stated since even religion which you tried to delude with in your comment does not agree with your claim. What you have is the opinion of society that is ruled over by the foolishness not its majority, and nothing more |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by seyz91(m): 8:33pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:35pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ayubaski:What is so wrong with dying without a child? Will having a child somehow save one from the decay of death or something? 1 Like |
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