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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Nobody: 10:59pm On Dec 21, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

Tell them you don't know how to speak to girls

Let's see what will happen

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Icepresh(m): 11:06pm On Dec 21, 2021

Mine too. I didn’t even think anybody else had this same problem as me

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Goalnaldo(m): 11:11pm On Dec 21, 2021

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Funny enough talking to a woman is the most easiest thing ...

Do it as if you are having fun....don't be nervous...
Just be confident....even if you don't have much to say to her...confident and boldness drives them crazy...a woman can wet her pant for you if she notice that your are not scared and very bold

With confidence you can start any conversation with them....
You can even start by saying baby girl what is the name of this hairstyle .....I would love to recommend it for someone because you look beautiful on it...
She will definitely answer you by telling you twisting, braiding, bla....blah....

After that you can ask her and say.....I know Rihanna hairstyle but I don't know crotchet.....I bet my balls she will be happy to enlighten you on crotchet
Then the conversation continues

lol I will use this format grin

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Pumpumking: 11:19pm On Dec 21, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Pumpumking: 11:21pm On Dec 21, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

wow.....ok so u sayin u a 20year old virrgin plannin to disvirgiin yor sef on nairaland....correct?....bro dont woooory..i will talk to some chicks from romance ,litatures & food section!! (((THANK ME LATER))) cheesy

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by theamazonguru(m): 11:31pm On Dec 21, 2021

WiszyFraud:
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare

This is so true. I could remember that year, I was feeling just like this op, na so I say make I flex my toasting muscle. I no know say na hungry lion hand I enter. The babe na bad market. I took her to an eatery, she and her baby sister she came with. I close eye shoot my shot, she gladly said NO. Yet she ate my food, still placed order for 2 take away. Chooooooiiiiii I no fit cry. Money wey be say na mumsy cash I kolobi from inside her shop go run the girl level thinking it wee be positive. Las las I drank the garri for 1 week sha.

Op, just free your mind, be natural and take it slowly. Things will fall in place. Trust me on this.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Goalnaldo(m): 11:41pm On Dec 21, 2021

GrandMasters:
Stop masturbation

Don't ask me how I knew you are pro in that act

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by The5DME(m): 11:49pm On Dec 21, 2021

pansophist:
How many business you don open? Just because you need 3k, you come de lie like this.

bros, all na hustle na

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Ekugbeh(m): 11:51pm On Dec 21, 2021

AngelicDamsel:
Be yourself!

Be original!

Take more risks in your life!

Hy damsel,

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Sureboyy(m): 11:53pm On Dec 21, 2021

I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

Had these issues before, I just had to confront myself and be free with girls. It just starts with talking to a girl, then 2 girls. before you know it you will be good to go

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help[/quote]Yeah social life matters too

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Brownie333(m): 12:06am On Dec 22, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

I can’t believe vsome guys still battle with this nonsense in 21st century when relating with girls this days is as easy as ABC. Nah inferiority complex Dey affect you no be all this one Wey you list down. If you’re not shy you can speak or have conversations with anybody irrespective of their gender ��‍♂️

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Buzzer99: 12:11am On Dec 22, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

OG..

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by princewarri1985: 12:21am On Dec 22, 2021

Afro910:
how did you become bold

I swear i don't know how it happened it just happened just like magic and i dont know how to explain it, I JUST DISCOVERED I GOT TO A CERTAIN PHASE IN LIFE AND I DISCOVERED I'M NO LONGER SHY WHEN EVER AM IN THE MIDST OF WOMEN OR WHEN AM TRYING TO WOO ANY WOMAN, LIKE I SAID EARLIAR ITS A PHASE AND YOU'RE GOING TO GET THERE, you also need to try and work on yourself to improve on yourself everyday, lastly let me tell you something about women, (GUY CODE) WE GUYS ARE ATTRACTED TO WHAT WE SEE, BUT WOMEN ARE SIMPLY ATTRACTED TO WHAT THEY HEAR, AND YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO USE THAT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE, AND WOMEN LIKE GUYS WHO ARE CONFIDENT AND BOLD, THATS WHY YOU ALWAYS NEED TO MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT WITH THEM WHILE TALKING TO THEM, trust me it might be 4, 3, 6, or 7 years from now you are going to wake up and find out you are not shy around women anymore the same way it happened to me too, that's all i can say. I wish you the best in life

