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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by ebhohon: 8:28am On Dec 23, 2021
it is because the men no longer trust young women of today with what they have done with their reproductive organ. it is weird to hear that young girls sell their eggs to buy iPhone. the things you hear today is strange, so dont blame them they are being careful to avert tomorrow pain.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Benwallt(m): 8:29am On Dec 23, 2021
To know those that are still productive and hasn't be evacuated womb wise. I cannot come and be doing vigil over item I signed for to work. Ladies live well.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Osobi32(m): 8:29am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.
That's because ladies of this generation are crazy, they do all sort of nonsense and series of abortion before the age of 25. Most of them have already damaged their womb and the young men know this! So they now prefer to be sure that the woman can have children before going into marriage with them. It will also interest u to know that kids of this generation don't love, they only go into with personal interest.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by colestephan86: 8:30am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.
Most guys want to be sure she hasn't destroyed her womb from taking over a thousand pills of postinor and the likes.
You know ladies are deceptive
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by girlygirlyMain: 8:30am On Dec 23, 2021
They are afraid she might not take in early and their sole purpose of getting into the marriage is for children.

These men are reverting to the "old ways"
They believe in the power of their "manhood" instead of God to give them children.

This action has led to MANY men raising children that are not their own because, who told him he is fertile in the first place
You know that proper DNA cannot be conducted until after 6 months after the child is born
So in addition to the fornication and loosing of Graces through it, you might just be playing yourself!!!
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by OgunkeelAllMod: 8:33am On Dec 23, 2021
donleo92:
the same reason why ladies ask men for money who there are not married to. There are testing the waters
na money dem go take know whether the man go commit undecided Not very bright �
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nadaken: 8:41am On Dec 23, 2021
drimzsmoke:


Who are the men
As long as she's menstruating regularly,there's nothing that needs testing!!!
lol, menstruation when Dem dey fake too

If she carry blood rub pant and pad shebi you nor go believe
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by seyz91(m): 8:45am On Dec 23, 2021
Confirm!
MrBrownJay1:
during "your" days you equally didnt use mobile phones and/or the internet etc.... all of these changes is called EVOLUTION
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by udukakalu78(m): 8:46am On Dec 23, 2021
Funny shaa
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by seyz91(m): 8:47am On Dec 23, 2021
Duriny your days no such thing as Social media/internet thus reduce promiscuity and body count and hence viability and fertility of most women which then no need of Testdriving/pregnancy first grin

I hope you feel me now
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Sikariyelwa: 8:50am On Dec 23, 2021
It's mostly rampant amongst the christian folks.because in christianity obeying their Bible is optional and so they live their life the way they want it.Christions these days copy western life as against the creed in their Bible.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by CSTRR: 8:53am On Dec 23, 2021
Onyiiobi7735:

Bro,the actual meaning of fornication is sleeping around with different people without serious commitment to them. Two lovers having sex is not fornication, but our pastors have so overblown the issue.
If you doubt me,study 1 Corinthians 6,Leviticus 16,18,Matthew 5:27,and you will understand.
So if I say I am no longer interested in marrying her and I want someone else, what then happened to all that sex?

Is it still not fornication?

Beware of preaching wrong doctrine that can lead God's people astray.

Don't invite God's wrath on your head.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by bigjackass: 8:53am On Dec 23, 2021
Giltexo:


Just like your name implies ...you must be the biggest jackass...your name is affecting you.
Your brain is too small. abeg fuvk out of my mentions
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Toks2008(m): 8:54am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.

Without trying to sound too modest I will say it is simply because of the way many ladies have used their wombs as single ladies.

5 out of 10 sexually active ladies in their late 20s have had at least one abortion and that single act could affect their womb but most of them usually realize after years of trying to concieve but the sad part is that the innocent husband bears the burden of her recklessness...

I'm not supporting sex outside marriage but this is just the situation of things.

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Dshocker(m): 8:54am On Dec 23, 2021
Beebah2000:
This generation is something else.
Crazy things are happening!
Crazy things are happening!! tongue

Am telling you,so get ready;your guy will impregnate you very soon
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by CAPTIVATOR: 8:58am On Dec 23, 2021
HopeVictor:
Before buying a car don't you start the engine first and test drive it?

