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This is serious.

LilMissFavvy:
Very sensible comment. Exactly the same thing I keep saying.

the world today promotes so many abnormalities in the name of human rights. If the West wants to promote gay, it should remain with them and not force it down other nations.

Jyde89:
You said "men are hypocrites" and you said "you'll soon find the right one", conflicting phrases in one sentence, you mean she'll find the right hypocrite. An'oloriburuku lo po ju nnu yin se, confused iguana.

Keep crying on my post

Don't conclude.

AGurlnoname:
Keep crying on my post

Cry ke, that's your forte. I'm just highlighting your stvpidity.

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

How did he humiliate you? He cannot change, but wants love, a stable home and a partner, blame society for making him and his likes hide their true self.
You are over reacting, if we can reveal to you all men who are not just heterosexuals, you will faint, including some of your relatives.
He wanted to out himself to you stylishly, although it seems your meeting the other man is by accident.
Many gay men are married, off he had meant to hide it you will never know. Sorry for your discovery, your outing him may bounce back to hurt you too.

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

See this one....Men are scum mtchewww.

siofra:
This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

You don't mean well for her.

RxHero18:
Lol its quite unfortunate that this poor lady was dating a gay for 2 years without even realizing... This gay stuff is quietly penetrating into our society and nothing much is been done to stop it.

If you people had respected freedom of association and information, you will realize homosexuality even predates religion, is a biological phenomenon. But you keep pretending, " it's not African".

MartinsD12:
We the able men of nairaland sympathize with you on this , any man that is gay definitely will be wasting sperm there is going to be very weak in bed no wonder he doesn't last more that 4 minutes , gay people have shortage of sperm production, I advice you confront him peacefully to change his life and live straight and immediately take a walk out of the planned married infact leave that guy completely but help him to change his satanic lifestyle

Stop lying, a gay man can Bleep as good as any man. Any man can have erectile dysfunction, I suspect the OP is lying to ridicule the man, many women can be like that, how comes she never minded his "inadequate" dick, but wanted to marry him?
Tonto Dike, FFK's Chikwendu etc all said the same about the Ex lovers.

NGArmyTerrorist:
Nawaoo! Have you seen him putting on pampers before? You're lucky to see it on time but you can take him for deliverance if you truly love him, then help him out most of this people don't really know what they're doing. But if you can't, go your way. Moreover, you too needs a deliverance; if you had ever chop his gbola and enjoyed it "asaaa" you need a serious deliverance believe me. Remember that your guy had this particular issue doesn't mean I have the same problem; I am normal and I hate anything that goes into anus and the only thing I like coming out from the anus is "my personal poo" apart from that forget it. As it is now, you need someone that will help to mend your heart.

The "pampers" story is just for ridicule, in reality most gay Men are very masculine and healthy. Stop ranting stereotypes and pause to learn more about the world we live in.

kendological:
Stop lying, a gay man can Bleep as good as any man. Any man can have erectile dysfunction, I suspect the OP is lying to ridicule the man, many women can be like that, how comes she never minded his "inadequate" dick, but wanted to marry him?
Tonto Dike, FFK's Chikwendu etc all said the same about the Ex lovers.

She said she found out recently the guy is gay, and if you read it very well you will see where she said the guy doesn't last more than 4 minutes on bed , erectile dysfunction can be attributed to excessive gayism or excessive masturbation , but what I don't understand is why she is willing to marry him despite the 4 minutes poor sexxxx , her reason for calling off the wedding was because she is alleging the guy is gay having check the guy secret files on laptop that contains many gay and bisexual films not that she caught him in action

Hassanmaye:
What a terrible experience! A gay! God forbid, please never ever consider this guy again it's one of the reason why he is lazy in bed is because he is draining his energy/sperm on another man, just look at this please so disgusting, sorry sis, I hate gay men but its sad that this alien culture has come to Nigeria!

How much is your hate worth, nothing.

LilMissFavvy:
Very sensible comment. Exactly the same thing I keep saying.

I'm very sure you have no issues with lesbians.

Says who? Oga I am not in support of both.

BigBellyBurst:
I'm very sure you have no issues with lesbians.

LilMissFavvy:
Says who? Oga I am not in support of both.

See as you just dey spit fire and brimstone.

franchasng:
Lol


Honestly my wife seems to be lucky oh


I have no secret, no skeleton to hide, no nothing



My only little secret is that I love fine girls a lot, especially the ones with big bombom and flat tummy and my wife knows about this and it cracks her up a lot



I just keep wondering where Naija ladies de meet all these yeye boyfriends cos I know a lot of quality guys, quality as in financially loaded, success focused, well behaved, no sexual baggage except one or few flings.



And funny enough, most of these type of quality guys full online but our chicks sometimes dont recognize them cos they wanna see Graig David's kind of profile pictures and rich looking environment to measure how successful the guy is before replying his casual DM, but not knowing that truly loaded guys no de too.post pictures online unless posting such pictures brings him more money or more business.


Ladies make una wise up small....even Nairaland is a good place to hook up better guys who have less baggage, i know waaramsayin oh lol, cos when I been de completely single, I full ground here oh de observe lol, so dear ladies dont neglect any location or platform, correct guys are mostly found in strangest places lol



Op pele oh, take heart, better guys full ground, if to say my wife for gree make I marry more wives I for cast my net on Nairaland lol



I see polygamy solving Nigeria's marriage and dating challenges, I see Churches encouraging well to do men to take up more wives to close the gap of our brothers that refused to have sense, I see Nigerian ladies gladly accepting polygamy, this I have seen

Something tells me it's a woman behind this account.