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Noshitboi(m): 12:32am On Dec 22, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

Comrade why nah, you just make me delete Funke number wey i don use two semester dey find undecided

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Panda7(m): 2:12am On Dec 22, 2021

ask your mum to help you toast one.
zazu tongue

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Munzy14(m): 5:32am On Dec 22, 2021

fourboys:
Early twenties and na toasting a girl be ur problem??

This is the ripe time for it...Even biology clock agreed to nature on this.

Is he going to learn how to woo a lady in his 40s? undecided

As a man I know when I started...And I have observed my male siblings, friends and colleagues it is same story...From early 20s.

So lets face it as a normal.

And it won't stop you from achieving what you are destined for.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Munzy14(m): 5:38am On Dec 22, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

I am laughing because With time, I know you will do pass them.

Especially now you are putting your mind on it.

Make yourself approachable, you will be shocked some of the ladies around you are crushing on you.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by optimusprime2(m): 6:59am On Dec 22, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

I was worse than you... until I realised that talking to a lady is the easiest thing to do, because mostly, they are naturally wired to talk.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by nesgeeek(m): 6:59am On Dec 22, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

Absolutely true, after spending much some of them will tell that is too early for them to spread their legs. honestly I don't really see any benefit attached to these female gender. they have become a liability to we male.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Nobody: 7:16am On Dec 22, 2021

1. You stopped her on the road or even on facebook... She is giving you attitude
2. You asked for her number, she says I don't give my number to strangers
3. Perhaps finally she decided to give you her number,, you'll still be the one to call with your airtime and she'll still be stressing you on top.
5. If una go outing, Na u go still pay,,,, all the bills is on you.
4. She starts Billing you like you're her father, while she brings absolutely nothing to the relationship

In fact the only thing she brings to the table is nothing but her pussy, Which of course she also shares to other guys.

Why trying to suffer yourself when you can easily get any pussy at your own convenient? My brother don't bother wasting your time toasting these girls,, the only you owe them is to bang them and move on.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Pharaohny: 8:00am On Dec 22, 2021

Kimiso:
these os because you are gay

Gaybriel

Just offering elderly advice

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by KayCee92(m): 8:05am On Dec 22, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

Lol, what of the CD burst mid action. U still end up In that same bad place grin

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Exceed15: 8:06am On Dec 22, 2021

How do u relate with your male friends? Apply same . They are not special specie.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Bamzyriches451: 8:26am On Dec 22, 2021

Slawomiir said everything you need to know, checkout his comment

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Nobody: 8:38am On Dec 22, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

People often say make money cos the confidence you'll get when you have money is out of this world

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Nobody: 8:49am On Dec 22, 2021

cliqtips:
You think it's not about your life (you making money is the real deal. Don't be deceived.

Even if you don't know how to woo, they will woo you or flock around you.

They'll want to associate with you.

You're still young, just focus on things that'll improve your life for now.

Trust me, girls might be distractions to you for now.

Okay, ask yourself and be sincere with yourself; why do you need girl friend now ?

You're wise, no cap!

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Damian10(m): 9:29am On Dec 22, 2021

It seems you still don't have a source of confident you tap from. What is your talent, what are you good at, take pride in it and have your aura.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Nobody: 9:36am On Dec 22, 2021

AlphaMale666:
See mumu small boy. No go find money enjoy your life you dey talk about woman. This one na idiot o!

your mama Na idiot

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by whippersnapper(m): 10:07am On Dec 22, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

how do i like this a million times

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