This comment assume infertility is only a problem with women. When pregnancy no gree show and she test another man just to get the wedding ring. Na so una dey get another man pikin as firstborn.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by CAPTIVATOR: 8:59am On Dec 23, 2021
Toks2008:


Without trying to sound too modest I will say it is simply because of the way many ladies have used their wombs as single ladies.

5 out of 10 sexually active ladies in their late 20s have had at least one abortion and that single act could affect their womb but most of them usually realize after years of trying to concieve but the sad part is that the innocent husband bears the burden of her recklessness...

I'm not supporting sex outside marriage but this is just the situation of things.

Insisting on pregnancy is not also the best, Sometimes the problem is with the men. It only lead to DNA issues. Cos the moment she does it with another man and pregnancy shows, anything to get the ring
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Occurstaem(m): 9:01am On Dec 23, 2021
Nadaken:
why will a man go for a single mom when he can have a fertile lady

You don ask wetin make the single mom single?
A single moms have demonstrated their fertility already. What of widows who have given birth?
I think fertility test can be done in hospitals.

What can possibly make a lady a single mom?
Divorce, birth out of wedlock, death of spouse
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Dreamchaser2424(m): 9:01am On Dec 23, 2021
Most ladies out Dia no get womb again so we gas check first before marrying them.......
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by BigDick70inch(m): 9:04am On Dec 23, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
I won't get pregnant before marriage for any man. If he insists, I boot him out. You'd have to tell me if it's a baby you want or me. Nonsense.

Then i’d gladly pick baby over u.......abi what else wud u offer in marriage dan birthing a child.....there r too many ladies around for companionship......

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by frankson1(m): 9:05am On Dec 23, 2021
Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.




Oga, the same reason women wants to know the size and stamina before getting married grin grin
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nadaken: 9:05am On Dec 23, 2021
BigDick70inch:


Then i’d gladly pick baby over u.......abi what else wud u offer in marriage dan birthing a child.....there r too many ladies around for companionship......
she can continue to offer a tasteless sex from oversized punnany

After all that's all they claim to offer

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by SURElee(f): 9:06am On Dec 23, 2021
Don't mind them.
Because some men insist on pregnancy before marriage, that is why some ladies dash them pregnancies that aren't theirs. Them think them wise. Them go continue to to suffer emotional trauma , raising babies that aren't their own.


Sebi na belle dem dey after, Dem to hear am for dubious ladies hand. Cunning man die, cunning man bury am

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:07am On Dec 23, 2021
Getat and stop twisting the bible to ur own benefit,..flee fornication d bible...its ur life anyway,wa ba eru re nibode
Onyiiobi7735:

Bro,the actual meaning of fornication is sleeping around with different people without serious commitment to them. Two lovers having sex is not fornication, but our pastors have so overblown the issue.
If you doubt me,study 1 Corinthians 6,Leviticus 16,18,Matthew 5:27,and you will understand.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by khiaa(f): 9:08am On Dec 23, 2021
Yet you Nigerians condemn Black Americans for this behavior and you're no different. Boy the hypocrisy!!! undecided
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nadaken: 9:11am On Dec 23, 2021
Sikariyelwa:
It's mostly rampant amongst the christian folks.because in christianity obeying their Bible is optional and so they live their life the way they want it.Christions these days copy western life as against the creed in their Bible.
I don't see why you bringing religion into someone that wants to marry someone but needs to have a child first

There is mutah in Islam you can have a temporary marriage aka prostitution for a few days to hours and have a conception (child) from it but can abadon the woman so long the hour paid has expired

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Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by depure(m): 9:13am On Dec 23, 2021
Godbless3:


One day, you will come here to cry that your wife can't concieve becaure ur mother/father have lock her womb with juju not knowing its because of excesive abortion and taking pills after raw sex to kill the semen from men.
Oga make I hear word, it's only unserious man will think of such (test and see of a thing). What is assurance that you that is talking STD NEVER REAP THE LIFE IN YOU....MUST ALL BLAME COME FROM THE WOMAN.
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:15am On Dec 23, 2021
Dshocker:


Am telling you,so get ready;your guy will impregnate you very soon
I no get boyfriend tongue tongue
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by ILoveDemMANNA: 9:20am On Dec 23, 2021
Their choice
Re: Why Do Men Now Insist On Getting A Woman Pregnant Before Marriage? by Hotzone(m): 9:22am On Dec 23, 2021
Talk tru, u self don born pikin using the same format

Anything that works, marriage without piking na shayo

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