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Jay5mie:





Thank God for nairaland o, woman no fit use my head again.

Everyday new wahala

But guys, stop taking women seriously, they are not worth it.

It is not joke bro. You really need to thank God for nairaland. I wish I knew this in my formative years I would have been more careful with women

@op

It's a man's world bro! What you do afterwards determines.
Some would say I am heartless... only if they knew how sweet I was so many many years ago.

The only thing that arouses me these days is the sweet thoughts of solving problems and helping people.
Woman show person shege...
My ability was their inability... these days my inability na still their inability. Man no die man no rotten after all the beautiful one are yet to be born.

If you don't gerrit forgerrit.

@op... Sha, don't stop being good ooo cos you sound like a very good man. It's her loss not yours.
Afterall, na you dey pay the freaking bills. So wtf!!!

hotwax:
i dont think she is into hookup. She just wanted to have a fling..one night stand...most ladies do..even the decent and faithful ones...

one guy will just come from nowhere and he will bang them...

I never saw any sign of infidelity in her...

I didnt disvirgin her, but she was well kept...I dont want to reveal everything

you are still making mouth

Lalas247:
Ekiate ..... come and summarise this trash please
Orisirisi Super story....

Proof or you know the rest..
Don't quote me quote ur mama

Your mumu suppose don do nah. Learn to condemn immoral acts with full chest. You always try so hard to have the back of the olosho or runz girls on NL.

hotwax:
fake story ASFCK, as if it happened to you...so u all expect me to put my name and address or the real timeline in my post.

what chemical do you have in your brains? Read stories on internet, op's story or op's relative, friends, brothers, sister story..u keep screaming fake story...as if the female folks have not done worse than this...

guess what, expect more stories, i get enough tory from my experiences... fake ko, fck ni

i am yet to recount what i went through at school...in the hands of girls. wait for it..watch out for more

And what is the point you'll be making with all these stories?

That you have zero game?

Lol. Victim mentality won't benefit your life so go and change whatever it is about you that women and girls shit on your head. Have some shame

.

After God, fear women.

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

Get behind me Satan. Processor kill you there.

For your girlfriend to fake her menstruation just to go on a proposed banging spree.... What is there to process again. Women will continue to process you for 666 years.

It's amazing people actually believe this story...

That's it. I've given up on youths

Go and a HIV and STD tests asap.

Ishilove:
It's amazing people actually believe this story...

That's it. I've given up on youths

Whether fictional or real.... It's none of our businesses. It happened everyday.

She is a prostitute in case you have forgotten. And a prostitute and the word respect are like fire and water, complete opposites.

Justkatty:
Could this be true
Same hotel
Same day
Same time

This is pure bullshit from her side.
No respect for herself and that of her man....op please try and put yourself together, sorry about that.

hotwax:
i dont think she is into hookup. She just wanted to have a fling..one night stand...most ladies do..even the decent and faithful ones...

one guy will just come from nowhere and he will bang them...

I never saw any sign of infidelity in her...

I didnt disvirgin her, but she was well kept...I dont want to reveal everything

If I were u, I would let her in, listen to her lies,take out her fake menstrual pad and bang d hell out of her….then continue catching cruise with her until she realizes that she’s just your Bleep mate

You were dealing with a professional ashawo.. me shaaa know some of them back then in school, and their always meet good men.

Thank God you caught her, God loves you and he wanted it to happen like that.
This my gender shaa will not stop disgracing us

AfroKnight:
My own is how can you say her menstruation is your joy?

Like, what the fùck does that mean?

That’s a figure of speech bro…Lol

tuboi:
If I were u, I would let her in, listen to her lies,take out her fake menstrual pad and bang d hell out of her….then continue catching cruise with her until she realizes that she’s just your Bleep mate

That's childish naa, It's best to let her go without giving any listening ear at all. She will forever regret her stupid act.

Justkatty:
I'm not disputing the fact that the girl wasn't at fault, but in other not to be bias, the new guy is also to be blamed.
He had every right admiring her, but letting his 3rd leg to be stupid was what wasn't cool
In all, the girl shares a bigger portion of stupidity..

You don't just get it, do you? One thing you don't know is that most guys don't give a Bleep whether a girl has a boyfriend, married or not. So blaming the guy, doesn't really count as far as the girl wasn't forced.

She devised every of the move herself, cooked up stories to make her boyfriend believe just to have the opportunity to bleep another guy and you are blaming the random guy for that?

As an adult, you are responsible for anything you do in this life. You can't blame another person for any action you embark on as a lady with your well thinking mind at any point in time.

Kriss216:
Post-Christmas breakfast.


Like I always say, only a foolish man will expect total loyalty from a Nigerian girlfriend.

Your beloved girlfriend is our community project. No reason am.

Can you guys stop this generalization? Does it mean they isn't good women out there? Does it mean most men aren't enjoying great relationship with one Nigerian woman out there? Please stop all this and change your mentality. Just wish, carefully, prayerfully to get a good lady.

"Women have deep desires often unknown to the men who love them".
-Spartacus.

Sonnobax15:

Na wa oh....

Relationship matters tire me oh I swear...... I don't know why good guys keep meeting bad bitches..

Sometimes I jealous this kinda babes back thenoo.. This ladies meet good men that can ride for them through thick or thin. But guy know go even dey aware of her babes hidden paro...

AbujaCitiBlog:
Most young ladies in Nigeria are into prostitution and lesbianism. Unless and until you understand that you will always be mugu to Nigerian girls.

Naa the "most" sef the vex me, how many of them have you seen?

