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Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by seyz91(m): 8:36pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
You said it all I love this Klass99: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kaybae(f): 8:37pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ogawisdom:hummmm, real talk, I have two bestie, back then in 2012 that I wanted to get married, they were like " what have you achieved" that they weren't ready for any marriage then until they achieve their aims, to cut the long story short, they both got married late 2019 and gave birth respectively last year when I'm having 3 wonderful children and to be candid we are still on the same level because there is no any achievement whatsoever, even though there were responsible guys for both of them then. Life sometimes is unpredictable, being single doesn't determine richness and being married also doesn't determine one will be poor. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Hathor5(f): 8:37pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: I never said it was an achievement. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by seyz91(m): 8:37pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
I love this JovialJune: 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Vinnie2000(m): 8:38pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
OP Supreme145 I understand your Frustrations and Where you are coming from But It is Definitely an Achievement! Infact a Big one!.. Children are the Greatest Gift God can Give to a Man or Woman! |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:38pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
tradepunter:Abeg, speak wetin you know o'jare! So the 1000s of ladies who abandon their children on the streets, gutters, and dustbin of Nigeria each year , na undiluted love and purest love dem discard so? 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:39pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
It's not an achievement. It's like mocking those who don't who don't yet have children. There are no barren in the Land. Some people have children and sell them or even abandon them. Can we say those people have achieved something. How well you train your children and not having them is an achievement. This thread is designed to hurt some people |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by juman(m): 8:40pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Any goal set forward and realized is an achievement. Hence children are achievement for those set them as goal. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: Will argue with you later. Gd nyt |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Adakintroy: 8:41pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: "Only an slowpoke will hold the values of their parents" you say? Am correct?.. I say Be carefull son..you not that intelligent. Your position is arrogance not knowledge. Be carefull with it. You on the edge already. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ncdegreat: 8:41pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Different strokes for different folks. This post is almost the same thing as asking the right time for a man to marry?. What works for Obi may not work for Ada. Stick to what works for you. Our philosophy in life determines our view about Marriage and Child bearing. I wish I know the age of the poster, if the poster is his late thirties and has hustled for the last fifteen years without achieving 5 bedroom flat, car or fat account balance he's opinion about Early marriage wouldn't be the same. Issues like this shouldn't be generalilse. Having children u can't take good care of is bad but however having children irrespective of financial status is still an achievement. Stick to what works for you. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:42pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:You folks should learn to leave God out of your delusions abeg! The same God created some Eunuchs from birth, made some Eunuchs in this life and allowed others to become Eunuchs for His sake - Matthew 19 vs 3 - 15. God never said children are His greatest gift, He would not have put a curse on mankind if they were. So please stop dragging God's name into the muck that is the Nigerian situation and living abeg! 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:44pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Adakintroy:Indeed, only a certified fool would hold on to values of parents without question. You should be more careful not to live your life a fool, Repeating the mistakes of your parents and their parents before them, simply because they are your parents. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by tradepunter: 8:44pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Go through again what I wrote and read what you wrote.. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:46pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Hathor5:Thank Goodness! 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 8:47pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
If u can have children, do so, but moderately, do say na until u gather all the money in money in the whole world, you might end up with regrets Kobojunkiee: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 8:49pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ayubaski:75% of Nigerians who live in poverty are still having kids....how can they moderately have children? 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by olaitonto(m): 8:51pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
If making money is an achievement, same thing to having a child. Yoruba will say! Omo lere aiye! A child is the only being a man can leave behind after his death. And the child will bear the name. Not money not friends. Nobody owns money! But somebody own a child. Anything that you own, you achieved it. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 8:52pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
For me My little boy is my achievement, looking forward to have more in future 2 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Vinnie2000(m): 8:52pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: This KoboJunkie though! Let's drop Sentiments and Arguments! Having a Child is a Big Achievement! Remember Men who re Sterile, women who are Barren or have Still births! 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Exceed15: 8:53pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
What makes an achievement is when you take adequate responsibility over them. 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by dfrost: 8:55pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: Let's stop producing. Are the children on the streets the cause of poverty or a few that stole the common wealth? 10,000,000 kids on the streets are not the cause of poverty please sis. |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Vinnie2000(m): 8:55pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
olaitonto: Nice one.. I Clearly understand the OP's point of view! Many Young Guys rushing into Marriage and suffering in the Union! But. Once a Child comes in, It is a Blessing from God and Definitely an Achievement for the Husband and Wife! 1 Like |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 8:56pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
What im saying is at least have one Kobojunkiee: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by olaitonto(m): 8:56pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
You gerrit? We went to school for the certificate and we got it! That's an achievement because it has become your own. A childless couple already knows that their certificate of marriage is a child. Not their jobs or wealth. Wealth can go to anybody's because it has no identity. After a man die. If he had a child, the child will take the identity for the wealth. You gerrit? Uhhh i know you gerrit Vinnie2000: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Hkff: 9:00pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
No |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ayubaski: 9:04pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Na the western culture wey una they copy bring una to this level ofuonyebi: |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Spartachico007(m): 9:09pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: Like I said they are wonderful gift from God and it now depends on how you treat or use the gift.... just imagine you gave some one N1m and he/she squandered it without having anything to show for it and now would you blame yourself for giving such person a gift |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by dazzlingd(m): 9:26pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Poverty is in some peoples genes, they love it, it gladness their hearts to be impoverished and struggle. And pass the legacy to their children to continue and populate the whole of africa with malnourished, unintelligent low IQ children. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
ayubaski:Why? |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by dazzlingd(m): 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Spartachico007: May God give u enough gifts.... U never wise...children are no gift,it should be something u plan for according to your resources so you wont populate menaces for the society. However, a child could be a blessing to his/her family |
Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by Kobojunkiee: 9:29pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
dazzlingd: |
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