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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Richy4(m): 7:32am On Dec 30, 2021
How did she get hold of your girl friend's number....There are so many loopholes in this story though

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by flames007(m): 9:38am On Dec 30, 2021
Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything she took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere I couldn't reached her to speak with my children. I have tried teaching her parents to no avail but now that things are going well for me my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God grace. Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend she is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this not girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she want to play victim and putting the blame on my girl. I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do
You forgot to tell us the most important thing: did you formally Divorce your ex? let's start from there.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by emmanuelbrown26: 10:13am On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often... undecided

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife? undecided

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours? undecided
I know u are matured enough to comprehend, u said that the ex wife blocked him from reaching her and the children when things were rough and tough.
She never bordered to check on the guy during the hardtime but now things are rosy through the help of op brother inlaw, the wicked daughter of eve and jezebeel now wants to reap where she did not sow.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by emmanuelbrown26: 10:15am On Dec 30, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.
That's one thing I hate about bitches, didn't u read where op said that it was his elder sister husband that uplifted him? Not brother of the so called daughter of eve and jezebeel (wife)

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:19am On Dec 30, 2021
Shut the fucckkk up you numbskull*. So your blank skulll dosen't tell you that information was not there and it has just been modified/added?
emmanuelbrown26:

That's one thing I hate about bitches, didn't u read where op said that it was his elder sister husband that uplifted him? Not brother of the so called daughter of eve and jezebeel (wife)

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Unique357: 11:41am On Dec 30, 2021
flames007:
You forgot to tell us the most important thing: did you formally Divorce your ex? let's start from there.

We are not yet divorced but I am planning to next year

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Unique357: 11:44am On Dec 30, 2021
Richy4:
How did she get hold of your girl friend's number....There are so many loopholes in this story though

Her number is easier to get because she is a baker her number is advertised on her social media and business card.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by emmanuelbrown26: 11:51am On Dec 30, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Shut the fucckkk up you numbskull*. So your blank skulll dosen't tell you that information was not there and it has just been modified/added?
Hey bitch, take it easy on yourself

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Kirkman: 12:14pm On Dec 30, 2021
everythinggirly:
E choke o. Abeg call her one on one and tell her pump and plain that you are done. She left, why is she back? Because the grass is greener now? Heck!
One on one keh! You want her to stabb him? The silly runaway woman is scorned already.
And hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by flames007(m): 1:13pm On Dec 30, 2021
Unique357:


We are not yet divorced but I am planning to next year
That explains why she still has all that audacity. Formalize the divorce and probably file for a court restraining order or something.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Kobojunkie: 2:18pm On Dec 30, 2021
emmanuelbrown26:

I know u are matured enough to comprehend, u said that the ex wife blocked him from reaching her and the children when things were rough and tough.
She never bordered to check on the guy during the hardtime but now things are rosy through the help of op brother inlaw, the wicked daughter of eve and jezebeel now wants to reap where she did not sow.
Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often... undecided

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife? undecided

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours? undecided

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Kobojunkie: 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2021
Unique357:
We are not yet divorced but I am planning to next year
So you haven't in fact divorced her, then why do you refer to her as your ex wife when you are both legally married still? undecided

Also, about your children, are you at least funding their upkeep or are you also assuming that responsibility is not longer yours because your wife left with them? undecided

I suggest you go back and set things right .I.e.

1. Get a divorce from her
2. Ensure the welfare of your children with her is properly taken care of

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Kobojunkie: 2:22pm On Dec 30, 2021
flames007:
That explains why she still has all that audacity. Formalize the divorce and probably file for a court restraining order or something.
Audacity ke? The law is on her side in this since she is his legal wife still undecided

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by piroux(f): 3:36pm On Dec 30, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.


Are you being sarcastic?

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by ImoleNaija: 5:14pm On Dec 30, 2021
longetivity:
Na Ogun go kill ur ex

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by dingbang(m): 5:15pm On Dec 30, 2021
Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?
such messages to your wife are life threatening and should be reported to the police.
Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by ivolt: 5:16pm On Dec 30, 2021
Your story is confusing.
Were you actually married? Have you divorced her?

How did your ex-wife gets so close to you that she knows everything about your girlfriend?

