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The story na pure fiction

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

Well I don't blame hum but Nigeria conservative society. Alot of Nigerians both men and women in heterosexual relationship are actually homosexual. If society will just let them be then they wouldn't be pretending to be straight when they are not.

It's good u found out before the marriage, just take your L and move on, this doesn't make all men evil or make all men scum both of you were just victims of circumstances. It shouldn't also stop u from dating.

We4all:
My only grievance: You didn’t have to flush the ring. You should have just returned it.

Lol

She felt betrayed and not many people can handle betrayal easily especially the female gender.

"Ejaculating genders". Lol. Your story is quite a touchy one and unbelievably unfortunate. Both genders has one form of shortcomings or another when it relates to relationships. Just like you narrated in your accounts, that you loved him so much and the rest, I don't think that he loved you in return. The love you shared was not mutual. It's better you call things off! Marital journey is much more deeper than one might think.

It happens, life is not over there is correct parley for you.
Na me dey talk like this? Where is pastor righteousness 2? You are needed here. The world has come to n end for this lady why do you have to say?

qtguru:
if you sleep with a man you are a gay to me. That's how i see it

You're right, but a man that's sexually attracted to both both genders is bisexual.

thebosstrevor1:
You can't support gay people and then discriminate against a gay man that wants children from a woman.

That is hypocrisy.

It is like supporting anti racism campaigns but when black people come to you for job, you don't employ them.

A heterosexual woman cannot have a healthy and successful marriage with a gay man... the gay man will always go after a man...

In such a relationship, She’s just being used as a baby-making machine...... why would any woman allow herself be used in the name of supporting gay right

GurlFriend:
They will say they want their wives to always keep shape and when you are dating them, they will manage to maintain their 2 and 4 packs. After one year of marriage, they will upgrade to 10 gallon geepee tank. Yet it is still them that will come on Nairaland to say women are hoes

Lolzzzzzzzzzzz. U are not normal aswear

Why will you use an error from your ex to denial yourself another opportunity. That guy is not your husband that is why God allowed you to see the type of man you want to marry. Your own husband might be at the corner, so please don't say that you are done with men.

Loreettaa:
No one says alphabet people are animals. Even though animals clearly know the difference between male and female. The post clearly says why the op is upset. Don't talk trash.
He even has a small pencil. Spits!!!

All men have small pencils, when women don't get what they want or get dumped like low batteries

You are done with men just because you were dating a faggo.t. Go and start dating women nau. For you not to have noticed his sexual orientation for whole fuccking 2years mean say you no give your best in the relationship so stop crying foul.

helinues:
You actually ended up saying nothing

I can't imagine a schooled adult comparing homosexual to feminism!? probably he couldn't differentiate between both, this means he will take feminism for lesbianism.
too terrible.

ziondaughter247:
Most nairaland men are likely to be gay. No wonder they hate women...

My dear go and thank God. You dodged a bullet. Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage

lol. U go fear statement na. You've 90% more lesbians than you've gay. The unfortunate part is that the over exaggerated expectation of ladies attract the wrong people to them. Like the op said, she had countless wooers but fell flat for a gay just because of certain masculinities. You see one thing, most men that pay too much attention to their masculinity, be it beards, 6packs, pink lips et al, do av one or two cockroaches hidden. A man should look good, but paying too much attention to one's physical looks is not a male attribute.

Just seeing the caption, I taught you overreacted. After reading your write up, I believe you could have done better. 14 years jail time seems ideal

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

Calm down. We have done nothing

Don't know why I find this funny

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

MufasaLion:
You're right, but a man that's sexually attracted to both both genders is bisexual.

Most gay men are bisexual... they can get their dick up to fvck women...most of them start with fvcking women

They just love men more...

Nyascobar1414:
Ohh thats so bad....
Gays are mentally bleeped up...
As in how will you neglect breast and go for chest... As in wtf is wrong with gays...


Sister you said you done for love...
Dont say so rather...
Pray you find the right person...

But, pray for forgiveness..
Cos fornication is a different ball game

How old are u?

Cheap fake ass story after saying he last only 4minute he should take you 1hour to show his a man

Aunty , everybody has their life to live . You won't conclude , because your guy is gay , you now think all men are the same . Some guys drinks, some smoke, some take hard drugs , some like beting , some like watching football, some chase women , while there are some guys that don't do any of the mentioned activities . So your luck took you to the gay guy. That is why a pastor talked about warning signal, before you get married to anybody there is always a sign that will tell you to continue or stop . If the sign tell you to stop and you continue , you will be sorry for yourself . Thank GOD you stopped at the right time, instead of saying he will change , pray for him he will change.

MufasaLion:
You're right, but a man that's sexually attracted to both both genders is bisexual.

yes I know that, but what I hate is all these Bi people who try to mask as straight and be doing stuff Down-low.

Lastpharoah33:
Life is not fair.

With the kind of tales being dished here lately, one can unapologetically conclude that staying single is synonymous to a long healthy life.

You dey see am na.

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

I really don't understand this generalization. But it baffles me more that aside having these scums in your immediate family atleast that you love and respect, you will still most likely end up intentionally marrying a scum, opening your legs for him as you are probably currently active in, bringing forth children which may include little scums, taking care and raising a scum(s) and many other things you will do with hubbyscum. I just don't get it sha

LMAO, OP called them the "ejaculating gender" new word learnt today

Tch, even a dummy won't believe this fictious story laced with many loopholes.

OP seems like a nice girl...sorry for the painful revelation.

You said something about being beautiful, and not so aged,maybe I could get to know if you want.

GurlFriend:
If you are gay, why do you want to ruin an innocent woman's life?

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

...

advanceDNA:
Most gay men are bisexual... they can get their dick up to fvck women...most of them start with fvcking women

They just love men more...

Exactly! Nothing can make me feel attracted to men.

The reality of Nairaland Alpha males and Redpillers. . They want to get married to women to save faces while they secretly dish out their anuses for constant banging.


Op dodged bullet.

AfroKnight:
You lack manners. Ring you cannot afford, you flushed down the toilet. Destructive girl

you Wey get manners where has your manners taken you to?