It's worth careful reading.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Someone should summarize for us joor

Travelhouse Ibadan opposite Domino's. If this story happened, then OP must have been a real Simp for the girl to not worry about consequences and decide to Bleep right there and then.

Also, OP how the Bleep is her menstruation your joy? They should give you your SSN certificate (Senior Simp of Nigeria).

[quote author=Holywizard post=108885710]I pity a lot of guys. Even some of we guys that don't sleep with hookup ladies are sleeping with other people's lovers without hindrances [/quot







You sef why you come dey sleep with everything on skirt? This faithfulness sef naa for women only? We women are also protective, we also don't like it when you use that same amazing bedmatics you use on us for another person, she go dey mourn and enjoy on top my own man matter....nawaoo, or even dey enter any woman u see... Mehn!!! We can't even imagine it!!!No naa.
Society had made it that faithfulness is mandatory for women, but we women hate cheating too. It hurts us.....

[quote author=hotwax post=108871257]My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

Painful �

Every male on NairaLand is up in arms. You have given them the perfect cover to bash women and regal us with stories of betrayal by the opposite sex. If we continue with the mindset of bashing women when they reveal their true selves, we will only deepen the chasm between us and cause ourselves more heart ache.

Women are as human as we are, with their desires and motivations and likes. For several millenia, society forced them to deaden these desires and conform to norms set and stipulated by men. We now live in a generation where women have come into their own. They have broken free of the restriants we used to control them for ages and they are going after their desires just as men have been going after their own desires. There is nothing wrong with that.

The woman who disappointed you is NOT the problem. We meet a woman and we expect her to conform to the same millenia old norms we set for them. She complies despite her deep desires, simply because she does not have an alternative. Better still she pretends to comply while getting her desires fulfilled behind our backs. We do not bother to get to know our women: what are her deep desires and what drives her. There are loads of women all over the world who want an educated man who is also intelligent(do you fit that criteria?); a man who carries himself well(do you fit that criteria?); a man who is very good in bed(do you fit that criteria?), has enough money to take care of her needs and wants(do you fit that criteria?), in a manner that will satisfy her, etc. There are loads of women who do not truly want to be stuck with one man all their lives. They want different men in their beds on different days, etal. Presently, there are millions of women who smoke cigarrettes and smoke weed. But they hide it from you as they know you will bring your self sanctimonious attitude to bear if they reveal it to you(so they marry you so that society will say they are married. But when they meet a guy outside who smokes cigarrettes and weed, they will willingly give him their bodies regularly and come home to you afterwards and you'd be none the wiser. Or the day you find out, you rail about how she is a LovePeddler).

When you have not taken time to find out who she really is, how on earth are you going to know what drives her and her true deep desires? It is only when you truly know her that you will be able to make an informed decision as to whether you are able to satisfy her desires or support her in satisfying her desires, or to simply walk away and not get involved from the onset. She most probably felt the other guy at the hotel was livelier than you or looked more posh or maybe he promised her a whole load of cash, the type you may not be able to afford, etc. If you wanted a loyal woman, what work did you do to understand her character overtime and determine if she is the loyal type? If you wanted a woman who is not greedy, what extensive effort did you make to determine if she is someone who is contented with what she has or if she is someone who will follow a strange man for lucre, right under your nose? Whatever type of women we want, they are out there. We just have to put in the work to make sure the ones we want to take seriously have the qualities and values that are important to us. The days of taking qualities and values for granted or at face value are well and truly over.

There is nothing wrong with greed, or selfishness,or wantingmultiple sex partners. That is every individual's prerogative. What is wrong is men not doing the proper home work and expecting a woman to possess the values we want. Let's get off our asses and do our due diligence and stop bashing women. There are guys who may like girls who are greedy or girls who want multiple sex partners/smoke weed, just as there are guys(in the majority) who want someone with very different values. We just need to do our homework. Else, the vicious cycle will continue and women will continue to say " men are scum", and men will continue to say "Women are hoes", and all that crap we lob at each other.

A woman does not owe it to you to reveal her deep desires. It is our job to discover them. It is the same thing for women: men are not scum. You simply follow us without getting to know what truly drives us. Well, most of you know what drives men and yet you will end up calling us scum when you catch us with other women. If you want your man to be loyal to you, take your time and find the one who is loyal. Don't just ask me if I am a loyal man. I will answer you in the affirmative even if I am a junketing rabble rouser.

hotwax:
The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

That's so unreal. WTF?

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

My brother, accept my condolences. Never trust the other gender, even for once.

Ur such a beautiful writer, the way u tell a story is unbelievably human and the reader can imagine themselves as the Ist person narrator, ur experience is sad but u delivered such a heart rending story beautiful and with great craftsmanship, ur a natural!

I don't know what is wrong with the female gender. Only them can explain the technical configuration that goes on inside their brain. Even if you want to run that kind of parole, not when your guy was around? Like what sort of disrespect is that? Guy you just met today. I prefer to remain single and I have been for a long time now, and my sanity is intact. Relationship with a Naija babe is so hard. These babes don't know what they want. They allow their emotions to get the better of them. Even if the guy was hot looking, the fact that your bf is around, should even make you comport yourself.

hotwax:
My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.

She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle

The Problem

Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too.
I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.

She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in.
She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).

As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.

Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with.
She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.

She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.

Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.

I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.

It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.

Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.

“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.

The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.

And that's how life works. These bad bad girls are the ones who will end up with good men. While the good girls will end up with bad men. Life is so ironic sometimes.

gift0123:
You were dealing with a professional ashawo.. me shaaa know some of them back then in school, and their always meet good men.

Thank God you caught her, God loves you and he wanted it to happen like that.
This my gender shaa will not stop disgracing us