There's something about this account that doesn't add up.

kendological:
How much is your hate worth, nothing.

Do you have a brain?

BRATISLAVA:
Aren't you the hypocrite? LMAO, what a load of trashcan assumptions you have there. If the truth is hurting you this badly, expect more. You think we should turn a blind eye to the lies and manipulation of men? You think the Uber drivers should be allowed to walk on the "flour"of women without fair judgement? You think only the narrative of men must be heard?

Thanks for following though. I have a secret admirer in you.

you are the hypocrite here!


chanell the energy you use to patrol cyber space & crucify men, to do something positive for your self or better still get a lawyer and pursue justice in court.

drop the hate in your heart or you may end up having cardiac arrest or siezuire one day!

in this coming 2022 try having a chill coffee,because you are salty

today na men turn,tommorow fit still be our turn, life no be turn by turn o!
you cant use your palm to cover the sky!!
"you keep proving mosdi right!
nigeria girls are useless
ALL OF THEM"

Loreettaa:
You meant the one who wears pampers to augment his leaky anus? The one who gives hiv out to his partners like Tom Tom? I'm pretty sure you fit the description.

i pity the man that marry or will marry you, because he will have to cope with the canal you have inbetween ya legs!
women keep sharing std since 1826
if wetin i talk vex you drink kunu! Inatago?

Loreettaa:
You meant the one who wears pampers to augment his leaky anus? The one who gives hiv out to his partners like Tom Tom? I'm pretty sure you fit the description.

i pity the man that marry or will marry you, because he will have to cope with the canal you have inbetween ya legs!
women keep sharing std since 1826
if wetin i talk vex you drink kunu! Inatago?

Kpele Maami....

We all have been served one time or the other in this crazy world.

myfantasies:
I am still trying trying to recover from mine , I have not had food or sleep for days now.

Boniwhite:
you are the hypocrite here!


chanell the energy you use to patrol cyber space & crucify men, to do something positive for your self or better still get a lawyer and pursue justice in court.

drop the hate in your heart or you may end up having cardiac arrest or siezuire one day!

in this coming 2022 try having a chill coffee,because you are salty

today na men turn,tommorow fit still be our turn, life no be turn by turn o!
you cant use your palm to cover the sky!!
"you keep proving mosdi right!
nigeria girls are useless
ALL OF THEM"

Who told you I'm a Nigerian or a girl? Carry your recycled opinions to another mention.

You are the one who may end up having a cardiac arrest and seizures while you continue trying to downgrade females and pretending you're doing something nobler.

Mosdee who is killing snakes on the forest floor is who you look to for advice on Nigerian girls. Are we surprised with your type of commentary?

Loreettaa:
Sebi lion dey live for your backyard ni? How many times have you seen a lion in your lifetime to validate the nonsense you put up there?
This rotten homosexual LGBT lifestyle is destroying America and also showing its ugly head down here. No wonder, China is doing well by taking sissy men off TV.
The more you view something, the lesser your dislike for it. The more normal it begins to look.
Now pedophiles are pushing seriously to be accepted. Mad people.

Who's pushing pedophile is not religious Muslim people. Go and fuçk a 16 yrs old in America if they will not jail you. It's you Nigerian fighting against homosexuality that's still pushing for pedophiles.

I don't need to have lions in my backyard to their behavior.

If homosexuality is destroying America then what has destroyed Nigeria and Africa as a whole.

Because if u think America is destroying then Africa is already destroyed.

LilMissFavvy:
They are commiting an offense because they will continue to recruit innocent people to practice their queer lifestyles. The 14yrs sentence is not bad at all

They don't recruit people in being queer. One cannot be recruited into having a particular sexual orientation.
Stop talking like a dummy.

Nyascobar1414:
Are you gay?

Nope but you sound like a child.

BRATISLAVA:
Who told you I'm a Nigerian or a girl? Carry your recycled opinions to another mention.

You are the one who may end up having a cardiac arrest and seizures while you continue trying to downgrade females and pretending you're doing something nobler.

Mosdee who is killing snakes on the forest floor is who you look to for advice on Nigerian girls. Are we surprised with your type of commentary?

I don advice you whether you take it or not is up to you bye bye!

Techguy96:
Nope but you sound like a child.

But you sound like gay!

BRATISLAVA:
Who told you I'm a Nigerian or a girl? Carry your recycled opinions to another mention.

You are the one who may end up having a cardiac arrest and seizures while you continue trying to downgrade females and pretending you're doing something nobler.

Mosdee who is killing snakes on the forest floor is who you look to for advice on Nigerian girls. Are we surprised with your type of commentary?

Yiimu ! your reasoning gives you out as a nigerian and the way you handle issues depict you are a typical naija gurl now whu needs oracle

Nyascobar1414:
Hoe, you tryna defend your sister in the same hood?

Ain't no sister in no hood faggo.t!

Nyascobar1414:
But you sound like gay!

And u think that's an insult?
Mumu

[quote author=Techguy96 post=108944760]And u think that's an insult? Mumu[/quote
Its not an insults.... But once you dig a ass, your heart is always fill with guilt... Change for the better.. Now that the grace is there

Boniwhite:
I don advice you whether you take it or not is up to you bye bye!

I don't take it.

In return I've given you your advice. Thanks, friend.