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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by LaExpert: 10:33pm On Dec 19, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Resign from the position
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Godbless3(m): 10:33pm On Dec 19, 2021
U try, guys dey collect 3points up and down and you're here busy for love. OLODO
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by SimeonOTC(m): 10:37pm On Dec 19, 2021
masterfactor:

Go and listen to this track (black bonez ft bella shurmurda-okwaraji), The advice you are looking for is in that track.

Thanks for the comment..I was having the same issue with the o.p..the music really make sense to me.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by newoffer: 11:15pm On Dec 19, 2021
Control yourself for your good. D babe every people bbg
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by rafcrown(m): 11:34pm On Dec 19, 2021
PREPARE YOUR CV VERY WELL.FOR JOB SEARCH.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Testimony1988(m): 11:54pm On Dec 19, 2021
Since your work place is a devil's kingdom, then resign from the work.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 12:13am On Dec 20, 2021
You will soon lose your job because of pussy... Mumu man.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by linearity: 2:07am On Dec 20, 2021
It looks like they are passing her around in the office….patiently wait for your turn, but banish every thought of getting serious with her….she is the office girl.

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by ultimateprof: 3:04am On Dec 20, 2021
SmellySperm:

Good one cheesy
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by masterfactor(m): 4:59am On Dec 20, 2021
SimeonOTC:


Thanks for the comment..I was having the same issue with the o.p..the music really make sense to me.
No mind the OP, instead of him to listen to Red pill song, na Simp music him type dey here.@OP just be patient your turn go soon reach.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Panda7(m): 7:02am On Dec 20, 2021
oga you are just ho.rny. find a partner
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by HRMK: 7:18am On Dec 20, 2021
YOU ARE SIMPLY NOT SERIOUS!A LADY UNDER YOU BUT HAS HAD 2 DFFT DATES IN YOUR OFFICE!TOO BAD!!
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Ishilove: 7:38am On Dec 20, 2021
It's like your job is not engaging enough. If it was you won't have time for this radarada

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by ifinger: 7:42am On Dec 20, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls


If the lady in question is into you too then invite her to a neutral area and bang her wella after that just keep a low profile she wud let u be
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 7:48am On Dec 20, 2021
Good morning.. Please i'm still pleading for u guys assistance for the fees. Please kindly help me out. I'll drop details of my school portal if u need it. Please.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by 2kurupt(m): 7:49am On Dec 20, 2021
Don't eat where you shet, when women yakpa outside angry

Better focus on your work
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by frozen70(f): 8:00am On Dec 20, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

Your ability to control yourself makes you a man and keeps you away from troubles

Same way if you can control your body, your third leg will never move

Sleeping with her even if it's just once, will help calm down your nerves but that just once could be a set up

So discipline yourself

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by biggie73(m): 8:14am On Dec 20, 2021
BABANGBALI:
did you chop her before calling it quit with her or na she chop you?
...definitely, I won.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Chessg(m): 8:14am On Dec 20, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls


You be mumu
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by alphaconde(m): 8:17am On Dec 20, 2021
those of u who date your co workers are greedy people.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Goddessofthesea: 8:37am On Dec 20, 2021
It isn't right to date your colleague....e dey cause see finish
Focus on your work my dear
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Superboss: 9:17am On Dec 20, 2021
Office de sweet because some things Una fit phuck for office, but hmmmmmm.... It is very risky especially if u are not overall boss.
If ur name no good for scandal and gossip, better quench that ur desire to shalaye.

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Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Matthew2925(m): 10:54am On Dec 20, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
Op,e be like say the work don tire you cheesy

This na one thing wey I dey always dey try avoid....Like not doing anything like relationship for where I take dey hustle.. Because it's either the see-finish go too much or you go lose the small respect wey you dey get cheesy.

Op, like seriously,free that banny cheesy. Make una friendship be only based on business-minded from henceforth,to avoid set up wey go lead to sacking and doing short-time lodging for police station undecided
Bro. Your Brain na 5g connection e get infact e fit work with 6G wave.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Nipplegodfather: 11:11am On Dec 20, 2021
Mr man,pls use a gun n kill that thing u calling UNCONTROLLABLE feeling(s).
Pls stop been a SIMple guy.face ur work n leave that lady alone.from ur narration, she has already been with two guys plus technically u
Office romance never ENDS well,least of all wen u working in DEVILS KINGDOM
...A WORD IS ......
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by goodheart01: 12:11pm On Dec 20, 2021
ahmedaturboy:
There is this girl at my work place i always liked and vice versa. The feeling grew to the extent that my line manager called me to ask what's in-between us both. But since I was yet to ask her out i said nothing...along the line she started given me attitude and i just immediately distant my self from her guessing someone else has come in between us.

The dating didn'tast and she came back trying to mend things. But i rejected her cos i was pained with what happened. She latter won my heart but whenever i request for hangout she do always give one excuses or the order..lately, she started having an affair with another guy in my work place..I've tried avoiding her but since she's under me she needs to report to me every evening....

The problem here is i can't control my feelings for her anymore and given the environment where i work am scared of being set up cos my work place is a devil's kingdom...

Advice on what to do pls

My God,.. who dey born these kain mumu men for God sake?? Woman dump u first time go follow another man, still come back give u green light abi na nyash light and u accept her, only for her to leave u again and start dating someone else. When she was giving u excuses for dates couldn't u read between the lines that u were nothing but a Brazilian cockroach in her cupboard?? Mugu!!

Abeg mods stop pushing such foolish topics to front page
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Snowystar: 1:17pm On Dec 20, 2021
If your work place is the devil's kingdom



Then talk to the devil
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Yohans(m): 1:46pm On Dec 20, 2021
okoroemeka:
not only is he madly in love he also said he cannot control his feelings anymore which the lady in question is exploiting to her advantage, before you say you love someone,it is advisable to fvck that person at least 5 times then you can decide if she is someone you can love, moreover love in a workplace is not the best of ideas
I tire for the guy matter sef.
Re: Help, I Am Madly In Love by Exceed15: 2:22pm On Dec 20, 2021
Leave the girl and control ur emotions to avoid embarrassment.

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