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| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Trustedpronet: 1:01pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Before you hate on your father...what work is he doing for a living? |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by BOOKWORMLUX(m): 1:01pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
We need the Holy Spirit in our families. So many confusion in homes these days. The Matter tire me no be small. With God, everything is possible. We don't have the fear of God, that's why we get involved in silly things like this that shouldn't be seen in someone who's in line with God's word. Holy Spirit take over........ |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by gazza07(m): 1:02pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Dj please kindly play "no love" by Lil Wayne |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by JusticeYisraEL: 1:04pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Make una swear for am back na |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Biodun556(m): 1:04pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Some fathers are terrible, I have experience. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Uyi168: 1:05pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Solsix:. abegii... |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by vivalavida(m): 1:06pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:You swear on your life You have started swearing already. You might turn out to be your father in future. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Guyman02: 1:06pm On Dec 30, 2021*. Modified: 1:22pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
We can see from these kids abusing their fathers on Nairaland while buying cars for their mums the damage that is being done to this generation with regards to their fathers, it means that they have given up on their fathers who may be quickly abandoned to die if he falls seriously ill and they won't miss him. They would rather do Yahoo and use the money to celebrate their mothers instead of helping their fathers whom they don't know what he goes through to keep them alive till the age whence they are able to log on to Nairaland and rain abuses on them. Men, this is no longer about redpill, plan for your future, we have raised very weak men and it seems every man is on his own now |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by DropsMic(m): 1:07pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Solsix: |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Freerhyme1(m): 1:07pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
I bet ur dad is from Delta(Igbo speaking part) Na their way be that, cos they can marry multiple wives without taking care of the multiple children |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Karemarealty288(m): 1:07pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Alphafeezay:
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| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by pinknipple: 1:08pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:you have my blessings, son. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
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| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by phemmyfour: 1:09pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:Some Families do have them |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by LLSAINT(m): 1:09pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
It is not a good omen to the children when fathers are abusive My cent is this: 1. Leave your father's house and stay away from him. 2. Inform your mom or elderly uncles to talk to him to stop such abusive statements on the children. 3. On your part, go and start hustling and no matter how small, send him money thereafter, seek for his prayers thereby averting the silly statements or curses he might have made either out of anger or frustration. Indeed, he is frustrated and needs to be talked to but do not reply him abusively but always reject his silly statements and turn them to positives and blessings for no one calls you inferior without your permission.. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by marsup: 1:09pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Are you sure, he is your father? Ask your mom, why he is like that, there must be a reason. However, it's inexcusable, for a man to keep cursing kids, you should get somewhere else to stay, before he drives you insane. Situations like these, most times, could cause an irredeemable psychological break down. So sorry. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Wetin una dey do before him dey swear for Una |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by LyfeJennings(m): 1:11pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:Lol Sorry bro but your dad is a nincompoop |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Sundrus: 1:12pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Unfortunate father wey no suppose marry or get offspring |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by updatedws: 1:12pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:Mr man u think u know it all... are u trying to say there are no bad fathers? stop thinking everyone's case is similar to yours Nairaland is littered with stories of fathers impregnating their daughters. what's ur defence about such fathers? there are bad father's and OP is likely a victim of one. stop generalizing and thinking u know it all. and for u living on ur own and owning a car in ur 20s, thank ur stars. there are people who work hard day and night but find it difficult to make meaningful success for obvious reasons. this is Nigeria time and chance bro. stop blowing ur trumpet and more importantly, stop thinking u know everyone's conditions |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Solsix:Not only to your father, hatred of any kind prevents you from thinking straight, just free your mind and embrace peace with everyone. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Josywhyte: 1:14pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
My dear. Most parents are like that. Just tell him that if e better for una tomorrow him go enjoy him sweat wey e take train una but if him continue like this and bad things(God forbid) do una na him go still use head carry am |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by HRSweetness(f): 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma, I'm so sorry you had to go through such traumatic experience. I pray God helps you achieve your concluding paragraph because like you said, the experiences you had has shaped you to becoming an angry, aggressive man. I recall Chris Brown's interview with Tyra Banks, where he described his dad as a terrible man who constantly physically abused his mum. He also vowed never to be like his mum. Next thing, he was on the news for beating Rihanna to a pulp. Studies have also shown that kids raised in toxic environment mostly end up as toxic adults cos that's the only way of life they saw and knew. So my dear brother, the only way you can't end up like your dad is to deal with the anger issues and choose to liberate your self from the pain, hurt, unforgiveness, anger and hate you feel. Sending you hugs. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by respect80(m): 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:Oga, d calm down. Abi this reply been d wait for this post?? |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Nobody: 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:This is solely metaphor: Angels are being birthed into demonic families. The home you are raised is a training ground to strengthen you for what is to come. Your Father on Earth most likely is not from your Soul family, so what you needed from your present Earthly family was their DNA, their care as infant but it is now time to move on to greater things. Try as much as you can to reward him and her for providing you a DNA and a womb and infantile care, but it is now time for you to move on, otherwise, your toolbox aka brain will be fuccked. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Guyman02: 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2021*. Modified: 8:08pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:You are abusing an elder for voicing his opinion while you are accusing your father of cursing his children always. What you have displayed above is enough for anyone to access your personality, your father deserves a bottle of beer for not pretending about the kind of kids he has ![]() In another thread this boy give person daughter belle and said his parents were happy for him, the girls parents see him as a tout and bad mannered and he planned to inflict harm on them
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| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by LandMann: 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
[s] NwaAmaikpe:[/s] Load of bullshit. Hope you don't become a father like the ops father. Some of you who have been fortunate in life always have myopic views and fail to see emotional and psychological suffering of others due to ill-treatment. Your post stinks |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by jumper524(m): 1:17pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:no be everything be savage. You can choose to disbelief him rather than concluding off point directly as though you know d father. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Elidrisy20: 1:17pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Maybe is because of the economy, the hardship he is facing, that is driving him insane |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by trutht828: 1:17pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:What are you still doing in your father's house at your age? Are you useless to yourself or what? Are you sure your father doesn't have a good reason to hate you? A 20 something year old man still living in his father's house. That's disgusting. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by Mo10go(m): 1:18pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
I'm sorry for all you've gone through bro through your papa, My dad called once in this year cus he believe that nothing better can come through me to him, I couldn't remember if he called more than 6 times when I was in university but I proved him wrong today and I'll continue to prove him wrong, he didn't know I'm in Lagos for the past 3 months working in a company, i want to send him 20k for Christmas but I come to think of it again WHY someone that doesn't give a sh*t about me nor my siblings, I said no, my sister is paying up to 150k next year for school fees and accommodation, have told my Mom that I'll pay half of it, so why bothered about a father that living his life with a abandoned mother of 6?, I always think about my Mom and the rest so my brother the only thing to make you stop that nonsense is you working hard, believe me someone will tell him that you making it. |
| Re: My Father Always Swears For Us His Children by specialmati(m): 1:18pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:your family need jesus instead of filling your heart with hatred for your father why not fill it with Jesus and the problem in your family be solved.something went wrong thou but Jesus can solve it. |
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