Modified:
This is likely a fake story. This same OP was complaining about his wife not buying cloth
for their maid, less than 2 years ago. How he went from being rich to broke to rich again, divorcing and acquiring
a new girlfriend within a spate of 2 years is real wonder.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2021
dingbang:
such messages to your wife are life threatening and should be reported to the police.
The woman sending the message is his wife, the other, his girlfriend. undecided

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by izibili44: 5:19pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife? undecided

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours? undecided
you no read well. He say the woman not let am see the children. How him wan fund children wen him no get access to.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by flames007(m): 5:19pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Audacity ke? The law is on her side in this since she is his legal wife still undecided
we're saying the same thing: since they're still married, she still has every right(which she's obviously abusing). once he secures a divorce, things will start to take shape.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by OkoroPeugeot(m): 5:19pm On Dec 30, 2021
You haven't divorced her?

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by yorubarere: 5:20pm On Dec 30, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet sad ? Yet want to dump her?
Where did you see that? Comprehension is not your thing.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by ReneeNuttall(f): 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
everythinggirly:
E choke o. Abeg call her one on one and tell her pump and plain that you are done. She left, why is she back? Because the grass is greener now? Heck!


Madam adviser do u know why she left him in the first instance?If it was due to him cheating in her with the said girlfriend?you shouldn't make ur conclusions untill u find out from both sides.

His wife can't just leave him like that after 10 years of marriage. OP did not state the real reason why his wife left him with the kids.You self think am.

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Blendy77(f): 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
Our gender wahala no dey finish. We no sabi endure these days yet wont allow the man hav peace after abandoning the home. Your ex just realized the going she thought was for the best is not as rosy as she envisaged and want to make a you turn grin
Please invite both families, as in your family and ex wife's family for a meeting and address the issue properly. Divorce her officially if you haven't done so and hav an agreement signed for the kid's upkeep. You need to take care of them if you havent been doing that. It's their mum that offended you so they are still your responsibility.

Finally move your new family very far from your ex. You don't need any toxic, negative bad energy around your new family. All d best

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by yorubarere: 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Try to engage those brain cells of yours every so often... undecided

Again, Did you get a divorce from her or is she still legally your wife? undecided

Have you at least been funding the upkeep for your other two children? Or did you reason that since the woman ran away with them,they are no longer yours? undecided
How will he legally divorce and fund the kids when there is not medium of communication? I think you should engage your brain cells more

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by TemmyT002(m): 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
Wait o. When you called her your exwife, do you mean you divorced her legally or divorced her by word of mouth?

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:21pm On Dec 30, 2021
But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.
When you say your brother-in-law,
Do you mean this your same so called ex-wife's brother or your sister's hubby or what exactly?

Make una dey clarify matter before bringing it to the public abeg.
There are two sides to every story,
If we ask your so called ex-wife her side of the story now,
Na another story we go hear..
#JustMusing

LilMissFavvy:
You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet sad ? Yet want to dump her?
Wow!
You are so in our minds @MANNA.
Sometimes we make a comment and later see that someone here is thinking the same thing we are thinking or vice versa.
Tho he didn't specifically say that it was his ex wife's brother, (ee can't vouch for him, cos we don't know him) but you made a good point overall.
God bless you and give you more wisdom and knowledge Favour of God! kiss

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by OmegaAutos: 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
You said your ex wife's brother helped you with business and you are now back on your feet sad ? Yet want to dump her?

he didnt specify

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by yorubarere: 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
It is o. So he wants to take the fruits of his ex wife's family and feed a new wife? Maddoo . That wife should wake up and teach them a lesson. He is supposed to forgive her as long as he benefitted from his ex family. I know the wife did badly by leaving her matrimonial home, but shes back to take her place.
So na only wife brother be in law? What happens to his own sisters' husbands? What do you call them?

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Kobojunkie: 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2021
izibili44:
you no read well. He say the woman not let am see the children. How him wan fund children wen him no get access to.
So long as he is married to her and the father of those kids, they remain his responsibility and access to them is guaranteed him by law so why didn't he pursue that before now? . undecided

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Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by vickydevoka(m): 5:22pm On Dec 30, 2021
Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?
Arrest her abeg. Na police go settle una. Stop saying for de saje of ur kids

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